Girl on bumble asked me out to a bar.

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I wonder if everyone that talks about "quality" females is looking at it from the relationship perspective. I don't see why "quality" matters when one just wants to pump and dump or have fvck buddys.
 
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I wonder if everyone that talks about "quality" females is looking at it from the relationship perspective. I don't see why "quality" matters when one just wants to pump and dump or have fvck buddys.
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It is about thinking ahead.

Fvck buddies are fine but eventually we all come across a girl that provides additional value beyond the bedroom. Without some LTR practice, you end up losing the girl. That’s why half the threads on this forum are about crashed plates, catching feelings, and getting dumped. Fvck buddy sloot game does not help you in these situations.
 
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How do you know she wouldnt buy you drinks or not go 50/50?

Seems like cutting your nose off to spite your face on this occasion.
 

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B80 said:
How do you know she wouldnt buy you drinks or not go 50/50?

Seems like cutting your nose off to spite your face on this occasion.
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Good point. I just was annoyed since I hate bars and going on dates
 
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SargeMaximus said:
I’m not interested tbh. I want to go to her house and fvck not waste time at a bar. Barriers to entry = beta territory



lol fvck that
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Buy hookers then.
 
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SargeMaximus said:
I told her no. She just wants free drinks imo.
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Good point. I just was annoyed since I hate bars and going on dates
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It's difficult to get laid without going on dates. The only way a guy could conceivably pull that off is if he just picked up same night lays from bar approaching. If you're on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, you're going to have to do on drinks dates at bars with your swipe matches to get some pusssy. If you get pusssy on your first date from a swipe app with a woman, you're doing better than most. Most swipe app interactions are "one date, no sex, no second date". Some swipe app interactions take 2-4 dates before sex.
 
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I had a girl I met online cancel on a first date at the last minute. She was wishy washy for my second attempt. She wanted to keep talking. So I did. I made a 3rd date attempt. I told this chic to meet me at XYZ bar and she was buying or I was done talking. She tried to get me to order her an Uber to get there and I said no. She showed up, bought almost all the drinks, we got drunk, I drove her to my house. Fuhked her. Dropped her off on my way to work in the morning. Never called her again.

A lot of women responsd positively to a little force. I didn't care if this one agreed or not, all I wanted was free drinks and easy puzzy. She pissed me off so bad with her B.s. that I only wanted to hit it and quit it. Eff her games. And don't care attitude worked.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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SargeMaximus said:
Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk
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in other threads, you commented that your lay count for 2022 is less than you want. I like your idea on this but it's not me to convince the women...

buy her A (one drink) and then cut her loose if she isn't any good for you. promise sex is a pretty high requirement for a girl to meet you. maybe she wants to check you out first and a bar is a way to do that. Now if she said how about a free dinner cruise, then no way. I know it's not your style, but looking at how to turn the lay count around.
 
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