Is this a rejection or what?

[Robert28]

Usually? Sounds like you have a lot of bad experiences with women. I could be wrong

Not always. I have in my mid to late 30’s though for some reason. It’s like my good luck went to sh!t when I hit 35 and beyond lol

 

[sangheilios]

Something I learned a while back was if you are ever confused or unsure of what is going on with a woman you are trying to progress with it generally means you are better off just moving on. If you are ever in a situation where you are unsure of where you stand she isn't interested and it's in your best interest to focus on other things. When women have interest, particularly high interest, they go out of their way to make things easy for you.

This is the reason why I gave up a long time ago and completely moved on from dating. Most women, even unattractive ones, simply have too many options and the amount of time and energy required to even just go on a date with them, let alone have sex with them, isn't worth it.

 

[bat soup]

I just never heard it detailed that much with extra bs sprinkled on top before lol I knew what it was when I heard it but I just wish she’d given me a better one. I’d have much rather have gotten “hey I’m not feeling this” or something. Would you block and ghost? I mean I honestly don’t have anything more to say to her and don’t want to be around her anymore.

Yeah, I'd just block her.

 

[Robert28]

Something I learned a while back was if you are ever confused or unsure of what is going on with a woman you are trying to progress with it generally means you are better off just moving on. If you are ever in a situation where you are unsure of where you stand she isn't interested and it's in your best interest to focus on other things. When women have interest, particularly high interest, they go out of their way to make things easy for you.

This is the reason why I gave up a long time ago and completely moved on from dating. Most women, even unattractive ones, simply have too many options and the amount of time and energy required to even just go on a date with them, let alone have sex with them, isn't worth it.

It just baffles me that a woman can choose to remain single for 3-4 years and turn down many suitors during that time and not be phased by it. She’d trade random hookups with Chad over a relationship with a non-Chad.

 

[Robert28]

Yeah, I'd just block her.

I did. I’m done with it. If she twists things around to my friends I know I’ll get to tell my side when they came to me. I can hear her now “I was honest with him! He blocked me for no reason!”

 

[Robert28]

Robert women have infinite options. They only feel as if they do not. There is a simp around every corner for her

The problem is the simps get lower in value the later in life. The simps she had in her 20’s won’t be the same type of simps she can get in her 30’s. Women don’t realize this though.

 

[derby1]

Yeah I can see where I showed my cards too easily. I think because I hate being bs’d and given vague answers that I’m the type that’ll tell you exactly where I stand and what I’m thinking. Maybe I kill all the mystery about myself but there’s no mistaking where I stand. Guess I need to find a balance.

dont you remember I wrote about that lunatic I was chilling with , and because she could see the thumbnails of the future episodes on netflix she totally lost interest

 

[bat soup]

I did. I’m done with it. If she twists things around to my friends I know I’ll get to tell my side when they came to me. I can hear her now “I was honest with him! He blocked me for no reason!”

You don't owe her an explanation. As soon as a woman shows she's not interested, what she thinks or does becomes irrelevant.

 

[Robert28]

You don't owe her an explanation. As soon as a woman shows she's not interested, what she thinks or does becomes irrelevant.

I mean I said everything I wanted to say that night. If she can’t piece together why I ghosted then that’s on her. I got rejected, I don’t care how she spins it, rejection is rejection. I just wanted to be clear that I thought it was what it meant. I’m an easy guy to get rid of, you don’t have to drop too many hints to get rid of me for good. And I mean you will never be able to contact me ever again. When I’m gone, I might as well be dead because you will be to me. I’ll never think of you ever again.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

i call that a bullet dodged, not rejection. Shes telling you up front shes a basket case and saving you the time of finding out for yourself.

 

[DonJuanjr]

If a woman hasn't been in a relationship for 3 years, it's not likely that she's been abstaining from sex for 3 years. She's been a carousel rider, either by choice or circumstances

I was going to say something similar. I was talking to my fwb about a friend of hers. I was trying to get her to talk the friend into a threesome. She was saying the friend "has been single for 7 years". I said there's no way she's been celibate that long. That's bullshhit. She said "of course she's had flings" but no committed relationship.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

When a girl says “honestly, I haven’t been in a relationship in 3 years, I don’t have time to be in one because I’ve been focusing on my career and I’ve needed time to work on myself because I’ve been battling depression and I just don’t have the time to put effort into a relationship right now”. That’s a rejection isn’t it?

It could be the truth, but it also means she probably just isn't really that into you or you did something she didn't like. Women tend to hide those things from guys they are really into.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

When a girl says “honestly, I haven’t been in a relationship in 3 years, I don’t have time to be in one because I’ve been focusing on my career and I’ve needed time to work on myself because I’ve been battling depression and I just don’t have the time to put effort into a relationship right now”. That’s a rejection isn’t it?

Yea

It sounds like she is building up her retinue of Beta Orbitors. If she blows you off, expect to get a call from her a few years from now after she's gotten knocked up or become fat.

Fat as a nose tackle?

 

[Robert28]

It could be the truth, but it also means she probably just isn't really that into you or you did something she didn't like. Women tend to hide those things from guys they are really into.

Who knows. I’m tired of meeting such wishy washy women though

 

[Robert28]

I was going to say something similar. I was talking to my fwb about a friend of hers. I was trying to get her to talk the friend into a threesome. She was saying the friend "has been single for 7 years". I said there's no way she's been celibate that long. That's bullshhit. She said "of course she's had flings" but no committed relationship.

This girl was similar. It’s like she goes 3-4 years in between relationships or something. So weird. I wonder, do women prioritize orbiters over relationships? What makes a woman want to ride the carousel over a relationship?

 

[DonJuanjr]

What makes a woman want to ride the carousel over a relationship?

Delusions of grandeur.

 

[Robert28]

Yep, and it's also a lie. Women always have men in their lives in some capacity. Women also don't care about careers. Women go to work to meet high status men.

I mean she’s some manager at a retail store making $15 an hour so I dunno what she meant by “focus on my career”lol

 

[Robert28]

more ego boosting with less emotional risk and obligation

Dangerous game to play though. Especially when they get older. You can’t just snap your fingers and bam, in a relationship. For some reason though that’s how they think it works. Like the option will always be there no matter what.

 

[metalwater]

It just baffles me that a woman can choose to remain single for 3-4 years and turn down many suitors during that time and not be phased by it. She’d trade random hookups with Chad over a relationship with a non-Chad.

imagine that there are three women all available to you.

a. polite but a bit standoffish, and has high admiration for you. very unattractive to you physically. you know she wants a relationship with you.

b. a solid HB 6.5, seems not that interested but will talk to you. she doesn't listen to you and seems to cut you off or down but in a friendly way. she earns more money than you.

c. a solid HB 8, a little slutty, definitely makes you horny, you know she will allow you to fck.

All three choose you. Who will you go meet first of the three?

Then the next day comes and you have the same, but with three new women. And then the day after that its the same again but with new ones. At what point do you pick a or b?
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During the time she is single, she will accept a relationship with the real chad. The real chad has other options. He might have some sort of a relationship with her so that she will perform and behave well. What he tells her and what he plans are different. And maybe he doesn't tell her anything but she hears what she likes.

 

[Robert28]

thats a fairly honest rejection. Yes, she would sleep wiht a 9 or 10 if the option presented itself, but other than that she probable is too damaged and depressed to really attach or want to.

Yeah that’s what I was thinking too. Her last boyfriend was some sort of Chad and yet she’s been single for 3 years even though they only dated a year. It didn’t add up to me. I’ve dated hot girls, I’m not about to stay single because one dumped me, I keep it moving on.