Is this a rejection or what?

[Robert28]

If she gets put out by you ghosting her and she plays the victim all you need to say to your friends is this :
" i lost interest. I stop pursuing her. Would any of you pursue someone you were no longer interested in? No."

If they are your friends they will understand.

Luckily I’m friends with all the guys and have been for years, she’s friends with a lot of their girlfriends and wives. My guy friends know who I am and if she tries to play the “oh he ghosted me so he only wanted sex, woe is me” they’ll know she’s full of crap. They knew her and I were sorta friends for a few years and always kinda had a thing for each other, we just never tried to date. That’s why this rejection stings a lot, it was a sure thing where there was always sexual tension between us and we finally took that step and now she gives me some canned bs answer.

 

[Robert28]

Forget whether this is a rejection or not. She's damaged to some extend, and at least was honest about it, she is doing you a favor by making sure you don't get any ideas.

She is a FWB at best.


Modern Man Advice

She can go be Chad’s side piece. I don’t want anything to do with her. Let her continue to be damaged for all I care. She made all those choices in her life that caused her to be damaged, she needs to look in the mirror if she wants to find the real problem behind her troubles.

 

[Robert28]

So today I got a text from a 24 yr old receptionist who works at the dealership I get my truck serviced. I’d given her my number a month ago last time I was in there, we’d flirted some and seemed to have a connection over the few times I’d been in there. I know giving your number instead of getting hers usually doesn’t work, but this time it did for some reason. So when I didn’t hear from her I figured that was that next time I went in there, I’d just say hey and be friendly since I would have to see her and just keep on walking. Turns out she thought long and hard about texting me but wasn’t sure if she wanted to start up anything with anyone. Then she said “fvck it, he’s attractive and we seem like we vibe so I’m going for it”. Just goes to show when one woman drops you, another will pick you up if you keep chopping away.