Here is where I think I fuked up with this situation.
Round One Argument.. Well I simply Shut her down when she began becoming combative and i let her know, that it's my rules in my house, she can either accept that, or leave!
Later that night around 9ish she went upto my bedroom to sleep, as the atmosphere was not quite good between us.
I thought to myself, this is good, when it's morning time I will tell her to leave.
It was early in the night, so I decided to chill with some music and enjoy a few vodkas. I actually haven't had a drink in a good while.
Some hours later, I've had around 4 vodkas and a beer, and was getting quite tipsy, so thought best get to bed.
She was asleep in my bed, I'm actually a DJ, so before hitting the bed, I decided to spin a few tracks. The music wasn't too loud, actually quite low, but it's woke her up.
She asked me to turn it down, which I did. She then mentioned something about us not having sex, and began complaining etc.
I was already quite drunk, and definitely didn't want to end up in another argument with her, so I tried to shut her down, but she kept going.
Anyway because I was quite tipsy I acted in a way that I normally wouldn't have.
I simply told her, you need to fukin leave right now. I'm not in the mood to argue, get the fuk out!
I offered to call her an Uber and offered to give her some uber money but she declined. She grabbed her chit and left.
I seriously think I could have handled things better if only I had not been under the influence of alcohol.
Getting angry with a chick is pointless. Raising your voice, swearing etc, telling her to get the fuk out at 3am is pointless.
Calm silence is the answer, then politely telling her to leave in the morning is ALWAYS the best way.
I think because I wasn't expecting her to wake up and kick off again, I decided to keep drinking, as my plan was to simply go to bed and sleep.