escorts vs civvies

[corrector]

I agree with you, if you can believe It. Why dont you ask a mod to move all escort threads to the "Anything Else" Forum?

That aspect itself is debatable as escorts are women (at least in this discussion). There are other threads on here that could be argued to belong to "anything else", but it's only a thread that strikes at the heart about the reality that guys on the spectrum are facing when dealing with women that they can find no other viable cope other than using an escort is really unfair to auspies and those on the spectrum that is being picked on like this. How extremely insensitive to guys who have these challenges to know that other posters will gang-up on them and say their issues are not important because they are not normal guys and treat it like a normal guy was making such a thread.

Have some respect to the socially handicapped and stop picking on their threads. If it was a "normal" guy making an escort thread that didn't have any issues being social with women, then that's another story. This is like picking on an underdog.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

That aspect itself is debatable as escorts are women (at least in this discussion). There are other threads on here that could be argued to belong to "anything else", but it's only a thread that strikes at the heart about the reality that guys on the spectrum are facing when dealing with women that they can find no other viable cope other than using an escort is really unfair to auspies and those on the spectrum that is being picked on like this. How extremely insensitive to guys who have these challenges to know that other posters will gang-up on them and say their issues are not important because they are not normal guys and treat it like a normal guy was making such a thread.

Have some respect to the socially handicapped and stop picking on their threads. If it was a "normal" guy making an escort thread that didn't have any issues being social with women, then that's another story. This is like picking on an underdog.

Such a crock and excuse- I am diagnosed as adhd and I stopped medication a good time ago.

This is more on the heavier side of the spectrum: autism.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

This was meant as a thread to discuss both escorts and non-escorts.

It isn't exclusively an escort thread.

No, this is a thread about prostitutes VERSUS non-prostitutes, and while this is probably good fodder for one of your PROSTITUTE FORUMS, it has NO BUSINESS on a forum where men try to learn how to seduce / court women.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Have some respect to the socially handicapped and stop picking on their threads. If it was a "normal" guy making an escort thread that didn't have any issues being social with women, then that's another story. This is like picking on an underdog.

Why don't you go talk about prostitutes on your prostitute forums, where you can discuss with the other wh0remongers what the cost benefits are of renting pvssy?
What do prostitutes have to do with "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice."?

 

[corrector]

Why don't you go talk about prostitutes on your prostitute forums, where you can discuss with the other wh0remongers what the cost benefits are of renting pvssy?
What do prostitutes have to do with "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice."?

Trying to pick a fight? Like I told you, it is against my religion. (ie those sites have porn-video gifs/images/soft-core porn peppered all over the place and I'm not interested to going to any place that is that triggering. I do not actually visit escorts on religious related reasons, but talking about them seems to get a pass because the bible also talks about them too). I am defending the primciple that this should be a safe space for the OP given his admitted.condition. You really want @Serenity attention again?

 

[corrector]

The fact this thread has over 305 replies shows how important this topic is concerning the plight of socially challenged people to the general discussion.

If you cant talk to girls then money talks (ie not intended to encourage visiting paid hors).

 

[corrector]

As a guy who's been with non-escorts too, I know what you mean. I just have a hard time getting a woman who truly desires me.

Instead of saying non-escort why not distinsh by saying paid hor vs hor? Unless you are talking about a good girl who is not skeeping around, they are all hors anyway right? After all, the only difference is one like money and the other likes looks.

 

[GoodMan32]

That aspect itself is debatable as escorts are women (at least in this discussion). There are other threads on here that could be argued to belong to "anything else", but it's only a thread that strikes at the heart about the reality that guys on the spectrum are facing when dealing with women that they can find no other viable cope other than using an escort is really unfair to auspies and those on the spectrum that is being picked on like this. How extremely insensitive to guys who have these challenges to know that other posters will gang-up on them and say their issues are not important because they are not normal guys and treat it like a normal guy was making such a thread.

Have some respect to the socially handicapped and stop picking on their threads. If it was a "normal" guy making an escort thread that didn't have any issues being social with women, then that's another story. This is like picking on an underdog.

Well-said. Charlie Sheen (as well as Charlie Harper, his Two and a Half Men persona), for example, could easily get a free woman. Yet he utilizes escorts anyway. It's one thing to mock Charlie. I, on the other hand, am no Charlie.

 

[GoodMan32]

Such a crock and excuse- I am diagnosed as adhd and I stopped medication a good time ago.

This is more on the heavier side of the spectrum: autism.

ADHD simply means you're hyperactive, have a hard time focusing, etc.

I've never even heard of ADHD getting lumped in with the spectrum.

 

[corrector]

ADHD simply means you're hyperactive, have a hard time focusing, etc.

I've never even heard of ADHD getting lumped in with the spectrum.

That guy help me with a scam with that fake Asian girl that was trying to lure me into some investment scheme so I'm going to go easy on him or I'm just not don't get too triggered by his posts. He is the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" type of poster and thinks visiting escorts is counter-productive to self-improvement goals. However, you have a rare opportunity of making the case here that this is helpful or can complement any self-improvement program that helps you get better with women.

For example, if I were using escorts, maybe I'd make a goal for myself and say, that I'm going to approach 100 women and if I don't get laid by the end of the day and reach that 100th woman, then I'm going to visit an escort as a negative-reward for making the effort. See, that's how I think that could fit into a self-improvement schema. Maybe you might start out at a lower number, like approach 10 women before seeing another escort, etc....

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Well-said. Charlie Sheen (as well as Charlie Harper, his Two and a Half Men persona), for example, could easily get a free woman. Yet he utilizes escorts anyway. It's one thing to mock Charlie. I, on the other hand, am no Charlie.

Charlie Sheen is controversial and not a male role model.
As to him using escorts, he's been quoted to say that he doesn't pay them to come, he pays them to leave. When you're a celebrity, picking up women runs the risk of the woman trying to entrench herself in your life. Sheen hires escorts to not have the drama of kicking a woman out of the house.

 

[GoodMan32]

No, this is a thread about prostitutes VERSUS non-prostitutes, and while this is probably good fodder for one of your PROSTITUTE FORUMS, it has NO BUSINESS on a forum where men try to learn how to seduce / court women.

Yeah, escorts vs non-escorts. Which means the topic of courting a non-escort is part of the discussion too.

Believe me, I'd love to seduce/court a woman. But as a guy who has a hard time even picking up on clues a woman is into me (and a guy whose instinct of what to say to a woman is wrong in most cases), it's an uphill battle. It would be one thing if I were some naive 15 year old. But I'm in my 30s.

 

[GoodMan32]

Instead of saying non-escort why not distinsh by saying paid hor vs hor? Unless you are talking about a good girl who is not skeeping around, they are all hors anyway right? After all, the only difference is one like money and the other likes looks.

Good point. The type of women guys on this forum are going for aren't the wait-until-marriage Amish types. It's simply a matter of paid ho vs free ho.

Even if I'm not a 10/10, those who have seen my picture on this forum (including you) have said I'm not bad in the looks department. Looks aren't my problem; social awkwardness is (Which, in a way, makes it more frustrating. I could totally pull free hos with ease if it weren't for my social awkwardness)

 

[GoodMan32]

Charlie Sheen is controversial and not a male role model.
As to him using escorts, he's been quoted to say that he doesn't pay them to come, he pays them to leave. When you're a celebrity, picking up women runs the risk of the woman trying to entrench herself in your life. Sheen hires escorts to not have the drama of kicking a woman out of the house.

Even though one reason I utilize escorts is to bypass the headaches and uncertainty that come with trying to get a free woman when on the spectrum, I also pay the escort to leave. I don't have the mental energy for a relationship; all I want is a smash piece.

So it's not as simple as "find a girlfriend" (since I don't want a girlfriend). A guy on the spectrum can find a girlfriend if he tries hard enough (I've had a girlfriend before). Getting a woman who's ok with only being your smash piece, on the other hand? Very few women want to be a guy on the spectrum's smash piece. If a woman is going to be a smash piece, they want a football Alpha.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

... it is against my religion. (ie those sites have porn-video gifs/images/soft-core porn peppered all over the place and I'm not interested to going to any place that is that triggering.

That's your reason for promoting prostitutes on a site dedicated to meeting women. Weakness of character and religious hypocrisy.

Just imagine the religious consequences of converting even one member to your notion that there's nothing wrong with wh0remongering.

At least keep this shyte where it belongs. In Anything Else, not in the advice discussion for inexperienced men.

 

[corrector]

That's your reason for promoting prostitutes on a site dedicated to meeting women. Weakness of character and religious hypocrisy.

How am I promoting prostitutes if I don't visit them myself? (find a post where I admitted to visiting an escort at any point after Dec 5, 2014, being the last 9-10 years. Does someone who has refused/stopped visiting any escort in about a decade fit the profile of someone who is promoting prostitutes? If anything, if I would promote prostitutes then THAT would be hypocritical since I should be visiting them with some degree of frequency if I was promoting that)

In fact, smartypants, can you find a post where I admitted to having vaginal-sex with any woman apart from my ex-wife? If you go into details about the posts with the two escorts I did visit, you do realize no actual sex happened in either of those visits? I'm making this challenge to you right now because you are intent into putting words and narratives that I've never said and you have this warped version that simply not true at all.

1) You will never find a single post, out of the near 9000 posts on here where:
a) I admitted to having vaginal sex with ANY woman apart from my ex-wife (who I was married with at the time)
b) Had vaginal sex with any prostitute
c) Visited any prostitute/escort after Dec 5, 2014

Go and examine all the posts or really just shut-up.

Just imagine the religious consequences of converting even one member to your notion that there's nothing wrong with wh0remongering.

I never said there was nothing wrong with wh0remongering. (find a post where I said that and quote it here) You do realize that religious discussions are banned on here and I was warned not to bring religion into any topic? Apart from that aspect (which I'm not allowed to discuss), I have nothing else to say about it as I've only voiced against this from a spiritual aspect, not a monetary, physical or emotional aspect, so it would appear that I don't see anything wrong with it which would be a misinterpretation.

In fact, any careful look at my posts will say that unless you are married to a woman, then sex with the woman is morally wrong period.
Therefore, what makes sex with a prostitute wrong, is only concern is if I'm actually married to her or not at the time I'm having sex with her. Casual sex would also be wrong. Relationship sex would also be wrong. However, that's not the discussion here.

In fact, you've mocked my stance when I did write against this (ie talking about this in strictly spiritual terms).

At least keep this shyte where it belongs. In Anything Else, not in the advice discussion for inexperienced men.

You didn't say "Anything Else" on your other post. You said the board as a whole. You are reframing what you said so it does not sound as bad. That was not what you said.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Instead of saying non-escort why not distinsh by saying paid hor vs hor? Unless you are talking about a good girl who is not skeeping around, they are all hors anyway right? After all, the only difference is one like money and the other likes looks.

This mindset is destructive.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Good point. The type of women guys on this forum are going for aren't the wait-until-marriage Amish types. It's simply a matter of paid ho vs free ho.

Even if I'm not a 10/10, those who have seen my picture on this forum (including you) have said I'm not bad in the looks department. Looks aren't my problem; social awkwardness is (Which, in a way, makes it more frustrating. I could totally pull free hos with ease if it weren't for my social awkwardness)

‘not bad’. Looks are the problem.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Even though one reason I utilize escorts is to bypass the headaches and uncertainty that come with trying to get a free woman when on the spectrum, I also pay the escort to leave. I don't have the mental energy for a relationship; all I want is a smash piece.

So it's not as simple as "find a girlfriend" (since I don't want a girlfriend). A guy on the spectrum can find a girlfriend if he tries hard enough (I've had a girlfriend before). Getting a woman who's ok with only being your smash piece, on the other hand? Very few women want to be a guy on the spectrum's smash piece. If a woman is going to be a smash piece, they want a football Alpha.

Go to ‘Anything Else’ ‘ wh*remonger all day long.

 

[patb]

This monetization of women, sex & relationships is alien. Like women are a commodity. Interchangeable life-support systems for a Vag. No comprende.

That’s the oldest reality in the world. All the posturing about it in this thread is, like the posturing elsewhere on this board, just silly.