Well, I'm talking time too. Your typcial man doesn't have the time to book a flight for a couple days to Colombia a few times a year.
Cola made a good point in a post a few months back. basically saying something like a escort is easier. because dating takes time, money, time away from working a gig and making extra money etc and rather it's easier to just get to the point, SEX. That is true. Using OLD is even time consuming for example. Swiping, using sites like Match and having to carefully dictate and craft you messages so you don't get ghosted, etc. Like right now I'm too busy and can't properly use OLD like I used to. It sucks now, but before Covid when my business was less busy I was able to write better messages, use more game and in return had a much better reply rate and went on a number of dates.
I would much rather just pay, get to the point and go about focusing on my work and business.