The weird thing is this girl has seen me with other women before, so she knows what I can pull. Your example is spot on though. Oh well, hope her and future Chad will be happy ever after, I’m just glad she can’t contact me anymore.
Is this a rejection or what?
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OP, i see you put a lot of efforts to reply in this thread trying to dig down the situation. I am also guilty of doing this. But the whole stuff is pretty simple:
- if she does not play your game you next her
- if she gives you unclear signals, ask her out and make your move
- if she flakes your date you next her
- if she is cold on the date you next her
- if she does not play your game you next her
- if she gives you unclear signals, ask her out and make your move
- if she flakes your date you next her
- if she is cold on the date you next her
Red flag after red flag. Nexttttt.
IL way too low and would be a major headache to dare. Walk away.
Imo it does not matter what she says, girl talk trash all the time and will still just follow their feelings. You can check if she really wants to keep meeting you and when she does, get close, look into her eyes, pull her a bit closer and you will see if she wants to kiss/f*ck you, that's what I'd do.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It’s funny how they’re too damaged for Johnny Normal but suddenly “fixed” for Chad and ready to relationship it up ASAP!
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even with they in relationship with non chad they always had occasional have their back blown by chads. thats a fact for most wahmen.
This is very interesting, my question to this and to add to OP's message. At what point is it right for a man to be direct with a woman? I keep hearing advices to be direct, and that women love a man when he is direct and decisive. Well, OP was very direct with her and letting her know what he wants. But it still didnt play in her favor.
Are there certain times when we shouldnt be direct with them? Like bringing up exclusivity? Can being direct with women be a double-edged sword? Seems that way
But it still didnt play in his** favor
It didn’t but what it did do is save me time I would have wasted on someone who wasn’t truly interested. Now I can go ask out the 24 yr old receptionist I’ve flirted with and who’s flirted back a few times at the dealership where I get my truck serviced. The other one has been blocked and deleted, if she complains to our friends oh fvcking well.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
The foundation is that she is truly interested, you don't need to think about this, when she isn't. If she is, I usually play it back and forth, show interest, then get distanced and let her come to you, be dominant, be caring, be distanced, be affectionate, it's just a game, you make one step, she makes her's etc. If she is not willing to make her steps towards you, you leave, but I'd not leave like Robert did, when I leave, I leave in lighthearted, unaffected way, this way you have a chance (not a guarantee) that she changes her mind, considers you as valuable and starts making steps towards you. If she does, you might be in the game again but make sure that you are playing the real game and not this friend zone thing^^
She wasn’t too busy to start dating me but suddenly she’s busy and needs to focus on her career, oh and she forgot to mention she’s been suffering from depression for years apparently and that flared up again. Must be bad timing, I’m sure it’s all legit on her part. This is why she got blocked, she couldn’t be honest with me and chose to give a vague bunch of lies.
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Yeah, she's so FOS. I have no patience for this kind of nonsense.
Neither do I. If you can’t be honest with me when you reject me and give me that level of respect then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t care how many mutual friends we share or how long we’ve known each other.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Anything but a yes or compliance is a no.
All the blah blah blah reason blah blah doesn't amount to anything but the same result. She is rejecting.
Sounds like she was seeking validation.
It’s really that simple. I’ve never had a girl say “maybe” and end up being my girlfriend. All that other stuff she said was made up bs and dancing around the truth. That’s what was a gut punch. I deserved an honest answer and she refused to give me one. That’s why I ghosted and blocked her. I’m too old for that crap.
If she gets put out by you ghosting her and she plays the victim all you need to say to your friends is this :
" i lost interest. I stop pursuing her. Would any of you pursue someone you were no longer interested in? No."
If they are your friends they will understand.
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Forget whether this is a rejection or not. She's damaged to some extend, and at least was honest about it, she is doing you a favor by making sure you don't get any ideas.
She is a FWB at best.
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