A Woman Can't Flake On You; If You Do This...MODE ONE!!! Part 1

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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Well, actually, there is a very small chance that she can still flake on you if you do this...but the chances are so small that I do not even consider it worthy of mentioning beyond the scope of this sentence.

But yeah...if you are tired of getting flaked on and/or you'd like to prevent a woman from flaking on you...you have to chance your entire mentality of how you look at things.

This post is directed towards the guys who are not looking for LTR or wifey material...but would rather play the field, and SMASH as many women as he possibly can without being tied down or committed to any particular woman.

If you are single and would like to remain single and smash as many women as possible without wasting your time or money...or put yourself at risk for getting flaked on, then..

You have to go Mode One.

Before we get into what Mode One is, let me say AGAIN, that this approach is best served for..

1. The purpose of having casual sex with a woman (friends with benefits, or f#ck buddy relationships).

2. The purpose of preventing a woman from wasting your time and money.

If you are looking for LTR or wifey material, you can still go Mode One, but you may have to still deal with #2. Why?

Because with those kind of relationships, you are putting yourself out there more (bonding, dates, your heart, money, time)...and you are more at risk for being a victim of #2 and ultimately, of a woman flaking on you.

Just keep that in mind.

Now..

What is Mode One?

Mode One is, according to famed author, dating coach, and LEGEND Alan Roger Curry (RIP), who pioneered direction approach and coined the term...

To be "Mode One" with someone means to be extremely candid and provocatively honest, particularly as it relates to someone expressing desires, interests, or intentions related to sex.

Urban Dictionary: Mode One

To be "Mode One" with someone means to be extremely candid and provocatively honest, particularly as it relates to someone expressing desires, interests, or intentions related to sex.

www.urbandictionary.com

Mode One, as simply stated, is to be honest and direct about what you want from a person.

Mode One isn't just limited to sexual relations, it applies to relationships of ANY kind...from personal, to business.

However, we are using Mode One in the context of dating/sexual relations between a man and a woman (or even homosexual/lesbian relationships).

Simply put; if you want sex, tell a woman you want sex.

If you only want a woman for sexual companion and NOTHING more, then tell her you that is what you want.

Do not beat around the bush. Let her know what is on your mind...and if she doesn't roll with it, fine. But at least you let her know.

That is why Mode One is the ultimate example of DIRECT GAME.

Because you can't get any more direct than; "Hey Keisha, I want to f#ck you tomorrow night".

Now, the good thing about Mode One is..

A. You can use it on a stranger.
B. You can use it on a friend.
C. You can use it on anyone, regardless of how well you know them.

It applies equally across the board. It is the ultimate method to NOT get flaked on or have a woman waste your time.

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Now, I will let this post marinate for about a day before I dive deeper.

I will give the naysayers a chance to respond. Hell, I may not get one response...but either way..

Part 2 coming tomorrow.

 

[corsica]

I like the content but the writing style sucks. Reminds me of a buzzfeed article.

Not many guys will get the message. Being direct without understanding how you frame it can lead to bad results.

Imagine you're having drinks with a girl. Chat is going smoothly and you make out with the girl, she's getting excited, you take her home and bang her. She goes to her home and wants more in the future. Calling her to your place (without mentioning sex but clearly implied) works. You can even be direct if she asks. She already gave you sex and it's not like she can play hard to get. You have the cards now.


On the other hand...
Imagine the same initial situation. You approach the "stranger or friend" (like you mentioned) and tell them directly that you want sex? Doesn't sound smooth.

Most girls know men want sex. Look the famous joke about asking women "what time is it?" and the most common reply is "I have a boyfriend".


I prefer to be indirect initially for them to have the guard down. Bang them and keep tension (girl clueless at your intentions).

 

[Divorced w 3]

Nice post Venom…. I will say I’ve never heard of Mode 1 until just recently from another poster but I never looked into it… Will try. Having done Mode 1 in sales, using ****y funny, confidence what have you “what do we have to do get started with you Divorced w 3?” - “you have to hand over all of your assets” - but meaning it lol… it definitely works … I also go soft sell in beginning though, ie, here’s what I’m thinking will happen, I’ll listen to what you’re looking to do, I’ll tell you how our group operates and we will see if there is a fit…,Sandler sales calls this the upfront contract, which , in the most polite but also direct way possible states the future terms of the deal. If it doesn’t work you just say ok well as we said, it doesn’t fit.
Again nice idea OP

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I like the content but the writing style sucks. Reminds me of a buzzfeed article.

Your feedback is noted. Thank you.

Now, watch this (see below)

Not many guys will get the message.

Not many professional football hopefuls will make the NFL.

But the opportunity is there, nevertheless.

Being direct without understanding how you frame it can lead to bad results.

Making a bomb without understanding the wiring can also lead to bad results.

What you just said is an example of truism.....stating the obvious without value being added to the discussion.

Imagine you're having drinks with a girl. Chat is going smoothly and you make out with the girl, she's getting excited, you take her home and bang her. She goes to her home and wants more in the future. Calling her to your place (without mentioning sex but clearly implied) works. You can even be direct if she asks. She already gave you sex and it's not like she can play hard to get. You have the cards now.

Reading comprehension.

Obviously, if you read the OP (if you were able to get past my sucky writing style), you would have saw that I am speaking in terms of meeting (or knowing) a woman of whom you've yet to have sex with, and how not to get flaked on by woman of whom you are ATTEMPTING to have sex with.

In your scenario, you are well past the "attempting to have sex and getting flaked on" part.

So, what you've done is committed the false equivalency fallacy, as your analogy is not equivalent to the OP and thus drawing conclusions on a faulty comparison.

On the other hand...
Imagine the same initial situation. You approach the "stranger or friend" (like you mentioned) and tell them directly that you want sex? Doesn't sound smooth.

Two things..

1. It will typically only sound unsmooth to the woman, if the woman doesn't want to have sex with you.

If the woman wants to have sex with you, it will be in smooth territory.

2. You are insinuating that you (in general) are supposed to actually give a f#ck what the woman thinks in the first place.

Ahhh, we are on to something with #2, aren't we?

Most girls know men want sex.

Ahhh, and do most men know that women also want sex??

Ahhh, we never think of it that way, do we?

And that is part of the problem. As I stated in the OP, we have to change our mentality and how we approach things from a mental standpoint.

I prefer to be indirect initially for them to have the guard down. Bang them and keep tension (girl clueless at your intentions).

Do whatever you need to do to get you through the day, pimp'n.

But yeah, above you stated that the content of this thread is cool, but the writing style sucks.

And when I told you to see below, I was directing your attention to the following three sentences..

The writing style of your post is cool, but the content (your assessment) sucks. Reminds me of a guy who speaks about game, but has no game.

That is my assessment of your post.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Nice post Venom…. I will say I’ve never heard of Mode 1 until just recently from another poster but I never looked into it… Will try. Having done Mode 1 in sales, using ****y funny, confidence what have you “what do we have to do get started with you Divorced w 3?” - “you have to hand over all of your assets” - but meaning it lol… it definitely works … I also go soft sell in beginning though, ie, here’s what I’m thinking will happen, I’ll listen to what you’re looking to do, I’ll tell you how our group operates and we will see if there is a fit…,Sandler sales calls this the upfront contract, which , in the most polite but also direct way possible states the future terms of the deal. If it doesn’t work you just say ok well as we said, it doesn’t fit.
Again nice idea OP

Welllll, I would rather be more direct than that lol.

If there is a spectrum of directedness, I am towards the high end.

I will explain in Part 2 or 3.

Stay tuned if interested.

 

[derby1]

good post OP , I wrote a similar once recently as I was fed up of dating and the cost per output.

MODE 1 all the way,

irony is once weve had sex FIRST they spend money on ME

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yawn. I been saying go mode one for over a year now and got nothing but hatred from y’all

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm reluctant to believe Mode One works in casual day setting like grocery stores. I'd agree Mode One works with OLD. I got my fwb by going Mode One. I'd think it would also work in nightlife venues such as bars, clubs, ect...

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Yawn. I been saying go mode one for over a year now and got nothing but hatred from y’all

Did you defend your position with honor?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Did you defend your position with honor?

I doubt it. He knew more about the subject than I did so I submitted

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I'm reluctant to believe Mode One works in casual day setting like grocery stores.

I'd agree Mode One works with OLD. I got my fwb by going Mode One. I'd think it would also work in nightlife venues such as bars, clubs, ect...

I agree, Mode One does seem to fit more in with the bar/club environment.

But if you are like me and you like a challenge and and would rather not have a woman be receptive towards you only after she had a few drinks in her system...then you will go the casual route.

And if im not mistaken, most of Alan Roger Currie's Mode One encounters have been in casual environments.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I doubt it. He knew more about the subject than I did so I submitted

He who?

 

[SargeMaximus]

He who?

My brother

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

My brother

If your brother aint a member of the forum, then who is this "yall" you referred to?

 

[2Rocky]

Proves my point that being genuine is attractive to women.

You don't have to come out and verbally say "I want to take you home and **** you" but your gaze, your kino, your directness in other subjects will deliver the message while you are together in public. Then once alone you can verbalize it, and it is so powerful.

 

[SargeMaximus]

If your brother aint a member of the forum, then who is this "yall" you referred to?

Oh **** I thought you were replying to a different post.
Ok so when people hated on me for my mode one method I just said fvck you and stopped sharing my insights.

OP shares the insight and everyone sccks his d!ck. So no I’m not about to defend or share anything else of that gravity

 

[Divorced w 3]

Yawn. I been saying go mode one for over a year now and got nothing but hatred from y’all

You were right and I …. Wasn’t here to be wrong

it’s the greatest name for a technique , also.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Oh **** I thought you were replying to a different post.
Ok so when people hated on me for my mode one method I just said fvck you and stopped sharing my insights.

You should have defended your position and stood for what you believe in.

All of my posts have been attacked in some way or another but you dont see my bowing down or out.

No.

If you haven't noticed, some of these folks on here have NO GAME...and dont know wtf they are talking about.

Stevie Wonder can see that.

OP shares the insight and everyone sccks his d!ck.

Nonsense. They are agreeing with me on one hand, just to disagree on the other.

So no I’m not about to defend or share anything else of that gravity

Aight, I will fall back then.

Do you, pimpin.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You should have defended your position and stood for what you believe in.

All of my posts have been attacked in some way or another but you dont see my bowing down or out.

No.

If you haven't noticed, these folks on here have NO GAME...and dont know wtf they are talking about.

Stevie Wonder can see that.



Nonsense. They are agreeing with me on one hand, just to disagree on the other.



Aight, I will fall back then.

Do you, pimpin.

Defending only makes sense if there’s something to win.

You were right and I …. Wasn’t here to be wrong

it’s the greatest name for a technique , also.

Thanks,yeah it is a great name. I’ve got a video of Alan Roger Currie talking about it somewhere

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Defending only makes sense if there’s something to win.

Knowing that my ideas can stand up to scrutiny is a win for me.

But hey.