devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I'd say that's the case for women.Reality is most men could have a woman and always could. They are either lazy, or entitled and expect someone way out of their sphere.
For most men it's more of a question of how many approaches are you willing to do and how much rejection can you handle.
For the rest of the men it's generally a case of doing some relatively quick and easy self improvement first (hygiene, style, health, confidence, dance skills, etc.), then approaching.