harridan: A Man In His 30s Explains To Me What’s Wrong With Women In Their 30s

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That guy sounds pretty jaded and pessimistic. Millions and millions of people are able to find happiness in a relationship, but somehow to people like this everything sucks and there's no hope for anyone.
 

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If Hannah who is 32 is so cool, why did she even entertain going out with a guy whom I can only assume she considers misogynist? A stranger no less who out of the blue, DM's her. Doesn't she have other real prospects that she can go out with and have a good time with? Build memories with.. etc? I'm assuming 'no'...

In any case, whatever, seems like she's getting older and is coping with that fact. Her article probably is slanted to make this guy to be a misogynist when he probably wasn't. Then she ends her article with agreeing with the guy that the dating scene is "****ing brutal out there"; yeah, for her it's really brutal out there.

The funny thing is, she's really dinging this guy for disliking older women because they have wrinkles. She could have gone full on feminist and made fun of this guy, doing all the SWJ thing.... but lets be honest, if she did that nobody would even date her with the purpose of marrying her. She's walking a fine line...


She's really not that hot, but expects Chad...
I think I spotted a chad on her instagram:

Oh, well, enough about her.. I can't believe I spent 15mins researching this person hahahaha oh well...
 

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If Hannah who is 32 is so cool, why did she even entertain going out with a guy whom I can only assume she considers misogynist? A stranger no less who out of the blue, DM's her. Doesn't she have other real prospects that she can go out with and have a good time with? Build memories with.. etc? I'm assuming 'no'...

In any case, whatever, seems like she's getting older and is coping with that fact. Her article probably is slanted to make this guy to be a misogynist when he probably wasn't. Then she ends her article with agreeing with the guy that the dating scene is "****ing brutal out there"; yeah, for her it's really brutal out there.

The funny thing is, she's really dinging this guy for disliking older women because they have wrinkles. She could have gone full on feminist and made fun of this guy, doing all the SWJ thing.... but lets be honest, if she did that nobody would even date her with the purpose of marrying her. She's walking a fine line...


She's really not that hot, but expects Chad...
I think I spotted a chad on her instagram:

Oh, well, enough about her.. I can't believe I spent 15mins researching this person hahahaha oh well...
She'd not bad looking but imma take a wild guess and assume she's combative and not fun to be around.
 

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That guy sounds pretty jaded and pessimistic. Millions and millions of people are able to find happiness in a relationship, but somehow to people like this everything sucks and there's no hope for anyone.
He didn’t get that way by himself. Sounds like he’s been around a lot of women to develop that mindset.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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No, he's probably just some loser who blames his problems on everybody else.
I mean if he’s one of those then yeah you’re probably right. But if he blames his dating problems on the current crop of women out there and what a crap show it is, he’s got something. My life overall is great, there isn’t much I would change about it. However, my dating life the past year or two has been absolute ****. Some of it may be my doing but not all of it. I’ve gotten tired of women telling me what they find wrong with me all the time, each woman finds something different. That’s gets old after awhile.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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No, he's probably just some loser who blames his problems on everybody else.
How many guys can just dm a girl in Instagram and get a date with a woman who some of you think is good looking? If we just go by the facts and not what she says which can be slanted (or lies), he's not a loser. She also states that his friends are attractive (we can assume that he's probably attractive also; attractive people hang together.. just like ugly people tend to hang with uglier people).
 

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How many guys can just dm a girl in Instagram and get a date with a woman who some of you think is good looking? If we just go by the facts and not what she says which can be slanted (or lies), he's not a loser. She also states that his friends are attractive (we can assume that he's probably attractive also; attractive people hang together.. just like ugly people tend to hang with uglier people).
She said that his in-person personality didn't match his text game. Anybody can have a George Clooney text game. Maybe he's just one of those good-looking, awkward, shy types.
 

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She said that his in-person personality didn't match his text game. Anybody can have a George Clooney text game. Maybe he's just one of those good-looking, awkward, shy types.
Women ALWAYS put too much pressure on first dates. How would they like it if they went on their first interview for a job and the boss was like “nah sorry, you seem too nervous, we are going to pass”. The reeeeeeeing would be insane!
 

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She said that his in-person personality didn't match his text game. Anybody can have a George Clooney text game. Maybe he's just one of those good-looking, awkward, shy types.
Sounds more like he is bitter and has no idea how to carry on an interesting conversation so he comes across as a snooze fest.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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That guy sounds pretty jaded and pessimistic. Millions and millions of people are able to find happiness in a relationship, but somehow to people like this everything sucks and there's no hope for anyone.
Yeah until the relationship blows up.... Millions and millions of people haven't been successful staying with their first.
 

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If Hannah who is 32 is so cool, why did she even entertain going out with a guy whom I can only assume she considers misogynist? A stranger no less who out of the blue, DM's her. Doesn't she have other real prospects that she can go out with and have a good time with? Build memories with.. etc? I'm assuming 'no'...

In any case, whatever, seems like she's getting older and is coping with that fact. Her article probably is slanted to make this guy to be a misogynist when he probably wasn't. Then she ends her article with agreeing with the guy that the dating scene is "****ing brutal out there"; yeah, for her it's really brutal out there.

The funny thing is, she's really dinging this guy for disliking older women because they have wrinkles. She could have gone full on feminist and made fun of this guy, doing all the SWJ thing.... but lets be honest, if she did that nobody would even date her with the purpose of marrying her. She's walking a fine line...


She's really not that hot, but expects Chad...
I think I spotted a chad on her instagram:

Oh, well, enough about her.. I can't believe I spent 15mins researching this person hahahaha oh well...
load of narcissistic selfies, with her posing at the event she planned a photo for ,and not actually enjoying the event.

plus she swears all over the the social page.

the mere fact she swears openly kills all attraction for me. HULK HOGAN
 

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load of narcissistic selfies, with her posing at the event she planned a photo for ,and not actually enjoying the event.

plus she swears all over the the social page.

the mere fact she swears openly kills all attraction for me. HULK HOGAN
sounds like she wanted to go on the date for the 'digital content.'
 

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sounds like she wanted to go on the date for the 'digital content.'
plus shes eyeballing the camera like shes packing 8 inches whilst her chap kisses her on the cheek.

vapid mess. This is mens fault, Im disgusted in men.
 

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She is cute but nothing that make you do a double take...just like a cute chick you'd see at the mall
Yes, this is a fair assessment. I would approach her in a mall or outdoor setting. She's also 32 too and being cute and childless at 32 is somewhat of an achievement.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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