The woman should come out and tell us when they want sex

[corrector]

Here's the link to the site where AI judges your looks: https://photo-ranker.com/

As for PhotoFeeler, I set it up so that only the ladies could rate me.

I just tried it and the face rating on it would put me in a normie tier range (5.96 - 6.86). This is not showing the rest of my body. Still over 40% bf so there is no looksmaxxing, if I were to gymmaxx and looksmatch to 24% body fat then it would be a good idea to try the face test again.

Do not see an option on AI to have a woman's only imput so its likely a judgment coming from women might lower that score further. But I do not relate to the extreme sub-5 experiences that I have heard of on the grapevine (but maybe I am too sheltered), so a low - mid tier normie might be more accurate.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I just tried it and the face rating on it would put me in a normie tier range (5.96 - 6.86). This is not showing the rest of my body. Still over 40% bf so there is no looksmaxxing, if I were to gymmaxx and looksmatch to 24% body fat then it would be a good idea to try the face test again.

Do not see an option on AI to have a woman's only imput so its likely a judgment coming from women might lower that score further. But I do not relate to the extreme sub-5 experiences that I have heard of on the grapevine (but maybe I am too sheltered), so a low - mid tier normie might be more accurate.

that means you have huge potential

 

[corrector]

that means you have huge potential

Agreed. If there is potential then there is opportunity costs. Every day I am not at 24% bf is potentially missed IOIs, confidence to cold approach, wasting time looking at youtube vids critical of the current dating market, etc.... It is not a good place to be.

 

[GoodMan32]

I just tried it and the face rating on it would put me in a normie tier range (5.96 - 6.86). This is not showing the rest of my body. Still over 40% bf so there is no looksmaxxing, if I were to gymmaxx and looksmatch to 24% body fat then it would be a good idea to try the face test again.

Do not see an option on AI to have a woman's only imput so its likely a judgment coming from women might lower that score further. But I do not relate to the extreme sub-5 experiences that I have heard of on the grapevine (but maybe I am too sheltered), so a low - mid tier normie might be more accurate.

Yeah, unfortunately, all ranking programs have their flaws.

With AI, you don't get gender-specific input.

With human raters, you run into 2 different sets of problems:

If only women rate you, you're prone to getting rated on an impossible curve (example: the woman you witnessed doing left-swiping galore on her phone).

If both genders rate you, you get men rating you too. Straight men can't accurately rate guys in most cases. Gay guys can rate us accurately, yeah, but that's meaningless if we're not into men. We want to impress a woman.

Speaking of gay guys, I've gotten lots of attention (in person) from gay guys. If I was gay, I could get all the sex I want.

 

[GoodMan32]

Agreed. If there is potential then there is opportunity costs. Every day I am not at 24% bf is potentially missed IOIs, confidence to cold approach, wasting time looking at youtube vids critical of the current dating market, etc.... It is not a good place to be.

I'm somewhat in the same boat as you (as far as missed potential).

I'm a lot leaner than you (so I don't have the body fat thing working against me). However, I (in addition to being on the spectrum) have crippling shyness with women, a crippling fear of rejection, and a disdain for uncertainty. If it weren't for all of these things, I'd probably pull civvies on a regular basis.

 

[corrector]

If I was gay, I could get all the sex I want.

That's interesting that you would say that. The actor who portrays Riddler in Gotham-TV is a queer.

But we are straight. Do you find escortcelling/MGTOWing escorts helps you feel straight(er) than if you didn't have paid options?

 

[GoodMan32]

That's interesting that you would say that. The actor who portrays Riddler in Gotham-TV is a queer.

But we are straight. Do you find escortcelling/MGTOWing escorts helps you feel straight(er) than if you didn't have paid options?

That's fascinating, I wasn't aware the actor who plays the Riddler is gay. Might explain why I get mistaken for gay (a lot of times when a gay guy comes onto me, he's surprised to find out I'm straight).

I wouldn't necessarily say utilizing escorts helps me feel straighter. I know I'm straight.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Might explain why I get mistaken for gay (a lot of times when a gay guy comes onto me, he's surprised to find out I'm straight).

Some gay men dare each other to flirt with straight men, like for sport. Since homophobic straight men might be offended to the point of violence, the gay men who approached you likely felt safe enough to do so. You can take that as a compliment.

 

[corrector]

Some gay men dare each other to flirt with straight men, like for sport. Since homophobic straight men might be offended to the point of violence, the gay men who approached you likely felt safe enough to do so. You can take that as a compliment.

That is not a compliment if you are straight. In fact sh1t like that should give the OP a good kick in the rare to do cold approaches. There is no greater motivation to cold approach women than sh1t like that.

Also, not unless a civvie feels safe or approaches then that is the only thing that counts. But at least the OP has allot of women escorts so its water off a ducks back for him.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Frankly, I do get approached by gay men and get IOI’s from them often. As @AmsterdamAssassin said, take it as a compliment. If you’re well put together and in shape in your 40’s and 50’s it’s natural because most men in that age group who are, are gay.

Often the guy is well put together and can be the best wingman ever, why? Because good looking heterosexual women befriend them because they’re not getting hit on by them, this opens the door to you when you’re introduced, which you will be. As long as you’re clear you’re playing for the home team you might have a great conversation and spark a friendship. Most times they respect your stance and it’s like any other conversation.

 

[corrector]

Frankly, I do get approached by gay men and get IOI’s from them often. As @AmsterdamAssassin said, take it as a compliment. If you’re well put together and in shape in you 40’s and 50’s it’s natural because most men in that age group who are, are gay

Yeah, but it's different if you are already pulling women left, right and center. But then again, the OP is seeing plenty of escorts so I guess he's good too. I wouldn't see it as a complement but as a further curse.

Often the guy is well put together and can be the best wingman ever, why?

But suppose he likes you.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

He already has made it clear he does, just like a woman that you’re not attracted to. They can still be friends. I live in the Gay Area (Bay Area) and it’s just part of the culture, so maybe I’m desensitized, but i have used it to my advantage in the past and I score DEAD ZERO on the Kinsey Scale.

Yeah, but it's different if you are already pulling women left, right and center. But then again, the OP is seeing plenty of escorts so I guess he's good too. I wouldn't see it as a complement but as a further curse.

But suppose he likes you.

 

[corrector]

They can still be friends.

That is absurd. It's like a woman I'm attracted to, doesn't like me, wants to actually use me as a social connection to get at chad and then says I'm a good brother wing-man to her...then I can't see how that would go good. So the analogous example even sounds worst.

 

[Bigpapa]

He already has made it clear he does, just like a woman that you’re not attracted to. They can still be friends. I live in the Gay Area (Bay Area) and it’s just part of the culture, so maybe I’m desensitized, but i have used it to my advantage in the past and I score DEAD ZERO on the Kinsey Scale.

If you friendzone a girl ( or thinks that you are not attracted sexually to her as you do not escalate ) that likes you, she will hate you and never speak to you or act very bratty

When a girl friendzones you it means that she had little to no attraction to you from the get go. It just did not happen that she was into you and then friendzoned you. If she was attracted to you and you did not reciprocate it, she will hate you for it and not friendzone you

 

[GoodMan32]

That is not a compliment if you are straight. In fact sh1t like that should give the OP a good kick in the rare to do cold approaches. There is no greater motivation to cold approach women than sh1t like that.

Also, not unless a civvie feels safe or approaches then that is the only thing that counts. But at least the OP has allot of women escorts so its water off a ducks back for him.

Hmm, I'm not quite making the connection of why getting attention from gay men would give me extra motivation to cold approach women. Could you elaborate?

 

[GoodMan32]

Frankly, I do get approached by gay men and get IOI’s from them often. As @AmsterdamAssassin said, take it as a compliment. If you’re well put together and in shape in your 40’s and 50’s it’s natural because most men in that age group who are, are gay.

Often the guy is well put together and can be the best wingman ever, why? Because good looking heterosexual women befriend them because they’re not getting hit on by them, this opens the door to you when you’re introduced, which you will be. As long as you’re clear you’re playing for the home team you might have a great conversation and spark a friendship. Most times they respect your stance and it’s like any other conversation.

I hadn't even thought of that. Good point. Befriending a gay man could open some doors (and hopefully legs) when it comes to scoring with his female friends.

 

[Bigpapa]

Hmm, I'm not quite making the connection of why getting attention from gay men would give me extra motivation to cold approach women. Could you elaborate?

It means that you are a sexy guy. And if a gay guy thinks that you are sexy, most likely a woman too think that you are sexy

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

The difference is the gay community is pro-sex, they don’t have the same reactions to sexuality as heterosexual women do. I realize this is hard to comprehend when you have issues with homosexuality to begin with and it’s anathema to you personally.

I guess the better analogy is that women use men that they have no interest in sexually to accomplish things all the time. If you had the agency to, and the lack of inhibition to, you most likely would as well.

I have personal experience that tells me this is a sound approach if you can open your mind to do it. I’m not saying that it is for everyone, just that it’s a different way of looking at things.

That is absurd. It's like a woman I'm attracted to, doesn't like me, wants to actually use me as a social connection to get at chad and then says I'm a good brother wing-man to her...then I can't see how that would go good. So the analogous example even sounds worst.

 

[corrector]

Hmm, I'm not quite making the connection of why getting attention from gay men would give me extra motivation to cold approach women. Could you elaborate?

It means I'm not masculine enough and should do more approaches to prove I'm a man. I'll end up doing cold-approaches to appease my mind. Also to show to gay people that you are hetrosexual and really like women.

 

[GoodMan32]

If you friendzone a girl ( or thinks that you are not attracted sexually to her as you do not escalate ) that likes you, she will hate you and never speak to you or act very bratty

When a girl friendzones you it means that she had little to no attraction to you from the get go. It just did not happen that she was into you and then friendzoned you. If she was attracted to you and you did not reciprocate it, she will hate you for it and not friendzone you

As for guys failing to escalate, that ties into the topic of the thread: If the woman wants us to escalate, she should make it clear she wants us to escalate.