Girl on bumble asked me out to a bar.

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or I’ll buy the first round.
 

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Your in your 30s, stop using terms like "beta"
Or "alpha"

But I feel you on not wanting to waste time at a bar and wanna get right to it......

Do as you wish, just don't get caught up in making decisions based on what a bunch of guys who don't get pvssy deem as alpha or beta lol....

If you don't mind spending a few on drinks and maybe a hour and some change just for the lay, I say go for it, if she was very attractive I'm sure you would do it.
 

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Your in your 30s, stop using terms like "beta"
Or "alpha"

But I feel you on not wanting to waste time at a bar and wanna get right to it......

Do as you wish, just don't get caught up in making decisions based on what a bunch of guys who don't get pvssy deem as alpha or beta lol....

If you don't mind spending a few on drinks and maybe a hour and some change just for the lay, I say go for it, if she was very attractive I'm sure you would do it.
I’ve always used those terms and found they ring true in reality, so I’ll keep using them.

sShe was very attractive but I don’t care, I’ve had sex with very attractive women before and didnt have to spend a cent. Don’t assume you know me.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk
You are basically limiting yourself to very low quality women. Not to say you can't get a lot of first date lays, but the better women (typically the hotter ones) are not going to put out on Date 1 (not sex anyway). Just seems sort of silly. Not that you have told us anything else about this woman in particular.
 

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I would have pay for drinks, I dont mind. After three dates I would ghost if Im not getting something out of her.
 

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Too may cheap azzes on here.
Nothing wrong with buying a girl a drink - its not fine dining.
If you can‘t afford it, perhaps focus on upgraded your job before your game.
If the vibe feels off and you should know rather quickly - you check out.
Small investment for a potential good time…
 

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SO SM what other options did you have that were more attractive?
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Nothing wrong with buying a girl a drink - its not fine dining.
why cant they buy me a drink? or do they like to switch lanes back to traditionalism when it suits.

you see, I dont mind dining a lady, but these aint ladies. they are indoctrinated terrorists , and not one can cook from recipe.
 

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sum y’all’s b fruntin
 
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