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Sosuave Poll Scenario: Which girl would you choose to date

Which Girl would you choose to date

  • Scenario A

  • Scenario B

  • Scenario C


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CornbreadFed

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Scenario: Picture the exact same girl in three different versions and imagine her being your dream girl or something…She’s a 10/10
Parameters: You cannot dump or divorce this girl

Scenario A- The girl is 18 and a peak 10/10, but she is a single mom to some deadbeat Kevin that drives a Mustang and hangs out with high schoolers

Scenario B- The same girl at age 21, but she is fat. There is a 30% chance that she will lose this weight permanently

Scenario C- She is 34, and attractive, that’s it.

Which one do you choose?
 

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Interesting thread idea.

Situation A. pass on single moms.

Situation B. Not for me. Its awful hard for me to try and lower my standards.. even average is kinda weird for me so fat is out the question

That being said im goin for the single 34 whos attractive. As a man I dont need anything from a woman besides her beauty and my pleasure. A woman who you give your energy and attention to and treat right is bound to become an asset to you in some ways or another.

You coulda done some more situations with red flags but..you made this pretty easy lol.
 

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How fat are we talking

I'd pick a young and feminine fat girl over a jaded, toxic, delusional 34 year old with no eggs

We'd have to bring personality/character into question
 

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How fat are we talking

I'd pick a young and feminine fat girl over a jaded, toxic, delusional 34 year old with no eggs

We'd have to bring personality/character into question
I assume that everything is the same about all 3 women except for the specific differences OP mentioned.

A, B, and C will have the same personality.

Realistically, what you said about eggs will likely be a differentiating factor, but personally I don't care about that at all since I don't want kids. Assuming that the 34 year old is just as feminine and sweet as the other options, this is a no-brainer for me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Interesting thread idea.

Situation A. pass on single moms.

Situation B. Not for me. Its awful hard for me to try and lower my standards.. even average is kinda weird for me so fat is out the question

That being said im goin for the single 34 whos attractive. As a man I dont need anything from a woman besides her beauty and my pleasure. A woman who you give your energy and attention to and treat right is bound to become an asset to you in some ways or another.

You coulda done some more situations with red flags but..you made this pretty easy lol.
just a simple poll this time lol
 

FlexpertHamilton

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I assume that everything is the same about all 3 women except for the specific differences OP mentioned.

A, B, and C will have the same personality.

Realistically, what you said about eggs will likely be a differentiating factor, but personally I don't care about that at all since I don't want kids. Assuming that the 34 year old is just as feminine and sweet as the other options, this is a no-brainer for me.
I don't want kids either but no eggs = not feminine

It's extremely rare to meet a women over 27-28 who both looks and acts as feminine as a young woman

If C was genuinely as feminine as the 21 year old then I'd definitely pick her but this is kind of a pointless exercise because if their personality is the same then their age doesn't matter.
 

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Option C is best for me. She's an attractive 34 year old childless woman. It is my hope that she's not a career woman working excessive hours. A 34 year old woman is a younger woman for me.
 

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Option C is best for me. She's an attractive 34 year old childless woman. It is my hope that she's not a career woman working excessive hours. A 34 year old woman is a younger woman for me.
I think Option C is going to be what jives with most of the men here including myself.

We are discussing this in a vacuum of course where all other things are the same -- but let's be honest, that isn't realistic. This single 34 year old with no kids probably has loads of bad LTR experience, probably is also Cluster B, etc. She is going to be scarred and you are going to pay for it. Given that, I would be tempted to go option A and take a chance, but 18 is awfully young to have a relationship with. I at least need to be able to walk into a bar with an LTR.
 

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Option C is best for me. She's an attractive 34 year old childless woman. It is my hope that she's not a career woman working excessive hours. A 34 year old woman is a younger woman for me.
Almost all childless women at 34 are career women.
 

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It's extremely rare to meet a women over 27-28 who both looks and acts as feminine as a young woman
This 100%
Don't forget the OP stated:
Parameters: You cannot dump or divorce this girl
That means that if you want an easy, as drama free as possible life, you have to get a girl young enough that you can mold. Good luck doing that with a 34yrs old woman. :rolleyes:
 

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Scenario: Picture the exact same girl in three different versions and imagine her being your dream girl or something…She’s a 10/10
Parameters: You cannot dump or divorce this girl

Scenario A- The girl is 18 and a peak 10/10, but she is a single mom to some deadbeat Kevin that drives a Mustang and hangs out with high schoolers

Scenario B- The same girl at age 21, but she is fat. There is a 30% chance that she will lose this weight permanently

Scenario C- She is 34, and attractive, that’s it.

Which one do you choose?
None of the above
 

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Almost all childless women at 34 are career women.
This is a good point and I would to provide more details on it. I'm going to go through women in some occupations.

Think about dental hygienists and paralegals. These two professions pay reasonably well, have reasonable hours, and are not excessively demanding. Women who work these jobs can live comfortably in a decent one bedroom apartment or get a roommate and live in a nicer, 2 bedroom place. They don't make enough to have a luxurious lifestyle, but they do make enough for a decent one. Neither occupation is an occupation with women with advanced level degrees. Both occupations have trade certifications and neither requires even a bachelor's degree. It's a common path for paralegals to have a bachelor's degree though. An associate level degree is more common than a bachelor's degree for dental hygienists.

Because neither dental hygienists nor paralegals are major career women, most are desirable.

I would say that the majority of 34 year old dental hygienists and paralegals have a child by 34. They are either married moms or single moms by 34.

Other medical assistants are a lot like dental hygienists and have a child by 34.

Most 34 year old elementary school teachers have a child by 34. Elementary school teachers are not career women with advanced degrees. They are typically women with elementary education bachelor's degrees.

Most 34 year old retail worker females or 34 year old bartenders have a child. Most 34 year old waitresses at restaurants like Denny's or Applebee's have less than a college degree and have a child.

Who are 34 year old childless women?

These are university professors, lawyers, doctors/dentists, psychologists, and higher level individual contributor/middle manager business women. All of these women have at least a bachelor's degree and many of them have advanced level degrees.

I think Option C is going to be what jives with most of the men here including myself.

We are discussing this in a vacuum of course where all other things are the same -- but let's be honest, that isn't realistic. This single 34 year old with no kids probably has loads of bad LTR experience, probably is also Cluster B, etc. She is going to be scarred and you are going to pay for it. Given that, I would be tempted to go option A and take a chance, but 18 is awfully young to have a relationship with. I at least need to be able to walk into a bar with an LTR.
You make a good point about the typical childless 34 year old woman, who might have one of the occupations I listed above. She definitely has had bad experiences in the sexual marketplace. She might even have a childless divorce to her name. If never married, she might have ridden the penis carousel, lived in a boyfriend and it didn't work, etc.

I'm not tempted to go with the 18 year old because she already has a child. The ability to walk into a bar with an LTR is a good thing. It's been a very long time since my last date with someone under age 21.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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