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Do you have to be Top 10% to do well in OLD

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I'm 5'11.5" barefoot. I say 6'0" in my profile. Wondering if i should claim 6'1"
I would. They assume guys that wrote 6’0 are all lying and in the 5’9-5’10 range

I think all guys should add 2-3 inches up until the target height says 6’3. For guys taller than 6’3 they should keep it at 6’3 or start downplaying it.
 

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Short answer: No. But if you're a 7 or below, you are fighting an uphill battle with OLD. Looks is the first and only thing women have to go off with OLD. If it's not an instant "yes, I would fvck him" then you're getting swiped left. You won't even get a chance to "spit your game".
 

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I’m 5’7, bald, and black. I cleaned up on the apps. Tinder, bumble, hinge, OkCupid, coffee meets bagel, didn’t matter. Was super easy to get matches
But you're also in big metro area in the northeast right? If you went to Tulsa ok, or Topeka Kansas the results probably wouldnt be the same.
 

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Yes, we know. Single dudes should never live in those places. Did you move yet?
Tulsa is a large metro area. How is that bad? I keep seeing post in here saying being single you gotta live in a top 20 metro area.

I have a relative who moved to the Bull Shoals area of southern Missouri on the border of Arkansas. Whats dating like in a rural area by arkansas lol? You wanna live there?
 

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I’m 5’7, bald, and black. I cleaned up on the apps. Tinder, bumble, hinge, OkCupid, coffee meets bagel, didn’t matter. Was super easy to get matches
In fairness though, black guys can generally rock the bald look and look badass doing it. A FEW white guys I know look good bald. Most just just look older than their age with it though.

But overall I agree people get way too swept up in that sh1t.
 

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Tulsa is a large metro area. How is that bad? I keep seeing post in here saying being single you gotta live in a top 20 metro area.
Tulsa is barely a city. Single guys need to be in metro areas with at least 5 million people. Here’s the list for US & Canada:

NYC
LA / Southern Cal
Chicago
SF Bay Area / Northern Cal
Dallas-FW
Houston
Washington DC
Philadelphia
Atlanta
Miami / South Florida
Phoenix
Boston
Toronto

Take your pick.
 

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Tulsa is barely a city. Single guys need to be in metro areas with at least 5 million people. Here’s the list for US & Canada:

NYC
LA / Southern Cal
Chicago
SF Bay Area / Northern Cal
Dallas-FW
Houston
Washington DC
Philadelphia
Atlanta
Miami / South Florida
Phoenix
Boston
Toronto

Take your pick.
PHX, Dallas, Houston are not bad. Miami is very congested and expensive and you basically gotta know Spanish in SEFL and unless you work remote or have a financial sector job then most jobs are service based and crap pay. The other cities are mostly located in liberal hell holes. San Fran wouldn't be bad if California wasn't a liberal state and it wasn't so expensive. Lots of attractive Asian women there and in general are in better shape. Seeing a good looking Asian woman on OLD down here is harder than finding a golden Unicorn.

Houston has a lot of industry too which is a plus.

I'm from St. Louis and the women up there are much better. In better shape, more educated and less trashy single moms. I know OLD is sh*tty but if I put my old zipcode in I'm blown away by the normal looking women, unlike down here. Stl metro was a top 25 metro area but much younger demographics as well.

Up there women play sports a lot. Especially soccer. Most girls play youth soccer. I gotta wonder if that's a factor they end up leading a more healthy lifestyle as they get older.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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PHX, Dallas, Houston are not bad. Miami is very congested and expensive and you basically gotta know Spanish in SEFL and unless you work remote or have a financial sector job then most jobs are service based and crap pay. The other cities are mostly located in liberal hell holes. San Fran wouldn't be bad if California wasn't a liberal state and it wasn't so expensive. Lots of attractive Asian women there and in general are in better shape. Seeing a good looking Asian woman on OLD down here is harder than finding a golden Unicorn.

Houston has a lot of industry too which is a plus.
I’m trying to help you out man. If you want a good selection of single, age-appropriate girls, pick from one of those cities.

You can find babes in places like Tulsa, but there are only 10 of them.
 

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Made a profile on Tinder last night. This'll be my first time online dating. I have all 9 pics up, and wrote a pretty interesting bio.

I'm a 7.82458 in the looks department, so I don't think I'll have a lot of trouble. Also not paying for anything. I'm fine with the free swipes they give me each day.
 

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Why do you make fun of Florida so much and think nyc is superior?
South Florida is a suburb of NYC and everyone knows it. Jokes aside, we’ve been telling you for months to move to greener pastures. Even in Florida you have Orlando, Tampa, and Miami. Get out of Grannyfattyville!
 

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This is what an “Alpha Widow”. Thinks about
 
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No but you’re not missing out on much because most of the women on OLD are pretty terrible once you meet them in person
 
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If you're not willing to move from GrannyFattyville Florida, then don't complain about why OLD sucks in your area, or you can't get dates.


It's OVER for GrannyFattyvilleCels
Florida is a shvt hole in general lol
 
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