the difference is that an incel woman will get sex eventually from a decent guy , unless she is really disgustingThere's tons of incels here who refuse to have sex with "fat" chicks or ones who aren't visually pleasing. We have talked about this for years. When a young teen goes from being a virgin to sexual, he TAKES WHAT HE CAN GET. In time as a sexual male he will have greater and better choices as his confidence rises. It's the same thing here. Guys who are incel because they refuse to eat what they are able to and having this seriously high standard for themselves, when they aren't even in the game! When you have nothing you take what you can get, and when you can do better then you do better.
while an incel guy will not get sex from a decent woman