needimprovement250
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I’ve wanted to make a thread about this video ever since @corrector tagged me in that thread about the HealthyGamerGG video on adult virgins. I came across this video awhile ago and I found it pretty useful and informative. I’m not sure if I would hire Nick as a coach or not as I already have someone else in mind for that and he specializes in guys who are inexperienced at an older age, but Nick does give some good advice in this video.
For me, my lack of experience at 30 holds me back so much and has proven to be a huge mental block from me even making any effort to date or meet women. I just keep thinking that I’m now stuck in an infinite loop of rejection where I will keep going out on dates and then be rejected each and every time just because women will be so turned off by my lack of experience. I keep telling myself that no one is going to want to be a 30 year old guy’s first girlfriend and I’ve now missed the boat.
This video helped me see through this mindset, but it isn’t gone of course and probably won’t ever be until I’m more experienced. But one question I have for everyone here is how often do women ask you about your past relationships and dating history? That one topic of conversation alone keeps me and so many other guys in this situation out of dating altogether.
For me, my lack of experience at 30 holds me back so much and has proven to be a huge mental block from me even making any effort to date or meet women. I just keep thinking that I’m now stuck in an infinite loop of rejection where I will keep going out on dates and then be rejected each and every time just because women will be so turned off by my lack of experience. I keep telling myself that no one is going to want to be a 30 year old guy’s first girlfriend and I’ve now missed the boat.
This video helped me see through this mindset, but it isn’t gone of course and probably won’t ever be until I’m more experienced. But one question I have for everyone here is how often do women ask you about your past relationships and dating history? That one topic of conversation alone keeps me and so many other guys in this situation out of dating altogether.
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