Not necessarily a bad thing, women love that sh!t
Very true sadly.... tbh many of the non-stereotypical, educated and high smv black women have higher standards than white women in regards to black guys. But I think a lot of that is the direct result of so many black dudes simping for and worshipping white women and all the rampant self-loathing in the black male community.
Yup. It's called "Just Be White" for a reason.
I think we're on the same page with slight differences but I was basically just saying you're SMV is a direct reflection on how she's going to react to you.
Thank you
By self-loathing are you referring to black men dating non-black women?
Yes, and everyone knows what I mean. Those black guys that exclusively seek non-black women and randomly and unpromptedly go on diatribes on how black women are all ugly, ratchet hoodrats or how perfect and amazing white queens are or whatever...There's nothing wrong with anyone having racial preferences or whatever, but I mean this specifically. Anyone who has an issue with an entire rare, let alone their own...has some embedded issues.
I've seen a lot of black dudes go for non-black women, some seemingly exclusively. I haven't seen the denigration of black women by these men to the degree many portray. I think that can be exaggerated.
To the degree many portray? Probably other black people you mean? I'd like to think we know more about what permeates our own community than random proxies who only have anecdotal evidence lol. I'm telling you for a fact, it's a big issue, just one you're not likely to notice or be privy to if you're...not black lol. In many respects, most all minorities have an issue with overly romanticizing white women to the detriment their our own women. Most ethnics having an issue with women is because they're stuck on getting an 11/10 blonde woman and nothing else, yet we seem to be the only one who have to insult our own women while doing so.
It's an exaggeration most of the time. Black men can get with black women as long as they are sweet and not filled with the evil trashy culture. Other race girls are not exempt either. Trashy white girls, ghetto hispanics, ghetto asians. They just rather wish that their black women were more attractive and feminine. That is all they want.
I am black.
This is literally it. I'll never understand the whole "X women are always ghetto" because it's more about education and social status. That as more to do with a woman's personality than her race...
Ehhh..not really. There are attractive and feminine black women all around. If you're around a bunch of ghetto black women, it's because YOU'RE in the ghetto. If you're in a nice location, area, school, etc, the black women there will be just like all the other women in the vicinity. White women are a status symbol, and pretty much every ethnic minority covets them bc from birth you're shown white women as the ultimate beauty in movies, tvs, ads, models, etc so...consciously or not, everyone is going to seek them.
The problem here is that black women can scale up to a higher financial status and yet keep their ingrained ghettoness. I ran into these girls plenty of times. They are nicer sure but they still have that anger in them.
Welp, I guess we just have largely different experiences.
I've met many black men who've told me they're not really into white girls. Admittedly, these black men were more urban/less educated.
To be fair there's ghetto rich people of all races like on those popular reality shows.
Keep their "ingrained ghettoness"....wow...just...lol. Being ghetto isn't a race thing, it's class related. It's more indicative of your class than your race. Most black women with "ingrained ghettoness" probably aren't moving too high up the financial ladder...unless they're some industry plant entertainer.
The type that currently make up the mounds of career women that we are all stuck with from all races. And yes, these black women have their mother's anger. I have run into black girls who grew up not in that environment and they are far more white acting with not a shred of that anger in them. I say this with the highest of confidence.
lol whatever you say, mate.
