Kicked a disrespectful 304 out of my house tonight!

[Gamisch]

Russian women (I can't speak on Ukrainian) are a special breed. They generally are very submissive and traditional unless you show weakness, and then they will quickly go full rage towards you and are completely unforgiving.

Regardless of this chick's ethnicity, he needed to take a stand to the gas lighting. In a perfect world, that doesn't happen at 3:00 in the morning. But I have kicked a chick out once in the middle of the night for very disrespectful comments (admittedly worse than this). If she is going to run her mouth and act like a b1tch then she is going to be treated like one. If she keeps her mouth shut or better yet apologizes that doesn't happen here. But she woke him up and again wanted to start an argument at 3:00 in the morning. It wasn't like OP randomly woke up and told her to pack her sh1t up due to the earlier behavior. So in this particular case, maybe a bit harsh, but the gaslighting is just completely unacceptable (X2). She earned her boot.

Soul always manages to make dividing, long lasting threads. His autistic-ish style of asking actually primal things somehow does trigger and makes us question our own laws and rules.

Women from eastern Europe are indeed really black and white. Though as nails. Types of women who'd expect you to fight another man no matter how childish the reason is. A real catch 22 for men in the West: they have the prettiest women on planet earth(imo) but they're also the most difficult to deal with. All their babushkas been through real wars and all their grandfathers are bitter alcoholics. You can't "just" pick a hot Russian/ east European woman and live happily ever after. I call them the white N words. Very masculine women.

That also highlights another problem imo: are you actually ready to deal with such a woman? Can you really handle her? Tame her? Willing to have many figts and arguments, even when she orchestrated many of them "just because "? We call them bad bytches for a reason.

I dont agree about giving her the boot at night as you know now, so we'll agree to disagree on this. Because I still feel like a well balanced man can read the situation and her " silly girl act" doesn't really bother him. Somehow i can't picture James Bond ir someone like that doing this. I dont know why I use James bond, it just came to mind.

 

[Divorced w 3]

But your missing the biggest element here lol I was drunk.

If I was sober I would have handled this so much better, but my azz was drunk, and drunk people do stupid azz things.

Have actually decided to drinking all together, Even though I only have a few drinks on a Saturday night

One other thing dude. While you’re reframing your situation here, do yourself a favor and continue having sex with her. You can pull back emotionally if you aren’t ready to commit to her after this episode , but let your d1ck get wet as you work through it.

 

[soulforge]

One other thing dude. While you’re reframing your situation here, do yourself a favor and continue having sex with her. You can pull back emotionally if you aren’t ready to commit to her after this episode , but let your d1ck get wet as you work through it.

I'm going to let that one go man.. Seriously I need to take a break from puzzy, chicks focus on work, gym, etc..

Maybe in some weeks, months time I will hit her up.. for now I didn't need want the drama in my life. Tempting as the puzzy is lol

 

[soulforge]

"Hey, just wanted to apologize for my role in what went down the other night. I was drunk on my ass and it shouldn't have happened. Hope you made it home okay, take care."

Who gives a fukk what the hell she thinks about it? Some of you guys care too much what women think. OP, you know it was screwed up, it's obvious you feel remorseful, the apology is for you. Because you have a conscience and are a decent human being.

All you can do now is learn from it and move forward.

Yeh dude I won't lie, it's been playing my mind quite abit.. Whatever happened between us happened.

But we men should take the higher path. Honestly man if I hadn't been drinking, I really wouldn't have told her to leave at that time.

But just to clarify I didn't open the door and just boot her ass out.

I offered her money for an uber and offered to call an Uber for her. She rejected my help and said it's fine, as she will call her brother who will pick her up.

 

[soulforge]

I think some of you have the impression that I opened the door and booted her out.

Nope I actually offered her an Uber to take her home. I offered her money for the Uber. She didn't want it.

I asked her how will you get home, she told me she was ringing her brother who would pick her up. I have spoke to her brother once or twice. Believe me if she hadn't made it home, he would have contacted me.

 

[Bokanovsky]

You gaslight the heck out of this forum

This.

While I would never criticize anyone for kicking out a disrespectful b!tch, I'm starting to think that the version of events we are getting from the OP is one-sided and not entirely reliable. I am also getting an emotionally volatile, insecure vibe from the OP (not just from this thread but his other threads as well).

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

you let the cat run the get down in your own home. That’s a negative partna.
you dismissed her in that moment because your gut felt it was the right thing to do.
Sober or not who gives a sh1t.
You felt emasculated in your own turf and you acted out of principle.
You should have kicked her out and closed the door behind her with no word exchange be a straight shooter
No Uber offer. no considerations and delete her number as in she is written in water now
higher quality females are in order but you have to work on yourself first.
when I have been rusting out my spirit
it’s when I attract the devilish ratchet / low class ones which in turn are detrimental to a man’s health.

Apply cold water to the burned area and move on

 

[soulforge]

This.

While I would never criticize anyone for kicking out a disrespectful b!tch, I'm starting to think that the version of events we are getting from the OP is one-sided and not entirely reliable. I am also getting an emotionally volatile, insecure vibe from the OP (not just from this thread but his other threads as well).

Dude what's insecure about telling a girl to chill with the phone when you're in my pad. Huuh

Insecure is putting up with that shyte, because you scared she might leave or get a little annoyed

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Russian women (I can't speak on Ukrainian) are a special breed. They generally are very submissive and traditional unless you show weakness, and then they will quickly go full rage towards you and are completely unforgiving.

Regardless of this chick's ethnicity, he needed to take a stand to the gas lighting. In a perfect world, that doesn't happen at 3:00 in the morning. But I have kicked a chick out once in the middle of the night for very disrespectful comments (admittedly worse than this). If she is going to run her mouth and act like a b1tch then she is going to be treated like one. If she keeps her mouth shut or better yet apologizes that doesn't happen here. But she woke him up and again wanted to start an argument at 3:00 in the morning. It wasn't like OP randomly woke up and told her to pack her sh1t up due to the earlier behavior. So in this particular case, maybe a bit harsh, but the gaslighting is just completely unacceptable (X2). She earned her boot.

Full blooded Mexican women operate the same manner. They look for the cracks in the mask and once they smell and confirm weakness in her man then it’s death by a thousand cuts.
On the contrary, if you invoke respect and masculinity you got a real submissive keeper for short or long term it all depends on you.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Dude what's insecure about telling a girl to chill with the phone when you're in my pad. Huuh

Insecure is putting up with that shyte, because you scared she might leave or get a little annoyed

I don't man, it's just your overall attitude. First you complain that she's not initiating sex (and that you have to do it all the time), then this instagram thing. And all this drama leading to you kicking her out at 3 am.

Why don't you just drop her? Or treat her purely as a FWB (and stop doing stuff that requires effort, such as cooking).

 

[soulforge]

Bruv these Ukrainian chicks usually get smacked in the fvkin face for stepping out of line.

All I did was offer her Uber money, try call her a taxi and tell her to take her argumentative azz home.

Some of you now expecting me to right out a full fukin letter/essay of apologies.

It's my house, so my fukin rules!

Yeh I wish things could have gone a little smoother but they didn't, so what. She isn't a long term candidate anyway.

 

[soulforge]

I don't man, it's just your overall attitude. First you complain that she's not initiating sex (and that you have to do it all the time), then this instagram thing. And all this drama leading to you kicking her out at 3 am.

Why don't you just drop her? Or treat her purely as a FWB (and stop doing stuff that requires effort, such as cooking).

Bruv the phone thing was just the cherry on the cake.

"Oh your not making it easy for us to fuk?

Oh you also want to take the fukin pizz and chat to chad on Instagram while you're in my pad?

Get the fuk out of here.... Here's the Uber fare.

If I had continued seeing this chick and she turned into a disrespectful monster 6 months down the line and I posted on here about it... You same fuks would be crying,

"Oh you should have kicked that biches ass to the curb at the first moment of disrespect, so you deserved this" haha

 

[soulforge]

I don't man, it's just your overall attitude. First you complain that she's not initiating sex (and that you have to do it all the time), then this instagram thing. And all this drama leading to you kicking her out at 3 am.

Why don't you just drop her? Or treat her purely as a FWB (and stop doing stuff that requires effort, such as cooking).

Seriously Man you guys have got quite some imagination. I threw a fukin burger in the Air Fryer, because I was making some food for myself anyway, so I tossed a burger in for her too.

What you think I was chopping up a bunch of fukin vegetables, getting the fvkin pasta just right.. and running off to the green house to pick some fvking fresh tomatoes!

You some skingy fuks who probably think twice before giving a chick a glass of water.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Bruv the phone thing was just the cherry on the cake.

"Oh your not making it easy for us to fuk?

Oh you also want to take the fukin pizz and chat to chad on Instagram while you're in my pad?

Get the fuk out of here.... Here's the Uber fare.

If I had continued seeing this chick and she turned into a disrespectful monster 6 months down the line and I posted on here about it... You same fuks would be crying,

"Oh you should have kicked that biches ass to the curb at the first moment of disrespect, so you deserved this" haha

Bruv, you don't sound angry/unhinged/emotionally unstable AT ALL. Go back and re-read your posts in this thread. You sound like you are about to fly off the handle all the time. You do realize that this is not normal, right? You care too much.

 

[soulforge]

Bruv, you don't sound angry/unhinged/emotionally unstable AT ALL. Go back and re-read your posts in this thread. You sound like you are about to fly off the handle all the time. You do realize that this is not normal, right? You care too much.

Oh sorry man, you want me to take a softer tone with you? You do realise men just kinda talk like this.

Some men are naturally agressive in there tone. Sorry buttercup I will rephrase what I stated and be nicer to you.

Your making the sex a little difficult
Your also chatting to so and so on a regular while in my house under my roof

Please can you leave.

Is that better for you? Lol

 

[Bokanovsky]

Oh sorry man, you want me to take a softer tone with you? You do realise men just kinda talk like this.

Some men are naturally agressive in there tone. Sorry buttercup I will rephrase what I stated and be nicer to you.

Thanks big guy, much appreciated. No everyone is a roid head who measures their masculinity in decibel levels.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Oh sorry man, you want me to take a softer tone with you? You do realise men just kinda talk like this.

Some men are naturally agressive in there tone. Sorry buttercup I will rephrase what I stated and be nicer to you.

Your making the sex a little difficult
Your also chatting to so and so on a regular while in my house under my roof

Please can you leave.

Is that better for you? Lol

I like these words, but delivered in a Sam Kinison voice.

You just need the "OHHH! OHHH! OHHHHHHHH!!!!!" at the end and you're golden.