Why So Many Young Men Are Single and Sexless

[CornbreadFed]

The world that we live in is still kept running by men and only by men. Gender studies dont fix plumbing and dont keep nuclear power plants working. They dont build tractors and they dont build even the wooden pallets your "careerist GF´s" next ceramic toilet gets stored on in a warehouse that is operated by men and the light in that warehouse is running because of men that work the electricity grid.

The only problem is that men do not get the credit they deserve for their work.

But as western society goes down the drain, this is about to change again.

Well it is never going to happen, so what are you going to do about it?

 

[Fruitbat]

It was always the same. Young men it was always 10% getting it all.

as you get older and make money and a frame it gets easier.

 

[MatureDJ]

Also in Toronto, there are just so many choices of escorts, that it is mind-boggling. It gives you a feeling of abundance and like being rejection-proof because there are just so many available girls out there that you can just fap on it.

What is the going rate in Toronto?

 

[Gamisch]

I know this guy who maybe slept with one woman once his entire life. Good dude, hard working ,good earner and responsible spender. Socially active and a man you can count on.

Oke , he is somewhat overweight. Lets say in a typical desk job shape. Yes a nerdy guy. This combined with no game (zero) means he'll simply never ever gets in touch with women. When he does ,at a party for example, he doesn't know what to do . It's sad really. I know plenty of women, even some of my troubled nieces, who should be with such a man rather than thug #500.

Men like this are completely invisible to women. I respect how this dude gave up on women but definitely not on life. If , and that's a big if, he somehow puts the puzzle pieces about game together, all he needs to do is hit the gym like a maniac and ofcourse work on his swag /style. All earthly things that are achievable.

And that last part goes for most men ,even a lotta men here. Just keep improving and be ready.

 

[Gamisch]

“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.”
This quote never gets old.

I think one of the main reasons is above.
Most men in the after Gen X are weak men, especially when it comes to
Gen Z. If you cannot cope with the resistance life gives you, but moan, cry and complain of "how hard it is"; well then.. You have already set yourself up for failure.

We all have to cope with the challenges of the dating scene and adapt to the changes in both female mentality and the new technology that has been introduced since the introduction of the internet about 20+ years ago. Some of thrive in the environment while others let's call them the 80 percenters do not. A weak frame of mind which most of these guys have set them up for direct failure and thus produce mediocre results or none at all.

Great post.

The numbers show that the adoption to this new environment is tough. But despite all of that, a man has no other option . And once you do figure it out you will benefit from this big time.

 

[corrector]

What is the going rate in Toronto?

$70/hh (most are non discriminating.and are typically Spanish). If you want something more niche, young and hotter then it may be more. If you have fetish and want 19 year old hotties into crazy things then $300-400hr might be more in line with whitemaxxing to pass the door (in some places - you dont want to be misidentified as middle east).

I have officially ended that yesterday and my only involvment was 100% mental/internet.

 

[Robert28]

It was always the same. Young men it was always 10% getting it all.

as you get older and make money and a frame it gets easier.

I’ve had less luck in my older years than I did when I was younger. I’d kill to have the success I had back in the day lol

 

[SW15]

I’ve had less luck in my older years than I did when I was younger. I’d kill to have the success I had back in the day lol

You might have either been in better shape when you were 18-28 or you had more proximity to more women.

If you're roughly 40 years old and having issues with women age 33+, that's a sign something is off.

 

[Robert28]

You might have either been in better shape when you were 18-28 or you had more proximity to more women.

If you're roughly 40 years old and having issues with women age 33+, that's a sign something is off.

Something is off. I’m telling you, I constantly either get dumped after the second date (usually slow faded more than outright dumped so I never know the real reason) or I can’t make it past a month. And I’m a guy that always had a steady gf in my high school, college, and beyond days. I’m in better shape now than when I was younger and played football, not as big but I’m more defined.

 

[SW15]

Something is off. I’m telling you, I constantly either get dumped after the second date (usually slow faded more than outright dumped so I never know the real reason) or I can’t make it past a month. And I’m a guy that always had a steady gf in my high school, college, and beyond days. I’m in better shape now than when I was younger and played football, not as big but I’m more defined.

Ex-college football player status wouldn't matter at age 40. You didn't even play D-1 NCAA football.

D-1 NCAA athlete status in most sports can help with getting laid from ages 22-29 even without going pro in that sport. After 30, D-1 NCAA athlete status doesn't mean much.

Dumped after 2nd date? The more common outcome is "one date, no sex, no second date".

Not making it past one month when you get past a 2nd date is also curious too. One month is typically around 4-5 dates.

These aren't substantial relationships in any way, though some can involve getting sex.

In general, younger men (under 30-35) are not having good experiences in the mating marketplace. There are some 35+ guys doing somewhat well but I've seen/heard stores of a lot of 35+ men still struggling.

 

[Robert28]

Ex-college football player status wouldn't matter at age 40. You didn't even play D-1 NCAA football.

D-1 NCAA athlete status in most sports can help with getting laid from ages 22-29 even without going pro in that sport. After 30, D-1 NCAA athlete status doesn't mean much.

Dumped after 2nd date? The more common outcome is "one date, no sex, no second date".

Not making it past one month when you get past a 2nd date is also curious too. One month is typically around 4-5 dates.

These aren't substantial relationships in any way, though some can involve getting sex.

Well I will say that most of the women who dumped me after a couple dates or a month are still single. I think I’m meeting alot of women who are still hung up on an ex and there isn’t much you can do about that. I could go on the dating apps right now and I bet I’d see the same women on there I couldn’t get past a second date with. I’m actually in better shape than most guys my age but I don’t think it helps any. Yeah it’s fine for the married milf to look at and smile at the grocery store but that’s about all that’ll happen since she’s married and you can’t hit on her so you just smile back.
I think the not getting passed the second date is more, they were interested enough in me to see me again but not all the way attracted. So when they go on the second date they’re like “nope not attracted”. My personality got me a second date but that’s as far as it goes. The month long dating thing is weird, things will be going well and they start acting weird suddenly and next thing I know I’m dumped on my ass after a day or two. I’m guessing they’re still on the apps the entire time, which is fine, and they met someone they liked better than me.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

The second date dumps: have you gorren in their pants?

Well I will say that most of the women who dumped me after a couple dates or a month are still single. I think I’m meeting alot of women who are still hung up on an ex and there isn’t much you can do about that. I could go on the dating apps right now and I bet I’d see the same women on there I couldn’t get past a second date with. I’m actually in better shape than most guys my age but I don’t think it helps any. Yeah it’s fine for the married milf to look at and smile at the grocery store but that’s about all that’ll happen since she’s married and you can’t hit on her so you just smile back.
I think the not getting passed the second date is more, they were interested enough in me to see me again but not all the way attracted. So when they go on the second date they’re like “nope not attracted”. My personality got me a second date but that’s as far as it goes. The month long dating thing is weird, things will be going well and they start acting weird suddenly and next thing I know I’m dumped on my ass after a day or two. I’m guessing they’re still on the apps the entire time, which is fine, and they met someone they liked better than me.

 

[Robert28]

The second date dumps: have you gorren in their pants?

Nope.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Well it is never going to happen, so what are you going to do about it?

I dont need to do anything. A broken societys demise has allways happened.

Putting useless "career" women on a pedestal for their gender studies degree and a 100k student loan doesnt make them high value.

Ignorance will not save you boi.

 

[BadBoy89]

If you're roughly 40 years old and having issues with women age 33+, that's a sign something is off.

It’s funny. Right now I could contact 3 younger woman; 28 year old, a 29 year old, or a 31 year old woman, and go out with any of them in 24 hours, Easy connection.

I could also phone a 38 year old woman, a 42 year old divorced women, or even a 50 year old who looks decent. It is much more difficult go to out with them. Very hard connection.

Younger girls are so so much easier.

 

[corrector]

It’s funny. Right now I could contact 3 younger woman; 28 year old, a 29 year old, or a 31 year old woman, and go out with any of them in 24 hours, Easy connection.

I could also phone a 38 year old woman, a 42 year old divorced women, or even a 50 year old who looks decent. It is much more difficult go to out with them. Very hard connection.

Younger girls are so so much easier.

That is because @SW15 is a mid-tier normie, resonates with others like him and projects his reality on chads and chadlites. He writes allot for someone who claims to have a rotation.

As you are chad/chadlite tier your experience witg dating would be vastly different from a sub8. People have to come to terms that there are different looks levels and different realities on here rather than defend their dating reality / cohort reality as definitive.

 

[CornbreadFed]

That is because @SW15 is a mid-tier normie, resonates with others like him and projects his reality on chads and chadlites. He writes allot for someone who claims to have a rotation.

As you are chad/chadlite tier your experience witg dating would be vastly different from a sub8. People have to come to terms that there are different looks levels and different realities on here rather than defend their dating reality / cohort reality as definitive.

Exactly, if this was true then why do I rarely see women dating older men?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

the older you are the more responsibilities you have. I used to use my key ring as a measure of my burden of responsibility - more keys = more responsibility.

It’s funny. Right now I could contact 3 younger woman; 28 year old, a 29 year old, or a 31 year old woman, and go out with any of them in 24 hours, Easy connection.

I could also phone a 38 year old woman, a 42 year old divorced women, or even a 50 year old who looks decent. It is much more difficult go to out with them. Very hard connection.

Younger girls are so so much easier.

 

[Robert28]

Men are single and sexless because women play way too many games these days. They’ve ruined online dating, they’ve ruined cold approaching, they’ve ruined the fun dating use to be.

 

[SW15]

Well I will say that most of the women who dumped me after a couple dates or a month are still single.

The second date dumps: have you gorren in their pants?

Nope.

These second date dumps are worthless experiences. Two dates, no sex, and no third date is a waste of time.

I think I’m meeting alot of women who are still hung up on an ex and there isn’t much you can do about that. I could go on the dating apps right now and I bet I’d see the same women on there I couldn’t get past a second date with. I’m actually in better shape than most guys my age but I don’t think it helps any. Yeah it’s fine for the married milf to look at and smile at the grocery store but that’s about all that’ll happen since she’s married and you can’t hit on her so you just smile back.
I think the not getting passed the second date is more, they were interested enough in me to see me again but not all the way attracted. So when they go on the second date they’re like “nope not attracted”. My personality got me a second date but that’s as far as it goes. The month long dating thing is weird, things will be going well and they start acting weird suddenly and next thing I know I’m dumped on my ass after a day or two. I’m guessing they’re still on the apps the entire time, which is fine, and they met someone they liked better than me.

The biggest problem is that you are using apps to arrange dates. That's the lowest quality option you can use. If you're a decent man but not a Top 10% man, you're wasting your time on apps.

You are giving off boyfriend vibes if you're not smashing on the first 2 dates. Perhaps you're not perceived as boyfriend worthy despite positioning yourself as a boyfriend because you're not smashing fast.

Women are entertaining multiple options on apps. Ideally, you're meeting women in person and the women you meet in person aren't on the apps. Meeting in person is the key thing.

You need to up your activity in the real world. The problem is that most 40-45 year old men aren't psyched for doing 2-3 hour mall approach sessions on a weekend afternoon or lingering in a grocery store for 1-1.5 hours. You might be fit enough to approach in the gym or fitness classes.