Way too cool! Glad to hear it!You are still young. Be patient and keep improving. I met my current gf at 34/35 and I like her more than all my previous LTRs combined.
Do you know the difference?I know, right?
How is it a dumb fantasy when you aren't even trying?I left the US a few months ago because I couldn’t stand the environment any longer. I was bouncing around between different ****ty jobs and eventually landed a remote English teaching gig which allowed me to finally take the plunge and travel for a longer period.
My experience has given me the impression that the grass is not greener when it comes to relationships. I’ve spent most of my time so far in Eastern Europe (although I’m currently in Portugal because of the weather), and honestly I haven’t really connected with anyone. I thought maybe I’d start dating a bit more out here but instead I’ve been isolating. I’ve stayed in hostels, tried to put myself out there with online meetups, etc, and haven’t gotten much out of any of it. The “dates” I’ve been on have been garbage. I don’t understand the weird fetish men have about euro women now.
I’ve met a few cool people who I keep up with on instagram, but generally my social life hasn’t improved much. I’m just starting to think I need to get used to being on my own and ditch my dumb fantasy about connecting with the opposite sex meaningfully.
Nope, and don't care to. Superstitions aren't up my alley.Do you know the difference?
Hear-hear!Female rejection is not good for male mental health. Female rejection often leads to over consumption of porn, and simping on Instagram and OnlyFans.
Also, ex-patting from the US to Eastern Europe, Asia, or Latin America doesn't always work as intended.
Lolz who wrote the bible then? Do you even know what a subcreator is? Think about it - if you ran a major organization, would you do everything yourself or would you hire/train/create managers under you?Nope, and don't care to. Superstitions aren't up my alley.
The REAL Bible? I did. See my sig.Lolz who wrote the bible then?
Women in Latin Americans are more laid back and friendlier though right? He is talking about making a connection not just getting laid.This.
It's normal we are looking for answers , even without knowing the exact question, if that makes sense.
Right now you are a tourist. Viewing a part of the world most people will never see. Tays a amazing experience and you should see it like that.
Women in Latin cultures are not necessarily easier than western women. At the end of the day Pssy is pssy no matter the colour or culture it's in.
If your mission is to connect, then go on and connect. Discover this new world . Shake hands make friends . Ditch looking for " the one ", just have fun over there. Learn the language (if needed) ,find other travelers to connect with .
You need to start EscortMaxxing. Oh, and don't stay in hostels; stay in a regular apartment, which you should be able to get on a 6-month or so lease.I left the US a few months ago because I couldn’t stand the environment any longer. I was bouncing around between different ****ty jobs and eventually landed a remote English teaching gig which allowed me to finally take the plunge and travel for a longer period.
My experience has given me the impression that the grass is not greener when it comes to relationships. I’ve spent most of my time so far in Eastern Europe (although I’m currently in Portugal because of the weather), and honestly I haven’t really connected with anyone. I thought maybe I’d start dating a bit more out here but instead I’ve been isolating. I’ve stayed in hostels, tried to put myself out there with online meetups, etc, and haven’t gotten much out of any of it. The “dates” I’ve been on have been garbage. I don’t understand the weird fetish men have about euro women now.
I’ve met a few cool people who I keep up with on instagram, but generally my social life hasn’t improved much. I’m just starting to think I need to get used to being on my own and ditch my dumb fantasy about connecting with the opposite sex meaningfully.
A lot of people can codify their own personal religion for use by others if so inclined. Not saying that what you've done isn't impressive, but it's philosophy not creationism. Unless you've created sentient and soul-filled species, have terraformed planets, or were personally visited by extraterrestrials or advanced spiritual beings, it's philosophy.The REAL Bible? I did. See my sig.
Yeah, I know, it's just Philosophy, but doesn't calling it a Religion sound so much cooler??A lot of people can codify their own personal religion for use by others if so inclined. Not saying that what you've done isn't impressive, but it's philosophy not creationism. Unless you've created sentient and soul-filled species, have terraformed planets, or were personally visited by extraterrestrials or advanced spiritual beings, it's philosophy.
And Yahweh is an @sshole.
Was your "Holy Instruction" at least inspired by preternatural events?
Why are you derailing this thread about a man with 0 charm, charisma or confidence… to spew satanic bile and lies about the Bible? Can’t you worship Satan in peace and quiet or just wait to go to hell to chill with your pagan friends? Nobody wants to hear it here.A lot of people can codify their own personal religion for use by others if so inclined. Not saying that what you've done isn't impressive, but it's philosophy not creationism. Unless you've created sentient and soul-filled species, have terraformed planets, or were personally visited by extraterrestrials or advanced spiritual beings, it's philosophy.
And Yahweh is an @sshole.
Was your "Holy Instruction" at least inspired by preternatural events?
Also, you define altruism as deserving of compensation supportive of an "ideal lifestyle". Lol, sounds more like Joel Osteen that Jesus. But easier to recruit people though I suppose.
Again, ask why the God of the Bible seems schizophrenic. It's much easier to reconcile his behavior if you assume more there is more than one "God" referenced. Less cognitive dissonance to be burdened with, no?
Why do you assume that I have “0 charm, charisma or confidence?”Why are you derailing this thread about a man with 0 charm, charisma or confidence… to spew satanic bile and lies about the Bible? Can’t you worship Satan in peace and quiet or just wait to go to hell to chill with your pagan friends? Nobody wants to hear it here.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
No, looks are not the problem here. It’s how I perceive things.You need to start EscortMaxxing. Oh, and don't stay in hostels; stay in a regular apartment, which you should be able to get on a 6-month or so lease.
Are you short? Ugly? Bald?
Stop doing stuff to attract other people and do stuff that YOU want to do. Go to social meetups, go to sporting meetups and do activities that excite you. People will follow. Rock climbing is always good, along with tennis, racquet ball, soccer, etc. Perhaps joining a men's or social club would be something to consider as well.I left the US a few months ago because I couldn’t stand the environment any longer. I was bouncing around between different ****ty jobs and eventually landed a remote English teaching gig which allowed me to finally take the plunge and travel for a longer period.
My experience has given me the impression that the grass is not greener when it comes to relationships. I’ve spent most of my time so far in Eastern Europe (although I’m currently in Portugal because of the weather), and honestly I haven’t really connected with anyone. I thought maybe I’d start dating a bit more out here but instead I’ve been isolating. I’ve stayed in hostels, tried to put myself out there with online meetups, etc, and haven’t gotten much out of any of it. The “dates” I’ve been on have been garbage. I don’t understand the weird fetish men have about euro women now.
I’ve met a few cool people who I keep up with on instagram, but generally my social life hasn’t improved much. I’m just starting to think I need to get used to being on my own and ditch my dumb fantasy about connecting with the opposite sex meaningfully.
Because if you had any charm, charisma and confidence you would be making friends easily, you would have infiltrated a friendship group by now, you would have had some successful OLDs and have some plates to spin and places for them to take you and “show you around”.Why do you assume that I have “0 charm, charisma or confidence?”
You will find people here aggressively against cocaine, hookers and other things people do in the real world. Don’t forget most people here don’t venture out in the world properly hence they’re here.This isn’t Bible study dude. Your morals are your own.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.