Yeah. After our second date, that was one of the things that crossed my mind. She looks like a girl with shaken self-esteem due to her ex-BF - she told me that he dumped her because "he was no longer attracted to her". So maybe she saw the first date bang opportunity as a "take it or leave it" situation, or to prove something to herself.
Or bait hoping you'd follow along with her relationship track.
Don’t try and work through her thoughts it’s pointless. With respect, the fact that you’re even asking if you should go with them is a solid reason not to. Why was Kobe Bryant the greatest 1 on 1 player ever?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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You're really just overthinking things .. probably just anxious. It sounds like you're not confident in how she feels/thinks about you as you mentioned you feel like her and her friends might just use you for drinks. Its a weird way to think man,especially when she invited your friends out too. I mean I'm not going to toot my horn too much but I don't think theres anyone on here with as much social experience as myself.. But, that being said, to me after reading your original post, my first reacton was that she just wants to get to know you better and see what your tribe is like. I mean afterall, she pt out on the first date and probably didn't get a chance to see how you will interact with her friends, etc.
OTOH, OP needs to be able to hop in his car and take off if it goes the wrong way. If she plays him, disrespects him etc he need to just play it super cool, smile and then when she’s off doing something just jump in the car and don’t take her frantic phone calls for 24+ hours. But hopefully that doesn’t happen.
After two dates? You trying to put a ring on it kid?
You never go with her friends.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Idk whats your motive to entertain strangers over a chick that is an allmost stranger.
If you haven't banged her yet, don't go. That's either a sh!t test or she's seeking her friends' approval (which means that she's an immature idiot). Don't play that game.
This is an embarrassing sentiment, especially coming from you to someone like me. You are operating out of fear , your whole emotional reactive initial response to OP speaks volumes. Unless you're completely naive to think that everyone is a player or just lookin to hit it or quit it, I'd say that you're really proving to not be capable to talk to a diverse group of men about women. The fact that basic and normal social behavior makes weak men like yourself trip out is hilarious to me and to anyone who is a normal social person.
The fact that you're acting like this thing is foreign to you when its very fuccin common normal social human behavior speaks volumes. I don't know if you guys think you're some ultra players, but any real player can see you guys just read too much sh.t on the internet -- secondly, you're operating out of fears.. not hard to tell. It's weak beta male sh,t whether you like to admit it or not. A confident man would go out there, capitalize on the pu55y and if it doesn't work out, smash her friends.
I love how you call me emotional and then write 1,000+ words to my 15. Fantastic bro. Go sit on your yoga mat next time before you reply to me.
Oh sorry i know how to articulate myself, and you lack substance in what you say. Must suck being a bumbling idiot. The fact that you don't have a coherent response to what I said is another reason why I would never consider dudes like you cool or capable.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Ohm bro
I don't understand why you try to act like you're not someone who's girl flirts with other men right in front of your face. By your own admission. That's tough. If you had any self respect you wouldn't be with her. If she does that to you In front of your face, just imagine what she does behind your back.
You’re doing a phenomenal job ignoring me alpha dog
Agree with this but still don't think it was an intentional sh*t test. She hadn't heard from you and reached out to arrange something casual so as to not appear over-eager with a one-on-one. I've had women do this with me before. That's how most women roll. They hate initiating so make it appear casual. Her friends, your friends.
Give it a couple of years
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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