Mirroring Her Text Reply Time?

[soulforge]

I m new to all this but I have one experience in this matter..

I decided I will only see and reply her and any other chick's text only at specific times like in my 15 min break after each 3 hours of study/work..
after a few days, she asked me why I always text in those times only and I told her honestly..she was genuinely impressed by my discipline..
from the next day she only texted me in my 15 min breaks and I replied within minutes..she adjusted her routine so that I can follow my routine..I m very proud of that small achievement...

mirroring her time and +- 50% is very immature and requires calculating and analyzing..its pathetic..

be actually busy than pretending to be busy..

Dude nobody is that busy.. this idea of being busy some of you guys take to an unrealistic level.

My day starts at 6am with a gyms session, then work till around 5.30pm, then maybe get a few little errands done, by around 7pm I am fukin exhausted most days and just want to chill.

Bodybuilding requires a good amount of rest too... In all this time, I literally have my mobile in my pocket and can fire a text message off in a matter of minutes, even when I am busy.

Don't you clowns ever get a break/lunch at work.. are you all working in a sweat shop in Bangladesh lol.

Nobody is that fukin busy that a couple of texts can't be fired off.

You all got the time to come post/respond on here though haha

 

[pranshu]

Dude nobody is that busy.. this idea of being busy some of you guys take to an unrealistic level.

My day starts at 6am with a gyms session, then work till around 5.30pm, then maybe get a few little errands done, by around 7pm I am fukin exhausted most days and just want to chill.

Bodybuilding requires a good amount of rest too... In all this time, I literally have my mobile in my pocket and can fire a text message off in a matter of minutes, even when I am busy.

Don't you clowns ever get a break/lunch at work.. are you all working in a sweat shop in Bangladesh lol.

Nobody is that fukin busy that a couple of texts can't be fired off.

You all got the time to come post/respond on here though haha

read my post again mate..I did take breaks but when I wanted to..not gonna abandon my studies/work just to reply her casual text..

 

[Divorced w 3]

How about set the tempo yourself? If you maintain frame and you have a mentality of abundance and not desperation you can navigate it well.

 

[pranshu]

How about set the tempo yourself? If you maintain frame and you have a mentality of abundance and not desperation you can navigate it well.

exactly my thoughts...

 

[behimo]

you should text like how a slot machine allows wins; keeps the player on the machine.
if you're consistent, they will lose interest.

from my experience, if a girl doesn't respond quickly it's because they are flooded with texts from simps and orbiters OR They aren't very creative so if you say anything that causes them to think and they think their response is not worth typing. You can equate that to no or low interest but that's where the phrase hungry dogs run faster makes sense. These girls are fat from abundance or crippling anxiety.

your true power is the ability to next and move on, self-respect really.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Something about getting her hamster wheels spinning. Lol

It spins just as well by not texting overall.

 

[soulforge]

you should text like how a slot machine allows wins; keeps the player on the machine.
if you're consistent, they will lose interest.

from my experience, if a girl doesn't respond quickly it's because they are flooded with texts from simps and orbiters OR They aren't very creative so if you say anything that causes them to think and they think their response is not worth typing. You can equate that to no or low interest but that's where the phrase hungry dogs run faster makes sense. These girls are fat from abundance or crippling anxiety.

your true power is the ability to next and move on, self-respect really.

How do you equate this then?

Chick takes around an hour to text back, however at the same time is insisting you meet her parents and family.. push for LTR

The delay in texting could be perceived as LI the meet the family, high interest

 

[EyeBRollin]

The delay in texting could be perceived as LI the meet the family, high interest

Why even analyze this?

 

[behimo]

How do you equate this then?

Chick takes around an hour to text back, however at the same time is insisting you meet her parents and family.. push for LTR

The delay in texting could be perceived as LI the meet the family, high interest

is meeting parents and the family the premise prior the her responding, or was her response after an hour about you meeting parents and family?

sometimes ppl get too involved in the game aspect. are you just looking to keep her as a plate or do you have any intentions towards a secure relationship she seems to desire? Did you make your intentions known prior and she's testing you now? so many variables man. I wouldn't over think it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

How do you equate this then?

Chick takes around an hour to text back, however at the same time is insisting you meet her parents and family.. push for LTR

The delay in texting could be perceived as LI the meet the family, high interest

Who cares? Go hit some golf balls and stop worrying about it. I know in your shoes, not the advice you want.. but it’s the right advice

 

[The Duke]

Ive always done things on my terms, I'm not mirroring anybody. It's worked great.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I find that it's best to wait until 2am and have drunk half a bottle of vodka before replying to a girl's text.

Somehow at that point I know exactly what to say.

Or high as fvck chillin I come up with some razor blade witty sh1t

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

There is no formula for this folks. Everything is subjective and situational.
Work on queue recognition.

Fraking autistic shyte.

 

[RazorRambo24]

The only thing to know about texting is if you are eagerly responding alot and texting more than the person on the other end, its safe to say youre either really not doing anything at the time or youre just not a very busy person.

Time creates desire and comfort. Time between texts is normal. Its like before when there were answering machines for phones.. it was nice to expect and know that it would take some time for ur message to be heard and responded to. It also gave people something to look forward to when coming home.

The samw thing goes for texts.

Now if its 12 am on a weekday and youre in bed its totally fine to exchange texts within minutes or seconds.

But its also good to gauge what a persons texting habits are and if yours are bad let them know ahead of time im a bad texter and i barely respond to texts on time.

 

[I_have_BDE]

Typically how quickly do you guys respond back to a girl when texting.

I tend to mirror her response time.

If she takes 15 minutes.. I take 15 minutes... If she takes an hour... I take an hour..

If its someone from OLD if its not right away they will lose interest real fast.

 

[Divorced w 3]

If its someone from OLD if its not right away they will lose interest real fast.

Interest is lost in social situations if not pursued upfront but it’s also lost in the later stages if you continue that speed of pursuit. Tension and intrigue are built with distance

 

[manfrombelow]

In my personal case, it's not exactly a fixed formula where I must calculate every single bit of second / minute to text back to a girl, but I am sure as hell not replying to her RIGHT AWAY. Because I actually have a life and I don't stick with my phone 24/7 (like most chicks nowadays).

Believe it or not, some girls I met on Tinder actually went batsh!t crazy just because I replied back to them in one hour instead of one second. But that's how I filter out crazy ones from my batch of plates.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

iPhone super hack:

1. Women use iPhones almost exclusively.
2. So do I.
3. I leave read receipts on.
4. From the beginning they see that I don’t read their messages immediately, so I cannot reply to that which I haven’t seem. PERIOD.

This gets them acclimated. Of course you can read the messages without opening them depending on your settings.

I also use the silence notifications feature. Train the women.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Typically how quickly do you guys respond back to a girl when texting.

I tend to mirror her response time.

If she takes 15 minutes.. I take 15 minutes... If she takes an hour... I take an hour..

I'm surprised this thread had escaped my radar.

When it comes to texting, look, I am Mode One (or my version of Mode One: Mode X)

What does that mean?

It means that my first text to a chick will be about the possibility of sex.

A text of that nature (for better or worse) will usually beg for a prompt response.

Once (or if) she passes the reciprocator test and I am able to smash, she can take as long as she wants to respond.

I already got the puzzy, so who cares?
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However, if you care about that kind of stuff...

One thing you can do is give her the last word.

What do I mean?

You: Hey Katie, are you free tomorrow night for dinner?

Katie (45 minutes later): I'm sorry, I am going out of town.

You: .................

Do not respond, and let your silence be deafening.

That will prompt her to say something like..

Katie: But I am free next weekend if you are.

This is one hellava psychological effect, as your lack of response will put her in pursue mode and will have her thinking she is losing you.

Imagine if you texted a woman...

You: I don't think we should see each other any longer. We are incompatible and I don't think it will work.

Her: ...........

Silence.

You are yearning for her response, but she ain't giving it to you.

LOL.

This is a version of the ignorement strategy (see thread).

Try it.



No guarantees but it is worth a try.

Another thing to do is, if you are fed up with her slow-ass responses and if you haven't already, go Mode One, although you will be using this method as reactive than proactive (like I mentioned above).

When you have nothing to lose, Mode One is there for the kill.

 

[Fruitbat]

If you’re thinking things like this you’re miles off the chart in being invested. Text back when you can - naturally you’re busy leading a life. If you aren’t, that needs to change.