The Biggest Bullet You Ever Dogdged?

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I nearly developed feelings oneitis for an ex stripper haha.

I met her off a dating app around 3 years ago.

First date she seemed sweet & innocent, and I immediately liked her.

This girl had the most amazing body.. Straight 9/10 model material. The sex was on another level.

As I dated her, a couple of months in, the red flags began to pop up.

Turns out she was an ex model.. Then I find out that she was a nude model.. Then it turns out that she has done stripping too & wet T-shirt contests.

Few months later she begins to tell me about her occasional cocain use.

Then turns out she has dabbled with some porn. Also she was sexualy abused as a child.

I was addicted to this girl for a while, simply because she was so damn hot.

She had more red flags than a Chinese communist parade.. I also had a strong feeling she was BDP however I enjoyed having this hot girl on my arm, so I ignored the red flags.

6 months in, it dawned on me that I was developing feels for her.. I was thinking about her alot & even discussed the possibility of a relationship.

However.. Those redd flags began to eat away at me.. After giving it some serious thought, I snapped back to reality & luckily realised that this was a toxic train wreck waiting to happen.

Even though she was fine as fuk and the sex was incredible.. I decided to dump her & run.

Man it was difficult as hell.. I thought about that girl for maybe a year after dumping her.

But it as definitely the right thing to do & now with the time & distance I realise that it was a MAJOR bullet I dodged

Bro you should've just pumped and dumped the first date.....Lol jk, thank you

 

[derby1]

LTR with Attention Wh*re. that put me on the path to this site.....

Stunning Thic, busty blonde... then 5 months in her A.W crept back in. over the following 6 months

1)started to upload 3 selfies a week.
2) noticed how all the orbiters were ugly as hell, she had about 1500 of them. I didnt know what an orbiter was and couldnt understand why she would sabotage how great we were, over some ugly guys.
3) we both agreed some were creepy and should be blocked, however 2 weeks later I noticed they were unblocked liking her stuff again, this creeped me out as I didnt know what an A.W was. I thought she was strange. and she had clearly gone through the effort of unblocking total strangers
4) we split up, she gaslighted me into believing I was to blame, we got back together but she said she would have to keep it a secret as her dad thinks were Toxic,I foolishly agreed this is a modern womans trick, as they can now sell themselves as single on social media, and receive vast amounts of more attention, meanwhile your still her "worker ant"

5) the final straw = I grabbed her arm one night in an effort to stop her from drink driving, 3 days later I went round her house, and she had black eyes and a severely bruised arm. There was "get well soon" cards all over her living room. She had beat herself up and told people it was me, the cards were all from family & work colleagues instructing her "how beautiful she is, and how she should keep away from me"

Sick

 

[MatureDJ]

Barebacking a moron - yes, she had an IQ under 80. I became much less interested in casual penile-vaginal sex after that.

 

[soulforge]

Bro you should've just pumped and dumped the first date.....Lol jk, thank you

I didn't find out about her past till maybe 2-3 months in.. By then I was quite invested in her.. Plus that incredible body of hers, had me wanting more.

Looking back now, pump & dump was all she was worthy of, considering how damaged she was due to the choices she made in her life

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Has to be this: This girl I was dating claimed I was gaslighting her by not acknowledging her horoscope as reality. https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...cknowledging-her-horoscope-as-reality.267783/

 

[inquisitor]

"The one that got away" in Highschool. Every single one of them.

They're all preppy ""princesses"", aren't they? Then they have "serious" relationships with men they just found and then "when the love is gone", trade them off like lottery tickets.

 

[derby1]

I had this plate showing low interest, she would read messages and just not reply at all sometimes

Then one day when she asked me a question on social media about one of my paintings, i did the same thing to her

Shortly after she blocked me on every single social media, and on whatsapp.

you did nothing wrong, this is your average western chic, they cannot handle anything done to them. social media and simp overlord attention has seen to that.

Im suprised she didnt get a D.V charge against you

 

[derby1]

The ones that did settle are with yes man simps that are overweight, but they make cute instagram couples pictures with. If that's what she wants then so be it lol.

Patrice O Neal "Dating their dinner"
Patrice O Neal "Sharks & Penguins"
Patrice O Neal "Tuna fish been brainwashed they run the ocean, then they cant handle a shark with teeth"

 

[Datinglife26]

My ex. She had serious commitment issues if she fell for someone hard, afraid to get hurt, so she had a history of dating "friends" that she loved but wasn't in love with. I should have noped when she told me she dated a guy for a year but they were basically friends.

If you know attachment theory she was the classic fearful avoidant.

Met her parents/brothers, they loved me and that freaked her the **** out. I could see it in her face when I got along with them. Was her idea for me to meet them.

She cancelled our new years plans because she "wasn't well" then proceeded to hang out with her guy friend...I ended things. She didn't think I would and got mad, kept trying to say the break up was my fault, said she wanted to be friends because she wanted me in her life, said nope and she got so mad. I said you either wanted something or its nothing, to which she replied "if we do you will end up finding someone and hurting me" (U WHAT? I wasn't going anywhere)

She reached out every couple of weeks for 5 months until I blocked her on everything.
After the break up she would upload pics of her and this guy doing things that she loved doing with me. I laughed to myself because it obviously targeted to me and he had no idea that their "hot chocolate with marshmallows" pic was what we used to make after a night out drinking together. Also specific **** like "playing jenga" when I had bought us a jenga set for date nights in because she loved that game.

Keep in mind she is still dating this guy 1 year later but she described him to me as "he will do anything I say lol made him take me shopping, he is kinda ugly, I thought he was gay when we met" and my favourite "ill make him pick up my friend and me from xyz"

In short I dodged a bullet. She did everything to justify why things wouldn't work. And the more I passed her tests the more she fell for me until her "test" crossed the line.

I don't think she thought she was good enough for me so there I must be low value so she crashed it all.

Weird thing was she would blurt out how much she loved me after a couple of drinks and then catch herself from saying it.

Easier to date a guy you get along with but will always be there than a guy who can walk at any minute if you screw up.

As corey wayne says "it brings out the best in the best and the worst in the worst"

Best sex though so still miss her lol

 

[Bingo-Player]

yea this chick back in 2013 , actually one of the main reasons i signed up to SS

looking back i don't even know why i was attracted to her … think it was literally just because she told someone she liked me

whirlwind romance lasted all of 3 weeks over Christmas 2013

a manipulator , a liar and a coke wh0re and now 8 years later she is fat with a kid working at a drive thru

 

[RangerMIke]

Too many to count.... or even figure out which was the worst.

But the last was a 39 yo, single mom with 2 boys, I dated little over a year ago... she chased me REALLY hard, I liked her a lot, we were completely in-sync with EVERYTHING, best sex ever (really no joke there), she was funny, smart, just a delight to be with.... but when she tossed down the "committed relationship or we are done" gauntlet. I said no way, she went off in a huff one morning and that was that. That was a tough morning....

Anyway, I didn't hear from her for months, then one day she was at an event... pregnant, this was the next dude she was dating. I honestly have no idea what is going on with her, but she is apparently now a sh1t storm of stupid.

 

[Robert28]

LTR with Attention Wh*re. that put me on the path to this site.....

Stunning Thic, busty blonde... then 5 months in her A.W crept back in. over the following 6 months

1)started to upload 3 selfies a week.
2) noticed how all the orbiters were ugly as hell, she had about 1500 of them. I didnt know what an orbiter was and couldnt understand why she would sabotage how great we were, over some ugly guys.
3) we both agreed some were creepy and should be blocked, however 2 weeks later I noticed they were unblocked liking her stuff again, this creeped me out as I didnt know what an A.W was. I thought she was strange. and she had clearly gone through the effort of unblocking total strangers
4) we split up, she gaslighted me into believing I was to blame, we got back together but she said she would have to keep it a secret as her dad thinks were Toxic,I foolishly agreed this is a modern womans trick, as they can now sell themselves as single on social media, and receive vast amounts of more attention, meanwhile your still her "worker ant"

5) the final straw = I grabbed her arm one night in an effort to stop her from drink driving, 3 days later I went round her house, and she had black eyes and a severely bruised arm. There was "get well soon" cards all over her living room. She had beat herself up and told people it was me, the cards were all from family & work colleagues instructing her "how beautiful she is, and how she should keep away from me"

Sick

That’s textbook narcissist not attention *****.

 

[Robert28]

Too many to count.... or even figure out which was the worst.

But the last was a 39 yo, single mom with 2 boys, I dated little over a year ago... she chased me REALLY hard, I liked her a lot, we were completely in-sync with EVERYTHING, best sex ever (really no joke there), she was funny, smart, just a delight to be with.... but when she tossed down the "committed relationship or we are done" gauntlet. I said no way, she went off in a huff one morning and that was that. That was a tough morning....

Anyway, I didn't hear from her for months, then one day she was at an event... pregnant, this was the next dude she was dating. I honestly have no idea what is going on with her, but she is apparently now a sh1t storm of stupid.

How the hell you gonna get pregnant at 39?lol the “young and dumb” excuse went out the window 20 years ago

 

[jimwho]

Out at the races (middle of the Desert) a friend introduces me to his wife's daughter. Ten years younger than me. She pursued but I wasn't going near that possible nightmare scenario. After her repeated advances "I broke" she is white, very pretty, with bolt-on's.
Things were great, then ((("TWO"))) months in she comes over with this 12-year old kid. Her daughter. Her kid is white/black. The Dingbat clearly had an issue with the mixed race thing. And proceeds to go on & on about the dad is Créole? I do not know what that is. And not in the picture! (I wonder why? Later on that).

Daughter was visually adorable, but it took me a while to realize everything she did was on purpose. She was cunning. Spill 30-Lbs of dog food instead of use the cup. Spill huge pitcher of water, accidentally locking doors so we can't get in.
Eye rolls, can't get along with other kids, her famous what Evers, sticking tongue out, repeating what you say. Never in front of mom. The kid was verified spawn of the Devil. I feared for my safety while sleeping.

I told Jenny, here's the deal. Your welcome but never with your kid ever. Let me know if you bring your spawn to the races and I will pit with another team. I have looked at your Daughters face for the last time in my life. That did not go over well. Sad too because she was a beautiful smart athletic kid. Probably dodged a hatchet..

 

[derby1]

but it took me a while to realize everything she did was on purpose. She was cunning. Spill 30-Lbs of dog food instead of use the cup. Spill huge pitcher of water, accidentally locking doors so we can't get in.

bog standard crotch spawn of a single mom.

 

[RangerMIke]

How the hell you gonna get pregnant at 39?lol the “young and dumb” excuse went out the window 20 years ago

She had a VERY high sex drive... only chick in my life that would literally wear me out. I actually wasn't surprised that it happened, she used to get ticked off at me when I didn't have condoms and wouldn't do anything without them. I'm sure the next dumb@ss that followed me, just said "okay' when she wanted to go bareback.

Mike don't do bareback, even though I'm snipped, don't need any fvcking diseases.

 

[bat soup]

I had this plate showing low interest, she would read messages and just not reply at all sometimes

Then one day when she asked me a question on social media about one of my paintings, i did the same thing to her

Shortly after she blocked me on every single social media, and on whatsapp.

I don't think I've ever met someone that crazy and I'm really glad we didn't date that long.

Anyone else have a story to top this?

There was a girl that popped up on Instagram that I knew from about 8 years ago. I looked and saw that she had been living in the same city as me for the past year in another country. I asked her about it, we chatted a bit and she seemed quite interested in meeting up. The next day her account disappeared.