Women Don't Want a Semi-Successful Man

[jaymbrs]

Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.

 

[Robert28]

I find that this same attitude carry’s well into their 30’s too. Some even into their early 40’s. I’ve noticed the same thing though. They either want the guy that doesn’t have a pot to piss in or Warren Buffet fvck you money.

 

[The Duke]

Fellas, it doesn't matter where you are on the economic ladder. It's the same ole tune and I can back that up.

They wouldn't know what to do with Mr Perfect. They'd fuhk that up too.

There was a reason our grandfather's kept them bare foot and pregnant and behind the stove.

It's a different world now, it is what it is. Adapt, and play along. I didn't write the new rules and I wish it was different.

Use your power to your advantage. Unnatural as it may seem, Approach dating like they do and you will beat them every time.

 

[BadBoy89]

It’s funny, I remember watching a sports show years back talking about NFL quarterbacks. They brought in an analyst on their show and he said that in the NFL:

‘’NFL teams don’t want a decent QB. A decent QB won’t get them anywhere. They either want a great QB or a terrible QB. A great QB can take them far. A terrible QB can tell them the direction they should take with their the franchise via trades, draft picks, etc. A decent QB and they don’t really know what to do, they are stuck in no man’s land for years.”

The OP has a point, either have to be outstanding or terrible. Decent wont cut it nowadays.

 

[TheManMasenko]

The older you get the harder dating becomes if you're not putting in the work.

The older you get the easier dating becomes if you're putting in the work.

 

[Murk]

Not exactly true though is it.

 

[member160292]

Fellas, it doesn't matter where you are on the economic ladder. It's the same ole tune and I can back that up.

They wouldn't know what to do with Mr Perfect. They'd fuhk that up too.

There was a reason our grandfather's kept them bare foot and pregnant and behind the stove.

It's a different world now, it is what it is. Adapt, and play along. I didn't write the new rules and I wish it was different.

Use your power to your advantage. Unnatural as it may seem, Approach dating like they do and you will beat them every time.

Word.
Adapt to the evolving dating market or get left behind in your own ideologies.

 

[Gamisch]

This might become a great thread..

Big factor is that women nowadays earn enough money to be independent. Women dont need men to survive anymore. With such a salary you can, at best, provide her with a little extra luxury left and right but you cant have a significant impact on her life(style). With this money you can't even "simp your way into their panties". You can't afford multiple luxury vacations, items ,dinners ect without feeling a painful sting in your wallet.

Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.

Whats frustrating you bruh? Tell us more..

Fellas, it doesn't matter where you are on the economic ladder. It's the same ole tune and I can back that up.

They wouldn't know what to do with Mr Perfect. They'd fuhk that up too.

There was a reason our grandfather's kept them bare foot and pregnant and behind the stove.

It's a different world now, it is what it is. Adapt, and play along. I didn't write the new rules and I wish it was different.

Use your power to your advantage. Unnatural as it may seem, Approach dating like they do and you will beat them every time.

What are some adaptations you recommend?

 

[Gamisch]

Fellas, it doesn't matter where you are on the economic ladder. It's the same ole tune and I can back that up.

They wouldn't know what to do with Mr Perfect. They'd fuhk that up too.

There was a reason our grandfather's kept them bare foot and pregnant and behind the stove.

It's a different world now, it is what it is. Adapt, and play along. I didn't write the new rules and I wish it was different.

Use your power to your advantage. Unnatural as it may seem, Approach dating like they do and you will beat them every time.

What are some adaptations you recommend?

 

[jaymbrs]

This might become a great thread..

Big factor is that women nowadays earn enough money to be independent. Women dont need men to survive anymore. With such a salary you can, at best, provide her with a little extra luxury left and right but you cant have a significant impact on her life(style). With this money you can't even "simp your way into their panties". You can't afford multiple luxury vacations, items ,dinners ect without feeling a painful sting in your wallet.

Whats frustrating you bruh? Tell us more..


What are some adaptations you recommend?

Great point. I'm more than certain that's a big factor in why they pass on guys who are making a decent income, but not enough to change their lives. Back then, it was easier since they didn't make as much.

My frustration stems from being a much better version of myself 10+ years ago. I've busted my butt working on my career and can say I'm successful, and still improving. With this improvement I expect higher quality women. Yet, AVERAGE women are behaving as if they're too good. Or I'm not good enough. The most recent one I believe I posted on your thread of Power with Boundaries. I am shocked at how easily she walked. Just mind blowing.

 

[Gamisch]

Great point. I'm more than certain that's a big factor in why they pass on guys who are making a decent income, but not enough to change their lives. Back then, it was easier since they didn't make as much.

My frustration stems from being a much better version of myself 10+ years ago. I've busted my butt working on my career and can say I'm successful, and still improving. With this improvement I expect higher quality women. Yet, AVERAGE women are behaving as if they're too good. Or I'm not good enough. The most recent one I believe I posted on your thread of Power with Boundaries. I am shocked at how easily she walked. Just mind blowing.

I feel that.

You are on the right path. Maybe just shift the goalpost. When "she" comes along you'll be ready.

You never know why a woman walks. Thing is, when you date women that dates you ,(lets say level7 ) you already know that thats her standard . Some will line up "level 7 and up" type of men.

You could play in the NBA, dating women also date NFL and soccer players. The game stays the same regardless of your level. Just keep the focus on you, women are a byproduct of your dope life.

 

[Bingo-Player]

because a semi succesful man is highly likely to be a corporate / professional drone who clambered his way up the greasy pole putting in 70-80 hours a week and licking a lot of upper management backside in the process

The only demographic of women who understand and can resonate with what this is like is the corporate career woman .....

And quite ironically she will constantly be in direct competition with (you) her male counterpart , hence why you get the feeling your never quite good enough

How can you be good enough when she is actively trying to be better than you ?

If you ever find yourself dealing with the career woman you better make dam sure you never mention anything about the workplace because the second you do all bets are off , she stops looking at you like a potential mate and starts looking at you like your competition

that is why women don't like "semi successful men"

 

[jaymbrs]

It’s funny, I remember watching a sports show years back talking about NFL quarterbacks. They brought in an analyst on their show and he said that in the NFL:

‘’NFL teams don’t want a decent QB. A decent QB won’t get them anywhere. They either want a great QB or a terrible QB. A great QB can take them far. A terrible QB can tell them the direction they should take with their the franchise via trades, draft picks, etc. A decent QB and they don’t really know what to do, they are stuck in no man’s land for years.”

The OP has a point, either have to be outstanding or terrible. Decent wont cut it nowadays.

Trust me man, I'm a Cowboys fan and I can't stand having Dak as my QB for this reason.

 

[EyeBRollin]

It’s funny, I remember watching a sports show years back talking about NFL quarterbacks. They brought in an analyst on their show and he said that in the NFL:

‘’NFL teams don’t want a decent QB. A decent QB won’t get them anywhere. They either want a great QB or a terrible QB. A great QB can take them far. A terrible QB can tell them the direction they should take with their the franchise via trades, draft picks, etc. A decent QB and they don’t really know what to do, they are stuck in no man’s land for years.”

Good analogy. A “decent” QB, and a “decent” man are like a 17 in blackjack. Taking another card is stupid, but you still aren’t likely to win.

 

[AttackFormation]

Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.

How the fvck are women the self entitled ones, when youre the one ranting about how they wont fvck you but you think they should. Your lack of self awareness is comical, if a woman would write a post like this about how men wont do X for her but she thinks they should, you would call her out.

 

[Gamisch]

How the fvck are women the self entitled ones, when youre the one ranting about how they wont fvck you but you think they should. Your lack of self awareness is comical, if a woman would write a post like this about how men wont do X for her but she thinks they should, you would call her out.

Frustration. Honest frustration.

If you're told all your life to do xyz to get xyz , its disheartening to find out it was all based on lies, fantasies and social programming.

No woman will say she got a degree, worked hard long 50 hours weeks just to prepare her future family. Some squads and some make up might be more than enough to land some men.

This thread is ugly, but honest. Shows that it takes much more to be successful with women.

 

[jaymbrs]

How the fvck are women the self entitled ones, when youre the one ranting about how they wont fvck you but you think they should. Your lack of self awareness is comical, if a woman would write a post like this about how men wont do X for her but she thinks they should, you would call her out.

You’re reading what you want to read. I clearly stated how lately women expect a lot but put in little effort. I know how to date. I know how to treat women. I know how to talk to women. But when a woman behaves as if she deserves the world but doesn’t need to meet halfway for anything, it’s a problem.

 

[Gamisch]

You’re reading what you want to read. I clearly stated how lately women expect a lot but put in little effort. I know how to date. I know how to treat women. I know how to talk to women. But when a woman behaves as if she deserves the world but doesn’t need to meet halfway for anything, it’s a problem.

How do you meet these women?

 

[jaymbrs]

How do you meet these women?

Bars and breweries. I already know what you're going to say.

 

[The Duke]

How do you adapt? First you understand the problem, then make the necessary changes.

1. Realize that the odds aren't in your favor when it comes to online dating. There are far more men using OLD than women. Men struggle to find their equivalent matches, and women are inundated with matches so that tips the odds in their favor and breeds the entitlement and attitudes that Attack Formation didn't acknowledge. On OLD an HB5 can get the attention of an HB7, and a HB7 might get the attention of an HB9 because there are simply too many guys chasing too few of women in that realm. If your SMV isn't high enough for the type of woman you want(hot with good attitude) then you will likely have to settle for a hot girl with problems or sacrifice looks for less mental issues. The type of woman we all want is also the rarest. Some are deserving of the best women, some aren't.

The sad thing about OLD is men don't have enough options to make good choices, and women have too many options to make good choices(And they've never been good at that anyways).

So how do you overcome? Stop using OLD and find places that aren't over hunted and the women wont be as overvalued. You can also increase your SMV. Get better pics. Whatever it takes to stand out from the crowd.

2. Whenever I meet a new girl, I let her show me who she is. What she shows me determines what box I put her in. You can have as many boxes as you need based on what you are looking for. The last run I did had two boxes. Box 1 was "fun & games". Box 2 was "this COULD be a standout girl, top 10% in all the categories that matter, time will tell." My mindset is I'm not looking for anything serious, but if the right girl presents herself I've been around the block enough times to be open to a serious relationship. Don't set yourself up for failure by being dependent on the outcome. Toss your preconceived notions out the window. Most women aren't worth having.

Why did that girl frustrate you likely put her in the wrong box. You didn't size her up correctly from the start. You thought more of her than she really was. You got in too deep. You cared too much. No girl can frustrate you if you don't care. Kick her out if she can't behave. Don't invest mentally until you are sure you have sized her up correctly.

3. Date like they do. They don't have a scarcity mindset. They always have options lined up. You can too, if youre willing to improve your position.

4. Never before in the history of dating have men and women needed solid dating/social skills. Its how we convince others to buy what you are selling. Without those social skills you don't create that connection. Its all about how you make them feel. Be a better salesman.

Young women have been brought up in a world that has taught them they can have it all, they should compete with men, be in control, need to be right, be strong and standup when faced with conflict, don't. They've been lied to. This schitt does nothing but turn a masculine man away. Its not submissive. Its not feminine. But its the reality of the world we all deal with. So until then its only fun and games that a man should offer.