Girl on bumble asked me out to a bar.

[SargeMaximus]

I told her no. She just wants free drinks imo.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I told her no. She just wants free drinks imo.

Since you don't care about the outcome, you should have said "You paying?"

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

or I’ll buy the first round.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Since you don't care about the outcome, you should have said "You paying?"

I’m not interested tbh. I want to go to her house and fvck not waste time at a bar. Barriers to entry = beta territory

or I’ll buy the first round.

lol fvck that

 

[Striker_93]

Your in your 30s, stop using terms like "beta"
Or "alpha"

But I feel you on not wanting to waste time at a bar and wanna get right to it......

Do as you wish, just don't get caught up in making decisions based on what a bunch of guys who don't get pvssy deem as alpha or beta lol....

If you don't mind spending a few on drinks and maybe a hour and some change just for the lay, I say go for it, if she was very attractive I'm sure you would do it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Your in your 30s, stop using terms like "beta"
Or "alpha"

But I feel you on not wanting to waste time at a bar and wanna get right to it......

Do as you wish, just don't get caught up in making decisions based on what a bunch of guys who don't get pvssy deem as alpha or beta lol....

If you don't mind spending a few on drinks and maybe a hour and some change just for the lay, I say go for it, if she was very attractive I'm sure you would do it.

I’ve always used those terms and found they ring true in reality, so I’ll keep using them.

sShe was very attractive but I don’t care, I’ve had sex with very attractive women before and didnt have to spend a cent. Don’t assume you know me.

 

[Striker_93]

I’ve had sex with very attractive women before

I bet you have.....

 

[EyeBRollin]

I told her no. She just wants free drinks imo.

Mistake.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Mistake.

Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk

 

[EyeBRollin]

Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk

Leaves a ton of ass on the table. Good luck with that.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Weak

 

[Barrister]

Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk

You are basically limiting yourself to very low quality women. Not to say you can't get a lot of first date lays, but the better women (typically the hotter ones) are not going to put out on Date 1 (not sex anyway). Just seems sort of silly. Not that you have told us anything else about this woman in particular.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I would have pay for drinks, I dont mind. After three dates I would ghost if Im not getting something out of her.

 

[Stuffnu]

Too may cheap azzes on here.
Nothing wrong with buying a girl a drink - its not fine dining.
If you can‘t afford it, perhaps focus on upgraded your job before your game.
If the vibe feels off and you should know rather quickly - you check out.
Small investment for a potential good time…

 

[2Rocky]

SO SM what other options did you have that were more attractive?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Disagree. I’m not into the song and dance anymore. Fvck or walk

That's a highly calibrated low quality woman filter you've got there.

 

[derby1]

Nothing wrong with buying a girl a drink - its not fine dining.

why cant they buy me a drink? or do they like to switch lanes back to traditionalism when it suits.

you see, I dont mind dining a lady, but these aint ladies. they are indoctrinated terrorists , and not one can cook from recipe.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

sum y’all’s b fruntin

 

[SargeMaximus]

Leaves a ton of ass on the table. Good luck with that.

I’ve rarely (twice) gotten sex from Going the “date first” route

 

[EyeBRollin]

I’ve rarely (twice) gotten sex from Going the “date first” route

Translation: I only get sex from sloots.