I'm attracted to younger girls, but are they interested in older men?

[Pierce Manhammer]

I wasn't being sarcastic moreso complimenting you in a cheeky way sir

And all the more reason for me to want the definition established because based on what I know I do not fit several of the universally agreed criteria.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Can't rightly tell if that's sarcasm or not - I'm opting for sarcasm.

So for sheets and grins, let's come up with a GO/NOGO definition of Chad. Given how much the term gets used to dismiss or justify things around here I think we should agree on definitions, and maybe even grow this nascent effort into a SS Lexicon.

What makes one a Chad? Let us use measurable characteristics that are understandable.

Watch Mad Men. Can you relate to Don Draper’s experiences? Although it is TV. It is spot on accurate for how women (and people in general) treat Chad. Of course DD is a giga-Chad so your mileage may vary.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I've seen enough of the show to weigh in. The answer is NO. However, I'm clean-cut in the way his character is. Let's say I'm more Don Draper than Harvey Specter.

Watch Mad Men. Can you relate to Don Draper’s experiences? Although it is TV. It is spot on accurate for how women (and people in general) treat Chad. Of course DD is a giga-Chad so your mileage may vary.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Ultimately. One knows if he is attractive. While the lines between giga-Chad, Chad, Chad-lite & HTN may blur somewhat. So a CL might think he’s a HTN or such. Really. Are you attractive, average or unattractive? Only the average are unsure. As they riecive conflicting signals.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Rookie stuff, doesn't work.

Totally works if you look like me and act like me.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I've seen enough of the show to weigh in. The answer is NO. However, I'm clean-cut in the way his character is. Let's say I'm more Don Draper than Harvey Specter.

I’m not so much comparing one’s looks to DD’’s looks. But rather, one’s experiences with DD’s experiences.

 

[Ricky]

The narrative that women should date at their age range has one sole reason behind it: Because older men are not incentivized to date women their age, but younger women.

Women do not compete well, rejection isn't something they handle well, so what do they do? Simply, they GSRM. Seeing some of our fellow members take up this narrative is shameful.

Definition: GSRM (or GSRRM, RRGSM etc.)

“WHAT DOES GSRM STAND FOR?” (core) —“You mention GSRM all the time, what does it stand for?”– The Female (herd) competitive strategy by circumventing argument by use of undermining, poisoning the well, reputation destruction by use of (G)ossiping (S)haming, (R)allying, (R)idicule, (M)oralizing...

curtdoolittle.com

Thats a good find/observation

 

[Solomon]

Ultimately. One knows if he is attractive. While the lines between giga-Chad, Chad, Chad-lite & HTN may blur somewhat. So a CL might think he’s a HTN or such. Really. Are you attractive, average or unattractive? Only the average are unsure. As they riecive conflicting signals.

I've noticed something in my own life

When I keep my weight down I get more attention from women
When I don't i get less

Just a thought

 

[sangheilios]

I've noticed something in my own life

When I keep my weight down I get more attention from women
When I don't i get less

Just a thought

That's not exactly some breakthrough idea lol.

 

[sangheilios]

I am 40 and earn significantly more than most men. I also have a lifestyle where I travel all over Latin America for work and fun. Admittedly and shamelessly, I do use this to pull young women in that range you speak about. I realize that yes a lot of the time, they are attracted because of the money. However, they are also attracted to my mindset and ambition that got me the money in the first place.

I was going to add, it's not that unusual for women in Latin America to go for much older men, I live in AZ and I've seen it with some of the local Mexican population out here. However, a really big part of this is that they are gold diggers or looking for a man that can support and provide for them. I'd also add that if you are American, especially a white American, they may see you as a one way ticket to the states and a life of luxury.

 

[sangheilios]

Can't rightly tell if that's sarcasm or not - I'm opting for sarcasm.

So for sheets and grins, let's come up with a GO/NOGO definition of Chad. Given how much the term gets used to dismiss or justify things around here I think we should agree on definitions, and maybe even grow this nascent effort into a SS Lexicon.

What makes one a Chad? Let us use measurable characteristics that are understandable.

@corrector has claimed many times that you are a chad, though I'm a bit hesitant to listen to him because he's had a history of needing an exorcist to rid him of the demons he's been possessed by lol.

 

[sangheilios]

No offense to some of the posters on here, but I seriously doubt the majority of claims on here of guys around 40 and older regularly landing women that are 18-22. I could totally see around 25+ but a girl that is college age I just cannot see unless you are literally paying her like an escort or she is a sugar baby. I'm sure it does happen, but it's so incredibly unusual and rare that these stories are outliers. Hell, at 33 I think it would be a stretch for me to pull an 18 year old, though a woman at 21-22 I think would be possible actually but only with the right set of circumstances.

 

[corrector]

@corrector has claimed many times that you are a chad, though I'm a bit hesitant to listen to him because he's had a history of needing an exorcist to rid him of the demons he's been possessed by lol.

That's interesting because I thought it was because we have different views on systemic racism and that was the last time there was a heated discussion. I never actually used an exorcist so at this point you are making up stories. If you want to talk big about escorts not having demons, then tell me smartypants, why have you stopped visiting escorts? If they are so great, why don't you go once a week or twice a month like other people do? If escorts did not have demons, then I might be like @GoodMan32 and visit them more frequently. You are saying something is holding you back from visitiing more escorts but you are afraid to use the term. I think you think they have demons too.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

In my 30s dating model type girls 19-23…it just comes down how attractive you look.
A 40 year old that looks like rami malek or drake and makes bank could easily date a 21 year old, infact he would be her priority choice. She can’t help biology if the man infront of her is sexy. The vast majority of men do not aggressively self improve by late 20s are completely done LOL but I know some guys in their late 30s and early 40s that look like 28 year olds.
To be honest, asking whether a young girl is attracted to a 40 year old is a dumb question. It’s like asking if a girl is attracted to black guys or attracted to guys with brown hair. Being of a certain age, race etc tells you NOTHING about the man, you cannot generalise. Two 40 year olds can have completely different smv just like two black men can have completely different smv. The owner of Amiri clothing who is 40 years old, lives in a million dollar penthouse in nyc and has the face of a 28 year old VS a 40 year old truck driver who is obese and miserable? they have literally nothing in common with each other, no girl would notice their age but what they objectively are. One is hot, one is not.

 

[mikedee]

In my 30s dating model type girls 19-23…it just comes down how attractive you look.
A 40 year old that looks like rami malek or drake and makes bank could easily date a 21 year old, infact he would be her priority choice. She can’t help biology if the man infront of her is sexy. The vast majority of men do not aggressively self improve by late 20s are completely done LOL but I know some guys in their late 30s and early 40s that look like 28 year olds

A 40yo who looks like Rami Malek or Drake AND if he has money/status. Without that, it won't happen sorry.

 

[mikedee]

No offense to some of the posters on here, but I seriously doubt the majority of claims on here of guys around 40 and older regularly landing women that are 18-22. I could totally see around 25+ but a girl that is college age I just cannot see unless you are literally paying her like an escort or she is a sugar baby. I'm sure it does happen, but it's so incredibly unusual and rare that these stories are outliers. Hell, at 33 I think it would be a stretch for me to pull an 18 year old, though a woman at 21-22 I think would be possible actually but only with the right set of circumstances.

It just doesn't happen, a lot of BS here.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

A 40yo who looks like Rami Malek or Drake AND if he has money/status. Without that, it won't happen sorry.

well this is the reality of the sexual marketplace regardless of age. A 26 year old guy without looks or money/status is going to struggle just as much as a 40 year old to get hot girls. Any guy who isn’t good looking and established financially is going to have difficulty dating in 2023, hence why so many men are sexless or bitter! So being 40 doesn’t change anything. A good looking guy with money, any age, can consistently bang hot girls. I use drake and rami malek as examples of older good looking men, infact most of womens celeb crushes are 30/40 year old singers and actors. For every beiber (young female crush), there’s 10 Chris Hemsworth’s or Leo dicaprios ie older guys tend to tick off all the categories women are attracted to more often than younger ones

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I've not changed remarkably since I pulled a couple of coeds; it's only been five years or so. But I agree it's not something that happens - I'm simply not in that environment anymore and frankly no longer have interest, except in random passing "Oh, she's a smoke show, I'd hit that."

All I have ever claimed is that it is possible for a 40-something guy with his fundamentals in place and some niche game to do it because I have.

The issue is that most men here are not realistic about themselves and how they present themselves. I'd not be surprised if the majority misrepresented themselves.

No one wants to admit to themselves they're not up to snuff, particularly the precious little snowflake generations following the X'ers.

I have no ponies in this race, gents; I'm simply speaking my truth. I'm not youth-obsessed as so many here seemingly are. I'm here to elevate my brothers, not to tear them down.

You all can choose to believe what I say or not. It's at face value.

I also have digital receipts (PNG, MOV, etc.); I'd be insane to share them here or with anyone. I wish there were a way to do so and protect the guilty simultaneously. I've posted sanitized stuff in the past, meh.

No offense to some of the posters on here, but I seriously doubt the majority of claims on here of guys around 40 and older regularly landing women that are 18-22. I could totally see around 25+ but a girl that is college age I just cannot see unless you are literally paying her like an escort or she is a sugar baby. I'm sure it does happen, but it's so incredibly unusual and rare that these stories are outliers. Hell, at 33 I think it would be a stretch for me to pull an 18 year old, though a woman at 21-22 I think would be possible actually but only with the right set of circumstances.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I’m not so much comparing one’s looks to DD’’s looks. But rather, one’s experiences with DD’s experiences.

Yeah I've only ever been approached in earnest a couple of times in my life. I ain't no DD.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

No offense to some of the posters on here, but I seriously doubt the majority of claims on here of guys around 40 and older regularly landing women that are 18-22. I could totally see around 25+ but a girl that is college age I just cannot see unless you are literally paying her like an escort or she is a sugar baby. I'm sure it does happen, but it's so incredibly unusual and rare that these stories are outliers. Hell, at 33 I think it would be a stretch for me to pull an 18 year old, though a woman at 21-22 I think would be possible actually but only with the right set of circumstances.

It's not that rare but it's also not super common. Mainly because a man has to place himself in a pool with a lot of young 20 somethings. Clubs, university areas. A lot of 40 something dudes (even game aware guys) don't have interest in that sh*t. Those aren't always his regular waters to swim in.

But I also bet a lot of guys (including sosuavers) get clingy when they attract or lay a pretty young thing. Guys are so obsessed with "unicorns" and "low notch count" most can't hold their frame or act indifferent. They don't know to treat her like a mid. I mean look at this thread, predicated on her frame over his. "Are they interested" should not be a concern. Take your shot, homies. If she says no then move on.