Solomon
Master Don Juan
We had a conversation before he got married and I was a tad harsh, you wanna hear something crazy? I had gotten head from the chick 3 years before he met her I told him(remember I live in a small town in the midwest these situations aren't uncommon). My buddy still took her on a date married her and knocked her up. I only dealt with her on a one off situation and she confessed to me she was a self-proclaimed "*****" I know this sounds like a crazy story but I promise you it happened. Now he's dealing with her and had to get a restraining order, I thank God that nothing ever happened beyond that one night but it's crazy how life worksWow, that sounds hurtful. You had good reason to object to the wedding.
I never told him whether I objected to this marriage. I don't have any specific feelings on this marriage. In most cases, I don't think marriage is a good idea. There's a reason why more than half of marriage eventually end in divorce.
I'm offended that a friend of 10+ years would let his fiancé determine I couldn't attend and I have never received a good reason for why I was not invited. He claimed he wanted me at the wedding but his fiancé didn't want me there. This sounds like a blue pill male who will eventually get divorced.
I do not enjoy attending weddings and wedding receptions in general. I didn't mind not going to it at all. I had better things to do that day.
I thought I deserved a better explanation and not to be notified of my exclusion the day before the wedding. The poor communication is where my feelings are hurt the most, not actually missing an event that I wasn't excited to attend. I would have attended for my friend and to see one other friend who used to live in my city but moved away.
Regarding your situation, I know it sucks but the sad reality is a lot of men will always choose pvssy over their best friends even guys you knew since grade school it's a tough pill to swallow but it's the reality when you're dealing with most men