Lmao it would be... but I think I'm going to go to the party, tell her that I won't be able to make it tonight but I'd love to see her next week and that I'll be in touch?
The plans (read: other guy) she was hoping to partake in tonight clearly fell through so NOW she can hang out with you. If you just want a bang then do what Glassguy suggests. Personally, I would just look elsewhere. Once you are seen as Option B by a woman it is hard to shake that view.
I mean of course I could invite her to an after party like Glassguy said,
You can do whatever you want, brother. This isn't a hard science. Just don't be surprised when she flakes again next week if you give her another shot. One of the tactics some DJs suggest is, once she has flaked once, just invite her straight to your place. If she refuses you are done and move on.
Not after being blown off like that (get it?)
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
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I would do that too, it's good advice, however I share a flat and some of the people here are nosey ****s and loudmouths. It's a shared kitchen and all. A bottle of red while we cook would have been nice, but with these people around... we wouldn't get the place to ourselves
She missed her chance for tonight by blowing me off, I'm prioritising my time over hers... I'm not going to cancel plans because she suddenly wants to go out now - **** that.
No need to act that way dude.
This is a good idea in dealing with flakes if you're feeling like giving a woman another opportunity. If she flakes on an in-public date, invite straight to your home so that you're not inconvienced by her AND you are closer to getting the bang if she shows up for the home date.
