So what are those hookups happening with women who just wanna get laid on Tinder? Im saying are those women just down for ONS type thing?Over the past year, I have had the chance to talk to guys who are getting laid a lot in 2023, I mean having a date every other day that turns into a lay or getting laid multiple times a week. Here is how they are meeting women.
Online dating is a clear cut number one.
I hate to say it, online dating wins by a country mile. The threshold has gotten higher but at the same time, the guys who meet that threshold now are getting a larger share of the pie. I mean it is almost unreal how easy the guys who are getting regular matches on the apps have it. The thing is, some of these guys are not great looking as much as they are great at putting up the right kinds of photos with the right kinds of filters and quality. I think a guy with the right profile for the dating apps could get 100+ lays in a year if he wanted.
If I had to identify the player of 2023, he is either someone who has a really good photographer for the dating apps or he is someone that happens to be looksmaxxed (gym, shredded, etc.) and on the apps.
By far, this is the most efficient and easy way to get laid if you can master it. I tried a pro photographer and it did not work. However, you can also get a lot of quality online and the hottest girls are on the apps and matching with dudes.
A few have got into Instagram game.
I hate guys like Michael Sartain hyping up Instagram game more than the next guy but in some cases, it unfortunately works. I call it the Instagram and the whole club promoter route. Basically these guys use their IGs to show that they are always in fancy places, have up quality pics, take a gig as either a club promoter or something niche (photographer), and also throw a lot of events that they invite women to (photoshoots for example). A ton of work from the outside looking in but hey, it freaking works. I will not go down this route because these guys sometimes operate on no sleep.
I have not met anyone getting laid regularly through cold approach.
If I had to put a number on it, maybe guys who do cold approach get 3 lays a month max and that is if they are really advanced. I do cold approach to push myself but if I had to have a strategy in mind, I say use cold approach to get the women you do not match with on the apps or on Instagram.
People claim that you can get higher quality via cold approach, I disagree. I often find that most girls, like 95% of them in a bar, are 6s with the occasional 7. Then you have the other 5% who can be 8s and up but they usually come with boyfriends or in a large impenetrable group.
Same with daygame, despite living in Miami and @IKO69 can check me on this, you don't really see that many 8s 9s and 10s out consistently during the day. You might occasionally run into one but they are not that common even in a city like Miami during the day.
I do it because I have grown a lot from it but I have not met anyone who consistently gets laid from it, at least not to the level guys doing IG game or online dating are.
Bruh none of this is Game or being a player, its just women are looking for one night stands and guys are obliging and the only thing that makes you think this is 'Game' or being a player is that the guy is having to jump through a couple of hoops or some form of screening.
It seems likely that those women are just using Tinder for s3x on tap from guys just like a guy wud pick a prostitute for a night from a lineup from photos, that is not Game from the guys perspective, it is just being chosen by women for ONS.
That is the lowest behaviour from women and I find it disgusting and ofcourse those men are either young or very low self-esteem to put themselves out there like that but I dont expect much better from such a degen society as the modern world has created.
But its very usefuly and good that you put this information out there. The men reporting how much they are getting laid is the only informatino we have on what women are doing online for quick cheap s3x.