I think that's true too. Especially on the dating sites that are messaged based like POF or Match. If you message them it's best when they're online to catch them. If you message them and they're offline for 4 days it's unlikely they will scroll 5 pages back and your message won't be marked read because you got 45 other guys ahead of you.It's like Google or Amazon. Think about it - how often do you click on the first result that comes up compared to the result on page 16? Women that go online can get thousands of matches within a week. You need to be on the first page of results or you don't even exist.