The "average " woman is unattractive though. Fat or tats, not the best teeth or face, etc. Single women under 40 I'd say 10 percent are what you'd consider hot or hb 6.5 on up.
Most American men are themselves out of shape, and in fact the male USA obesity rate is higher than womens'. So what exactly are these "everyone" guys expecting to get? If youre a skinny fat dweeb with fvcked up posture or a beer bellied fat swine with a pudgy face, and youve got ED from your porn addiction, poor cardio, obesity, disgusting smoking and alcoholism, then you of course arent in the race for that 10 to 20 percent of women.
I still see a lot of fat men with decent women. Note I said fat, not obese level fat.
Historically people got married around 18-23 years old. The average 18-23 year old guy will pair up with the average 18-23 year old girl because an average 18-23 girl is "hot" because she is still fertile and young. So historically, young average men were not fighting for the top 10 to 20% percent of women. Average men were pairing off with average women.
Or like 80 years ago an older guy would marry a younger woman, even under 18 many times and it wasn't frowned upon like it is now and was common and have a family. Heck a 25 year old guy and a 17 year old would be called a pedophile. Technically Pedophile isn't a 17 year old but that label would still be used.
You know I don’t disagree with you. However if you happen to actually be a chick in that very desirable top 5-15%? You have ridiculous options and choices because you are what EVERY man wants. Throw in a cool personality, some intelligence & self sufficiency, and emotional stability? Chads chase you, not the other way around.My preference is for a supermodel that will never age and never get ugly; and will give me oral every day and swallow. Don't think that's going to happen soon
Everyone settles. Everyone lust for the stars but in real life, we live in reality. Average women want the 3 sixes OR better; but at the end of the day, average women "must settle". This has happened throughout history. They settle and they build a relationship with the average man and they become happy with their life voyage together (kids, ups and down of life, shared goals, companionship, etc.). Today, in the vast majority of cases, the average woman will not be in to the average guy because she is trying to shoot for the stars and wants to have Chad. She will not settle for anything less. Society teaches women not to settle. Society tells them to find a "soul mate"... "don't settle..."
Average women are chasing the dragon and the average man don't want them when the average women come back. Until the average woman understands she's "just average", the marriage rate will continue to plummet and women will continue to be unhappy. Sometimes there isn't a woman who will be into you because she's getting pumped and dumped by chad and isn't intelligent enough to see this. Drug addicts who chase the dragon -- they never end up in a good place.
In other words, the average woman has un-realistic preferences. A lot of average men are not "chosen" because they don't meet these preferences. When women get older, the come back to these average men... but a lot of these average men may not want them because these men also have preferences (don't be old , overweight, ugly, etc..).
older average men wanting young women are the ‘creeps’ that women complain about. It’s beyond over for olderaveragecels. Older attractive men on the other hand. That tiny minority has potential. .
It's always been OVER for Sub6Cels.Someone asked me the other day if I'd ever be willing to date a short guy. I'm a tall girl, so for me "short" is anyone under 6'0. If you're a cute short guy, have no fear, a lot of girls are into it. Most tall girls aren't though... so your chances of dating a model are really slim.
Here are ten reasons why I'll never date a short guy again
My ex, who was on the shorter side, once said something like, "I'm sure you'll leave me for a tall dude." Why so insecure though? He also lost his **** on me when I spoke to a tall guy at his work. That was the only time he ever threw a fit of jealousy and it happened to be with a tall guy. Coincidence? I think not.
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Most 30s/40s men are pussie beggars for women close to their own ages. With that said, even some of the beta male AFCs have limits. They might date these same aged women but not marry the average unattractive older woman.
It's OVER for 68InchCels.
I'm not sure how it helps this forum for a woman to be bragging that she can get a husband who should be going for a woman half her age.
It demonstrates that the belief system is flawed for many here & that mate selection is based on the individual, not generalizations.I'm not sure how it helps this forum for a woman to be bragging that she can get a husband who should be going for a woman half her age.
