Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

[Jesse Pinkman]

Boom. That's pure fire bro!!! You've approached more women in one night than i did this entire year haha. So..i might go out today after all me thinks..

Feck going down that SA rabbit hole. You dont need that shyte AT ALL.

I am not going to give up Seeking just yet, I got a membership for a month so let's see what comes of it. I am still talking to a number of women off of it. However, I do recommend going out and gaming. Sometimes, it is like the gym, you just have to go. Just go to the venue with no intent to approach and I swear, you are going to want to approach eventually.

It is more about not relying on a single avenue.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

You have something special going on. You have an ability to approach strangers better than most unattached men. Focus on this and delete Seeking.

Well, if there is anything being in the game community and dealing with crap wings has taught me, it is that most "unattached men" are too broken internally, toxic, and have no idea of what they are doing to even have any business out there approaching. I almost don't want to meet up with a wing anymore but am making a rare exception. Outside of him, I am going to do this all solo from here on out.

 

[SW15]

Well, if there is anything being in the game community and dealing with crap wings has taught me, it is that most "unattached men" are too broken internally, toxic, and have no idea of what they are doing to even have any business out there approaching. I almost don't want to meet up with a wing anymore but am making a rare exception. Outside of him, I am going to do this all solo from here on out.

The typical normie unattached man is not part of the Game community. That man is not reading blogs/books about attraction/seduction. He's not watching YouTube videos about attraction/seduction and he's not using SoSuave or similar forums. The typical normie unattached guy is some beta/Average Frustrated Chump who swipes on apps, maybe does approaches in bars, watches porn and masturbates, and watches pro/college sports.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

The typical normie unattached man is not part of the Game community. That man is not reading blogs/books about attraction/seduction. He's not watching YouTube videos about attraction/seduction and he's not using SoSuave or similar forums. The typical normie unattached guy is some beta/Average Frustrated Chump who swipes on apps, maybe does approaches in bars, watches porn and masturbates, and watches pro/college sports.

If I was to point something out in the normal guy, I would say that he is usually clingy, needy, and desperate so that comes across in his approaches.

 

[SW15]

If I was to point something out in the normal guy, I would say that he is usually clingy, needy, and desperate so that comes across in his approaches.

That's true. A lot of Average Frustrated Chumps aren't even approaching anymore, as they are solely swipe app users and DM'ers on the social media platforms. I'm sure their texts/DMs do also come across as clingy and needy.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Went out and cold approached but due to the depressing weather of Miami today, it was relatively empty. Did have a few good approaches and opened some group sets but all in all, not any numbers or nothing like that. This being said, so happy to just be out and be at it again. It has truly been a while when I enjoyed my weekends this much. So glad to be back in that routine. I need to build some serious momentum this summer and head into summer like a madman.

 

[SW15]

How do dogs affect your daygaming @Jesse Pinkman ? I don't seem to recall you ever mentioning the presence of dogs in your daygaming efforts.

My sense is that Miami is a better foot traffic city than Dallas. Dallas is not known at all for foot traffic. A lot of Dallas foot traffic is associated with dog walking.

There are two major walking paths in Dallas proper that draw some audience. Those two areas have the most options for approaching. There's certainly sufficient foot traffic at both but getting attention can be challenging. Most women wear earbuds if alone on both of those paths and a good portion of them are walking dogs as well.

There are also some neighborhoods in Dallas near apartments/condos/townhomes where a lot of foot traffic is dog walkers and many are also wearing earbuds while walking the dog.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

How do dogs affect your daygaming @Jesse Pinkman ? I don't seem to recall you ever mentioning the presence of dogs in your daygaming efforts.

My sense is that Miami is a better foot traffic city than Dallas. Dallas is not known at all for foot traffic. A lot of Dallas foot traffic is associated with dog walking.

There are two major walking paths in Dallas proper that draw some audience. Those two areas have the most options for approaching. There's certainly sufficient foot traffic at both but getting attention can be challenging. Most women wear earbuds if alone on both of those paths and a good portion of them are walking dogs as well.

There are also some neighborhoods in Dallas near apartments/condos/townhomes where a lot of foot traffic is dog walkers and many are also wearing earbuds while walking the dog.

I kind of list out my approaches these days but I always open with a "is he friendly?" when they have a dog and then transition to talking to them right afterwards. If they say the dog is not friendly, I think it is their way of saying they are not interested most of the times.

 

[SW15]

I kind of list out my approaches these days but I always open with a "is he friendly?" when they have a dog and then transition to talking to them right afterwards. If they say the dog is not friendly, I think it is their way of saying they are not interested most of the times.

Good point and good tactic.

My sense is that a lot of dogs don't have the patience to withstand a 5 minute, male-female approach and conversation. I have gotten numbers and arranged dates with dog walkers/dog owners. My preference in general is to approach a woman who is not with her pet outdoors. Petless women are desirable if they are good looking, though fewer Millennial women are petless.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Good point and good tactic.

My sense is that a lot of dogs don't have the patience to withstand a 5 minute, male-female approach and conversation. I have gotten numbers and arranged dates with dog walkers/dog owners. My preference in general is to approach a woman who is not with her pet outdoors. Petless women are desirable if they are good looking, though fewer Millennial women are petless.

Tell me about it, ran through Hinge and there were so many pics of women with dogs. I saw 3 out of 10 hot girls with the "you better be a dog person because" line.

 

[SW15]

Tell me about it, ran through Hinge and there were so many pics of women with dogs. I saw 3 out of 10 hot girls with the "you better be a dog person because" line.

I've seen the same thing before on swipe apps.

Many men also find women who own cats to be annoying too.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I've seen the same thing before on swipe apps.

Many men also find women who own cats to be annoying too.

TBH, gimme a cat lady over a dog lady these days.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I kind of list out my approaches these days but I always open with a "is he friendly?" when they have a dog and then transition to talking to them right afterwards. If they say the dog is not friendly, I think it is their way of saying they are not interested most of the times.

What if the dog starts humping your leg Jesse?

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

What if the dog starts humping your leg Jesse?

"Seems like he comes from a fun household"

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

6/17/23 - The Return

This is for you all @Gamisch @SW15 and @Solomon

I was supposed to have a date planned for this day but it ended up going sideways. Had a few drinks but then realized that if I stay in, I am going to be bored. Decide to hit up a venue I usually go to on Saturdays for nightgame and got there somewhere around midnight. First few minutes, I walk around looking for sets but then I said screw it, I need to do some approaches.

Two-set.

Approach these two girls at the bar. My opener was that they must be from DC by the way they are dressed. Both girls had a relatively chill vibe to them and were cute. One was kind of drunk but I felt super into me. They knew each other from high school and the one into me was originally from LA. The other friend was leaving the next morning to go back to the UK as she lives there now while the LA one now lives in Miami. We had a great time talking overall, the LA girl hates Miami a lot just like I do lol. However, I struggle to be loud enough in this venue where the music is turned up and I really need to work on projecting my voice more.

Get both of their contacts, one does not use IG so gives me her snapchat but the other (LA girl) volunteers to give me her snapchat too. LA girl also follows me back.

Two Latinas.

One Latina I see has her dress blending in with the environment so II approach her and her friend for it. They are living in Miami Beach but both of them are Colombian. It goes relatively well as a conversation and we have a great time chatting, they are chill but waiting on friends. I kind of let it go dry but still manage to get their IGs. After this approach I would mindlessly wander around a bit more but man, that was a much needed boost, two straight closes to start the night. Where was I the whole time lol, I should have been doing this more!

White girl lost her friends.

Make small talk with a white girl that lost her friends but she is not receptive. I only approached her because I needed to keep the momentum going.

Mexican girl with her friends.

Comment on a tattoo this blonde Mexican girl had, it went relatively alright but her friends were close by and she had to go. Nothing comes of this.

Hot girl with tattoo.

I go near a bar and see this hot dark haired girl with a tattoo and I comment on it. I tell her that the tattoo looks fancy on her and she is receptive to me. She is visiting from Minnesota and leaves next week but is also a tall Latin girl from there. I somehow do well with midwestern girls and really love their vibe so I keep talking to her as she orders the drinks. Tell her I will take her out somewhere fancier than where we are at and she agrees with it. Get her IG and then she has to walk away to her friends. Moments later some random dudes come up to me and fist bump me. I try not to do it too much because I don't want her to look back and see that she was being gamed lol but the dudes seemed cool.

This morning, she followed me back and we are DMing each other.

I ended the night with a bit of street game. Approached this hot blonde and hot Asian girl two set but kind of chickened out in the approach, could have made more of it.

All in all, not a bad night.

Thought I'd give some updates here

1. Girl from group set 1 still follows me back but seems to rarely be on IG, did not even read my most recent DM.

2. Of the two latinas, the one I was going for follows me back like 2 days later and says it was good meeting me.

3. Hot girl with tattoo went from almost going on a date with me to unfollowing me and removing me as her follower.

Either way, I need to go back this Saturday and stay on the hunt.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

June 23.

Could not sleep well the night before and then the night before that, tried melatonin but it screwed me up. Was a bit feverish earlier in the week so have not gone to the gym at all. Friday comes and I am excited but also drained. It is not from work but from getting feverish earlier in the week and not being able to sleep no matter how hard I try. I take like a 4 hour nap after work but it is one of those naps that is tough to get out of, like you just want to remain in bed.

Finally get dressed and ready up to head on out. I had to drink to even force myself out lol.

All in all, did 11 lackluster approaches to get back into the swing of things. Got one close from a three-set but that is about it. Only 1 group of women were rude and it was really only 1 chick in the group if anything.

Again, glad to be back at it. Goal is to do game 3 days in a row and get myself out there approaching again.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

June 23.

Could not sleep well the night before and then the night before that, tried melatonin but it screwed me up. Was a bit feverish earlier in the week so have not gone to the gym at all. Friday comes and I am excited but also drained. It is not from work but from getting feverish earlier in the week and not being able to sleep no matter how hard I try. I take like a 4 hour nap after work but it is one of those naps that is tough to get out of, like you just want to remain in bed.

Finally get dressed and ready up to head on out. I had to drink to even force myself out lol.

All in all, did 11 lackluster approaches to get back into the swing of things. Got one close from a three-set but that is about it. Only 1 group of women were rude and it was really only 1 chick in the group if anything.

Again, glad to be back at it. Goal is to do game 3 days in a row and get myself out there approaching again.

We have our own product testers Jesse, they are called "customers". Stop using the product and get back to work.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I feel good today and it is almost unreal to describe, have not felt this good in weeks. Actually went 2+ days without fapping which I have not been able to do in the past few weeks. Got some sleep last night after weeks of insomnia. Slowly starting to bring some rhyme and reason into my life. Have some family plans July 4th but man, I cannot wait to be back at it.

 

[SW15]

My sense is that a lot of dogs don't have the patience to withstand a 5 minute, male-female approach and conversation. I have gotten numbers and arranged dates with dog walkers/dog owners. My preference in general is to approach a woman who is not with her pet outdoors. Petless women are desirable if they are good looking, though fewer Millennial women are petless.

TBH, gimme a cat lady over a dog lady these days.

Roosh called street game the most difficult venue hands down back in 2012.

How To Pick Up Girls On The Street

Between dog walkers and earbuds, there's a reason why outdoor and street game is so difficult.

You're fortunate that Brickell and South Beach have regular pedestrians. Dallas doesn't have a lot in the way of regular pedestrian foot traffic, unlike a London or a New York City. Dallas' biggest foot traffic areas are walking paths where there are dogs and earbuds.

Indoor retail game has less in the way of dogs and earbuds. Now that indoor masking has ended, that's why I think indoor game is now a better focal point.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Jul 5

Well, after a week worth of traveling to see family for the 4th of July, I decided to check out my Seeking Arrangements account. I have made it vehemently clear in my account that I am not looking for any Pay Per Meet or anything that would be remotely close to a Sugar Daddy relationship. Had a few women reach out and compliment me on taking a stance. Had a few dates lined up after I got some numbers.

One was a Brazilian girl today, blonde hair and a nice tan. It is funny how it works because I barely chat with them much, I just name the spot and tell them we should meet up there and they are super down for it. I ended up ordering an Uber for her to come since she was a bit far away and we had dinner, I paid since it was the first date. She was telling me how she is here temporarily and we started vibing.

Unfortunately, it was hot as heck outside, this heatwave was just CRAZY. The spot was a 10 minute walk from me but in this heat, even that was crazy AF. I made the mistake of showing her around the place a bit and just walking for a few minutes, we were spent! I really do feel like this heat wave is going to be one massive ****block for me, it's quite hotter than I am used to. We finally walk over to my spot and I manage to get her back to my place.

We chilled and chatted for a bit and then got intimate with each other. She immediately goes down on me and gives me a BJ. I was hard as a rock throughout the date and had been doing No Fap. I ended up finishing a bit early as the BJ made me bust a massive load. She even laughed but it was different. She was massaging my testicles while giving me a BJ which made me moan like a MOFO.

I tried to do more after that but more or less failed. She did compliment on my cawk being huge even though I am only like a little over 6 inches erect lol. I paid for her Uber back.

Not that impressive but quite the moral victory.

I am not that proud of myself but in a summer that has proven to be quite a mess for me in terms of game, quite a much-needed moral victory. I had pro photos taken but in Miami, not good enough as the ELO screwed me. I dealt with toxic wingman after toxic wingman that crushed my game and vibe when I was getting back into game. I dealt with being sick. I felt so deflated and then my friends who I am on cool terms with tell me how the heat wave is killing daygame for them too.

I am just so glad to finally be back and have some sort of an outcome. Not that proud of how I got it but a fun time nonetheless. Today was a respectable enough day and a day for a good moral victory.