10 Reasons Why I'll Never Date A Short Guy

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Yes, this is true. Rollo Tomassi has said many times that the average woman today is not interested in the average man.



Yes, many women spend their entire fertile years chasing the dragon and don't have much to show for their efforts.
The "average " woman is unattractive though. Fat or tats, not the best teeth or face, etc. Single women under 40 I'd say 10 percent are what you'd consider hot or hb 6.5 on up.

Basically everyone is fighting for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
 

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Basically everyone is fighting for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
Most American men are themselves out of shape, and in fact the male USA obesity rate is higher than womens'. So what exactly are these "everyone" guys expecting to get? If youre a skinny fat dweeb with fvcked up posture or a beer bellied fat swine with a pudgy face, and youve got ED from your porn addiction, poor cardio, obesity, disgusting smoking and alcoholism, then you of course arent in the race for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
 
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Most American men are themselves out of shape, and in fact the male USA obesity rate is higher than womens'. So what exactly are these "everyone" guys expecting to get? If youre a skinny fat dweeb with fvcked up posture or a beer bellied fat swine with a pudgy face, and youve got ED from your porn addiction, poor cardio, obesity, disgusting smoking and alcoholism, then you of course arent in the race for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
I still see a lot of fat men with decent women. Note I said fat, not obese level fat.
 

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Basically everyone is fighting for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
Historically people got married around 18-23 years old. The average 18-23 year old guy will pair up with the average 18-23 year old girl because an average 18-23 girl is "hot" because she is still fertile and young. So historically, young average men were not fighting for the top 10 to 20% percent of women. Average men were pairing off with average women.

The dynamics now are changed because a lot of older average men don't want to go out with the older average woman since she has lost her fertility and youth (basically beauty) chasing chad. Besides, older average men don't want to risk their financial well being for the average unattractive older woman. Also, quite a bit of older average women are so used to chads, they can't lower their standards for the average older guy.

SooooOOooo yeah, the older average guy will have it rough unless he is somewhat successful, healthy, and aging well (looks wise).
 

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Historically people got married around 18-23 years old. The average 18-23 year old guy will pair up with the average 18-23 year old girl because an average 18-23 girl is "hot" because she is still fertile and young. So historically, young average men were not fighting for the top 10 to 20% percent of women. Average men were pairing off with average women.

The dynamics now are changed because a lot of older average men don't want to go out with the older average woman since she has lost her fertility and youth (basically beauty) chasing chad. Besides, older average men don't want to risk their financial well being for the average unattractive older woman. Also, quite a bit of older average women are so used to chads, they can't lower their standards for the average older guy.

SooooOOooo yeah, the older average guy will have it rough unless he is somewhat successful, healthy, and aging well (looks wise).
Or like 80 years ago an older guy would marry a younger woman, even under 18 many times and it wasn't frowned upon like it is now and was common and have a family. Heck a 25 year old guy and a 17 year old would be called a pedophile. Technically Pedophile isn't a 17 year old but that label would still be used.

Remember about 10 years ago when at the time James Franco was hitting on that cute 17 year old? He was 36 at the time and peak of his career, Chad and got called a creep all over the place about it and blasted. 80 years ago that would been considered ok to do. If a famous guy gets blasted for liking a young woman, it's even worse for the typical man!

I mean, she's flirty, in most societies entering fertile age range and prime looks. Being a man he naturally sees a fertile, attractive young lady that likes him. Human biology at work and he gets torn to shreds about it. Before the 60s nothing would be said about it.

James Franco schoolgirl: Star opens up about 17-year-old schoolgirl he seduced on Instagram - Mirror Online

 

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My preference is for a supermodel that will never age and never get ugly; and will give me oral every day and swallow. Don't think that's going to happen soon :)

Everyone settles. Everyone lust for the stars but in real life, we live in reality. Average women want the 3 sixes OR better; but at the end of the day, average women "must settle". This has happened throughout history. They settle and they build a relationship with the average man and they become happy with their life voyage together (kids, ups and down of life, shared goals, companionship, etc.). Today, in the vast majority of cases, the average woman will not be in to the average guy because she is trying to shoot for the stars and wants to have Chad. She will not settle for anything less. Society teaches women not to settle. Society tells them to find a "soul mate"... "don't settle..."


Average women are chasing the dragon and the average man don't want them when the average women come back. Until the average woman understands she's "just average", the marriage rate will continue to plummet and women will continue to be unhappy. Sometimes there isn't a woman who will be into you because she's getting pumped and dumped by chad and isn't intelligent enough to see this. Drug addicts who chase the dragon -- they never end up in a good place.

In other words, the average woman has un-realistic preferences. A lot of average men are not "chosen" because they don't meet these preferences. When women get older, the come back to these average men... but a lot of these average men may not want them because these men also have preferences (don't be old , overweight, ugly, etc..).
You know I don’t disagree with you. However if you happen to actually be a chick in that very desirable top 5-15%? You have ridiculous options and choices because you are what EVERY man wants. Throw in a cool personality, some intelligence & self sufficiency, and emotional stability? Chads chase you, not the other way around.

The problem is that most people (men and women both) have an over inflated view of where they sit in the SMV. I never had that problem. I mean I’m mid 50s and get mistaken for mid 30s all the time with zero make up on by both men and women of various ages. Bouncers drop their jaws sometimes when they see a 60s era date of birth. And bouncers see hot women day in and day out. So nobody is trying to make me feel better. I’ve studiously avoided sun exposure for 30+ years. It’s partly that yeah I really look that good and partly that most young women ruin their skin tanning, drinking, smoking and eating like crap.

So I’m not average. I married as my second husband a man who is the 3 sixes+ and who women swoon over. Did I mention he’s 8 years younger? Did I mention he’s never before married/no kids & I have 3? And I have a great body, people can’t believe I’ve had 3 children either.

If you saw my stats you’d say I’ve no choice but to be a cat lady. But you’ve not seen me or met me. See avatar boys. That pic is in my 50s, unretouched.

But I agree FEW women can pull that off. Only the top 5 %.
 

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Most American men are themselves out of shape, and in fact the male USA obesity rate is higher than womens'. So what exactly are these "everyone" guys expecting to get? If youre a skinny fat dweeb with fvcked up posture or a beer bellied fat swine with a pudgy face, and youve got ED from your porn addiction, poor cardio, obesity, disgusting smoking and alcoholism, then you of course arent in the race for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
 

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Historically people got married around 18-23 years old. The average 18-23 year old guy will pair up with the average 18-23 year old girl because an average 18-23 girl is "hot" because she is still fertile and young. So historically, young average men were not fighting for the top 10 to 20% percent of women. Average men were pairing off with average women.

The dynamics now are changed because a lot of older average men don't want to go out with the older average woman since she has lost her fertility and youth (basically beauty) chasing chad. Besides, older average men don't want to risk their financial well being for the average unattractive older woman. Also, quite a bit of older average women are so used to chads, they can't lower their standards for the average older guy.

SooooOOooo yeah, the older average guy will have it rough unless he is somewhat successful, healthy, and aging well (looks wise).
older average men wanting young women are the ‘creeps’ that women complain about. It’s beyond over for olderaveragecels. Older attractive men on the other hand. That tiny minority has potential. .
 

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Smooth_texter said:

Three years ago, I was at the beginning stages of an LTR with a woman my height (5'11"). But due to some work related stress and other issues, she broke off with me. While height wasn't the main issue, It definitely is a factor when a woman decides whether she wants to be with you or not.

For protection. She broke it off with you because I asked her out. I'm 6'2, not completely a Tyrone, but have a nicely modded Lexus...and some powerful pipe. I worked the hell out of her. Point is, she found a perceived better deal. Getting a woman boils down to what she's looking for at the time you shoot your shot.


Read between th- ok you already know.
The wall is heavily padded. It IMO starts at 60, even then that's a longshot. From someone who slept with women north of 50, 60, a couple even north of 70...all had high sex drives. I didn't commit though.

All you motherf**kers here would rather a threesome with Halle Berry and Shakira instead of playing Fortnite, let's not kid ourselves. I'll include Wendy Ida (look her up).

Anyways, as long as they're simps around, the wall is padded heavily. Now Chad, Tyrone, and Enrique won't commit...they'll just pipe her out. Bob, John, and Pedro will gladly commit even if she doesn't respect them.

All women want high value men. Men value love, women love value.

There are still women past 50 who have Onlyfans. What does all this tell you?

As I have said earlier, the taller a man is, the better he is perceived.

Good to know that you're staying on your path to be the best version of yourself, in order to pull and close women in their 60s and 70s.
 
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Someone asked me the other day if I'd ever be willing to date a short guy. I'm a tall girl, so for me "short" is anyone under 6'0. If you're a cute short guy, have no fear, a lot of girls are into it. Most tall girls aren't though... so your chances of dating a model are really slim.

Here are ten reasons why I'll never date a short guy again



My ex, who was on the shorter side, once said something like, "I'm sure you'll leave me for a tall dude." Why so insecure though? He also lost his **** on me when I spoke to a tall guy at his work. That was the only time he ever threw a fit of jealousy and it happened to be with a tall guy. Coincidence? I think not.

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Thoughts?
It's always been OVER for Sub6Cels.
 

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The dynamics now are changed because a lot of older average men don't want to go out with the older average woman since she has lost her fertility and youth (basically beauty) chasing chad. Besides, older average men don't want to risk their financial well being for the average unattractive older woman. Also, quite a bit of older average women are so used to chads, they can't lower their standards for the average older guy.

SooooOOooo yeah, the older average guy will have it rough unless he is somewhat successful, healthy, and aging well (looks wise).
Most 30s/40s men are pussie beggars for women close to their own ages. With that said, even some of the beta male AFCs have limits. They might date these same aged women but not marry the average unattractive older woman.
 

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The typical White American Millennial or Gen Z woman considers any height below 6'0" to be less than desirable.

5'10" - 5'11" men are the kings of the manlets. 5'10" is about an average height. They are times at these heights when men will experience rejection for perceived subpar heights.

5'9" is the first point of drop off. It's not a good height.

5'8" and below is when it starts to get bad.
It's OVER for 68InchCels.
 

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You know I don’t disagree with you. However if you happen to actually be a chick in that very desirable top 5-15%? You have ridiculous options and choices because you are what EVERY man wants. Throw in a cool personality, some intelligence & self sufficiency, and emotional stability? Chads chase you, not the other way around.

The problem is that most people (men and women both) have an over inflated view of where they sit in the SMV. I never had that problem. I mean I’m mid 50s and get mistaken for mid 30s all the time with zero make up on by both men and women of various ages. Bouncers drop their jaws sometimes when they see a 60s era date of birth. And bouncers see hot women day in and day out. So nobody is trying to make me feel better. I’ve studiously avoided sun exposure for 30+ years. It’s partly that yeah I really look that good and partly that most young women ruin their skin tanning, drinking, smoking and eating like crap.

So I’m not average. I married as my second husband a man who is the 3 sixes+ and who women swoon over. Did I mention he’s 8 years younger? Did I mention he’s never before married/no kids & I have 3? And I have a great body, people can’t believe I’ve had 3 children either.

If you saw my stats you’d say I’ve no choice but to be a cat lady. But you’ve not seen me or met me. See avatar boys. That pic is in my 50s, unretouched.

But I agree FEW women can pull that off. Only the top 5 %.
I'm not sure how it helps this forum for a woman to be bragging that she can get a husband who should be going for a woman half her age. :rolleyes:
 

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I'm not sure how it helps this forum for a woman to be bragging that she can get a husband who should be going for a woman half her age. :rolleyes:
It demonstrates that the belief system is flawed for many here & that mate selection is based on the individual, not generalizations.
 

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