Someone explain to me why Incels are so heavily involved in discussions about game/dating/sex.

[Jesse Pinkman]

It's like most of these dudes are convinced that something about themselves they cannot change will forever stop them from getting laid and doing well with women. Most have even accepted their fate. So it is confirmed that these guys admit they will never be able to get attractive women or do well in the game. Fine, we get it.

Here is where I get lost.

Why not just move on?

Like dude, you suck with women, why not just move on from game/dating/sex entirely and go do something else that is productive with your life? Like why not just become a videogame addict FFS? Why not take up farming or gardening or a useful life skill? Why continue to talk about game, dating, and sex when you know you will never have it?

Why not just move on from it all entirely and go dedicate your life to something unrelated to it?

And do not give me that BS that every man DESERVES a woman, that is nonsense. As a man, you do not deserve $hit.

You are not entitled to love or intimacy from a woman if you do not bring what she wants (whatever that may be based on the times we are in) to the table.

So why not just give up entirely and dedicate your life to something else?

Why not just butt out of all of these discussions and all of these things centering around game, sex, and dating and just go focus on something else entirely?

 

[Alvafe]

you tell us?

don't know why anyone would care what someone else do with they life, but hey each to his own

 

[corrector]

You got shadowbanned on dating apps and have recently tried unsuccesfully on Seeking Arrangements (ie which you've given up on game if you went there as going pay4play is "giving up") and now you are making up this post. You are seriously hemmoraging rep points.

You replied to my post about other posters kicking you further when you are down and now you make a thread trying to do the same thing.

 

[NealIRC]

I'm an incel 35, but not looking for sex. I'm looking for conversations with women, particularly free conversations with women.

I'm also an employment-cel, meaning all the jobs I had are minimum wage or part-time.

So, on these forums, I do research on White people. How do White couples 1st meet, did he pursue her or did she pursue him, do women ever ask guys out, or ask guys for their #, or give guys their # without the guy asking, etc. When shirtless men are jogging and pass women, do women turn around to look back, etc.

So, no women in my life, and no Republicans in my life, how does 1 get into their friend-zone.

 

[corrector]

I'm an incel 35, but not looking for sex. I'm looking for conversations with women, particularly free conversations with women.

That's either an inner game strategy or an oxymoron.

I'm also an employment-cel, meaning all the jobs I had are minimum wage or part-time.

Sounds like me as well. The life circumstances that we have do not lend itself in a way that there is a good fit for a woman to be in our lives in any capacity beyond social interactions.

So, on these forums, I do research on White people. How do White couples 1st meet, did he pursue her or did she pursue him, do women ever ask guys out, or ask guys for their #, or give guys their # without the guy asking, etc. When shirtless men are jogging and pass women, do women turn around to look back, etc.

So, no women in my life, and no Republicans in my life, how does 1 get into their friend-zone.

This is a board of a mix of people from various backgrounds.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If I were an incel. I would explore every avenue to escape inceldom. Learning about dating/game/sex would be potentially helpful.

 

[TheEveningChronograph]

Because sitting on their asses and keyboard jockeying is easier/satisfying/cheaper/and requires no testosterone?

 

[NealIRC]

That's either an inner game strategy or an oxymoron.

Yes, apparently getting talked to by women is a real art.

I don't like being a conversation-rapist. Where you force a conversation on a girl, even if it's for a few seconds.

What happens when I talk to a girl, what do they say? They say, the minimum required. And what happens when I run out of something to say. Then the convo ends. So after I ask my last yes/no question, then I give a little pause, then walk away.

But having a girl continue a convo with you or a girl asking you questions back, that's never happened to me before.

 

[NealIRC]

Yes, apparently getting talked to by women is a real art.

I don't like being a conversation-rapist. Where you force a conversation on a girl, even if it's for a few seconds.

What happens when I talk to a girl, what do they say? They say, the minimum required. And what happens when I run out of something to say. Then the convo ends. So after I ask my last yes/no question, then I give a little pause, then walk away.

But having a girl continue a convo with you or a girl asking you questions back, that's never happened to me before.

That's for real life. And on Facebook, my research is how to get women to add you to their friend list or for women to msg you.

Believe it or not, I once posed as a Black person on Facebook and got Black women to be the 1st to msg me, so, there is something about White women...

 

[Bokanovsky]

you tell us?

don't know why anyone would care what someone else do with they life, but hey each to his own

Seriously OP, why are you so obsessed with incels? As long as they are not trying to fvck you, what do you care?

 

[NealIRC]

So why not just give up entirely and dedicate your life to something else?

Why not just butt out of all of these discussions and all of these things centering around game, sex, and dating and just go focus on something else entirely?

This may not have been directed to me to the extent I'm new here, but in any event.

This is the common multi-tasking fallacy.

We do do other stuff.

For me, I been researching a lot in the jewelry industry (gemstones and precious metals), expensive wine industry, automobile industry (diesel vs. gasoline, electric vehicle, car loans), smartphone industry (Android vs. iPhone, carriers vs. vendors), etc.

Pokemon and urban exploring is my hobby.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Like dude, you suck with women, why not just move on from game/dating/sex entirely and go do something else that is productive with your life? Like why not just become a videogame addict FFS? Why not take up farming or gardening or a useful life skill? Why continue to talk about game, dating, and sex when you know you will never have it?

Because it is easier said than done. An incel is more so unable to find a relationship with a women not necessarily getting laid. Getting laid/a one night stand is not that hard, but it is really unfulfilling especially when there’s large gaps in between. Every human needs a relationship regardless of introversion/extroversion.

Why not just move on from it all entirely and go dedicate your life to something unrelated to it?

Go to where? A lot of social things require a spouse or partner. You can’t just hang around with your male friends all of the time. What if they have GFs/wives too?

And do not give me that BS that every man DESERVES a woman, that is nonsense. As a man, you do not deserve $hit.

Agreed, Incels are too arrogant and entitled to retain any form of a healthy relationship. For them to cure their Incel curse, they need to acknowledge this.

You are not entitled to love or intimacy from a woman if you do not bring what she wants (whatever that may be based on the times we are in) to the table.

Agreed

So why not just give up entirely and dedicate your life to something else?

You cannot just quit thinking about women lol especially when you are constantly around them. Monks are able to do this because they live in women free zones.

Why not just butt out of all of these discussions and all of these things centering around game, sex, and dating and just go focus on something else entirely?

Because this is merely a symptom of their sickness, obsessing over women stems from their arrogance and self entitlement.

 

[corrector]

Agreed, Incels are too arrogant and entitled to retain any form of a healthy relationship. For them to cure their Incel curse, they need to acknowledge this.

Acknowledge what? That a hb3 woman can reject her looksmatch and hold out for a normie/chadlite and be delusional and then blame the incel for thinking he's entitled to anyone? That women hold all of the cards, especially with apps? I think this is a type of victim blaming to go and say that incels are arrogant and entitled without acknowledging the dating market is extremely skewed.

Unfortunately, when people get into bad territory themselves it's the only time they have any empathy for others. It's disappointing that JP has been shadowbanned on apps and got pitched for money with women from Seeking Arrangements, and has experience how it is to have others ganging up on him when he's down, and then has the nerve to do exactly the same thing. That is what you call arrogance.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Because it is easier said than done. An incel is more so unable to find a relationship with a women not necessarily getting laid. Getting laid/a one night stand is not that hard, but

Incels are, by definition, unable to get laid.
Getting laid/ONS is ‘that hard’ for many. as an example;
My friends & I are gamers geeks & have been going to local game conventions for years. I have gotten lays from those conventions. I do nor know of any other guys at these conventions who gets a ‘convention lay’. By no means are they all incels. Many are married/relationship. But. If it weren’t ‘that hard’. there would be more hookups.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

You got shadowbanned on dating apps and have recently tried unsuccesfully on Seeking Arrangements (ie which you've given up on game if you went there as going pay4play is "giving up") and now you are making up this post. You are seriously hemmoraging rep points.

You replied to my post about other posters kicking you further when you are down and now you make a thread trying to do the same thing.

- sigh -

Corrector, for one, a couple of users have DM'd me ever since the Seeking Arrangement post and we are actually seeing traction. That aside....

I have been nice to you my guy but you are the last dude on here to come at anyone. Ever since being on this forum, unless I seriously missed some update about your story, you have been grossly out of shape and have not seen any success with women whatsoever. Yeah I got shadowbanned from the apps as it may seem but along with my failure stories, I have success stories to share as well.

You, of all people on here (and that is really saying something given the clowns I have run into as of late), desperately need to get your sh*t together and stop worrying about what any other user is doing with their lives. I am not sure why the first 20 people to tell you this did not get that point across to your successfully.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Seriously OP, why are you so obsessed with incels? As long as they are not trying to fvck you, what do you care?

1. Because they invade almost every online space to spread their lies

2. Because they have nonsense channels which are gaining large followings and causing shootings to happen (ie: Wheat Waffles)

3. Because they are corrupting the minds of young men who can be saved with LMS black pill nonsense

Just to name a few.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

If I were an incel. I would explore every avenue to escape inceldom. Learning about dating/game/sex would be potentially helpful.

Yeah, LEARNING. Meaning you learn and apply yourself.

I am not talking about those guys.

I am talking about the prototypical "LMS" and "looks are everything" loser that infest communities, say game does not work, and then post misogynistic rants. Whenever you try to debate them, they refuse to be helped or learned, instead using "scientific" studies to rationalize their failures with women.

I am cool with guys thinking that way but I am just saying, why not just accept your own fact and GO YOUR OWN WAY?

Go learn a non-romantic hobby or something. Go monk mode.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Acknowledge what? That a hb3 woman can reject her looksmatch and hold out for a normie/chadlite and be delusional and then blame the incel for thinking he's entitled to anyone? That women hold all of the cards, especially with apps? I think this is a type of victim blaming to go and say that incels are arrogant and entitled without acknowledging the dating market is extremely skewed.

Unfortunately, when people get into bad territory themselves it's the only time they have any empathy for others. It's disappointing that JP has been shadowbanned on apps and got pitched for money with women from Seeking Arrangements, and has experience how it is to have others ganging up on him when he's down, and then has the nerve to do exactly the same thing. That is what you call arrogance.

I know several incels. None of them are entitled, arrogant or women-haters. They are good guys and I value their friendship.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Unfortunately, when people get into bad territory themselves it's the only time they have any empathy for others. It's disappointing that JP has been shadowbanned on apps and got pitched for money with women from Seeking Arrangements, and has experience how it is to have others ganging up on him when he's down, and then has the nerve to do exactly the same thing. That is what you call arrogance.

I am not kicking down the incel who is trying to genuinely improve his life, I should have clarified that. I am however kicking down the typical black pilled LMS troll that infests community after community and losers like Wheat Waffles who cause shootings to happen. If you are down and humble about it, I will wish you the best. But most of these incels I speak of are not like that, they are arrogant, entitled, spiteful, hateful, and even attack other people at every turn.

For these men, why can't they just move on from game if they are convinced that it is out of their control?

 

[corrector]

- stop worrying about what any other user is doing with their lives.

Monkey see, monkey do.