Woman go by feelings and emotions and are going to naturally gravitate towards the guy that excites them the most. Being deep, thoughtful, etc. is honestly going to be seen as boring by most women when in the early stages of courtship. In the early phases of courtship it's excitement, novelty, adventure, etc. that what a woman is seeking.
True, the Democrats have failed them. They have a policy of benign neglect and its going to backfire.
I'm confused lol? Is she African American black or black? There's a difference, African immigrants and their descendants aren't African Americans.
I don't think it's as easy for a white male just to get a random Asian gf as it seems. The white men with asian females are usually well off tech bros living in San Francisco or major US cities. Your typical Asian swirling female isn't going to date down in class to be with a white man, maybe looks but not class. For a white male to be able to be in the position to do this outside HS, he has to have a decent job already. Then it goes back to what @SW15 said, white men are competing against a lot of other white men for stuck up white women and the 5 Asian girls that live nearby them unless they live in San Francisco or Seattle.
In my N Cal area. It is very ethnically diverse. Lots of Asians & Latinas. Though I tend to date all races, here I often wind up with White women. Oddly, when I travel, It’s quite often I meet up with Black women. Partly because they are very aggressive and hit on me. Lucky for me I love Black women.
She is Carribean black. She comes from Trinidad. Are you saying only African Americans are born with a red-pill?
This is true, but they seem to largely embrace/be content being an incel/introvertism while white men have a more negative response to it
True again, even if a black guy has a beta personality, he can still find some white guilt liberal woman or a mudshark to date. However, that's if his standards are really low. A black guy with higher standards will start to run in to issues.
This is the main issue for white men on the apps. This is why other than Chads, the edgy or artsie white men do better because they set themselves apart more.
As I mentioned to @Mike32ct intelligent men that are analytical are not seen as unattractive due to these traits but due to the fact that they lack spontaneity. These types of men are less likely to provide women feelings of excitement and adventure simply because spontaneity is not a personality trait of theirs. With that said, a man should not feel that he has to constantly entertain a woman like a court jester. Side note, whenever I've heard other men talk about women that get bored easily it's never a good sign.
But that's setting the bar too low, lol!
I am specifically talking about black people in the USA that descendant from the American Slave System. They are separate from other black people because they face different issues than Jamaican immigrants or Ethiopian immigrants in the US. A huge RP factor like @sangheilios stated is the single mom epidemic that black Americans face vs a Jamaican immigrant is more than likely going to have a huge family network system in place. Idk how it is in Canada, but I would bet it's much better up there than being born under a single mother in a state like Florida lol.
I champion the underdog.
Honestly, I really don't see that changing and I believe that black America will still continue to overwhelmingly support the democrat party, at least those that take interest in the political sphere. People need to take more accountability for themselves instead of thinking some politician is going to come in and magically save them. The issues that most people face are consequences of their own actions.
Exactly. Nigerians living in America are more likely to have bachelor degrees or higher than the average white American, though this is a very specific and relatively small demographic in the population. Only the most educated Nigerians are here in the U.S, it was something that I had mentioned earlier that our country will attract the world's best scientists, doctors, etc.
This! I’ve witnessed this. A incel friend of mine got a date to go on a hike with a woman. I had a chance to hang out with them before they were to go. (they were to drive separately and meet at a park). My friend, who is quite smart, acted almost robotic. Like an engineer discussing a turbine. When they were together. Guess what. She ghosted him.
Do you think that a lot of men that are incels have standards that may be too high to have much dating success? I don't necessarily mean by saying that they are going for out of their league, I feel that this is a very rare issue for most men. What I'm saying is given the current dating market conditions would it be better for a man to drop his standards a bit and date down if his goal was to have a relationship, sex, etc. or should he retain his standards? One of my issues personally is that I have standards and I'd have a difficult time going below them. I mean, I'm a white male that is 6'4" and 235-240 and one the fittest guys at the gym, I believe that dating a woman that is at least of a normal weight is a reasonable expectation. I could start going for overweight women but how much should a man be lowering his standards to have some dating success? Is it better to lower your standards or perhaps just do some self-improvement or just keep looking? The reality is the dating market is trash and a lot of men are being left out in the dust unless they date down, it's a strange idea to consider.
Agreed.
A long time ago I had gone on few dates with this woman that said she got bored easily. She always acted bored and disinterested, which she was, but yet she offered absolutely NOTHING to the interaction, as in no ideas of what to do, no input into the conversation, etc. Of course she got bored easily, because she had nothing to offer and expected everyone else to do the damn work for her lol.
Jesus Christ dude... You go on and on about this, but with 17" arms you're not that big. Stop it..... I'm 5'6 and 173lbs with 16" arms... I am not that big either, and I'm 10" shorter, 60lbs lighter, and only an inch smaller arms.....
This nails it. I can't tell you how many involuntarily celibate men I've seen shaming/targeting incels. When I point this out they attempt to shift the goalposts and claim a true incel is a sexless man who takes his anger out on the opposite sex, and merely being involuntarily celibate doesn't make one a genuine incel.
She ghosted him after they went on the hike or before even meeting up?
