The Biggest Bullet You Ever Dogdged?

[Georgepithyou]

I had this plate showing low interest, she would read messages and just not reply at all sometimes

Then one day when she asked me a question on social media about one of my paintings, i did the same thing to her

Shortly after she blocked me on every single social media, and on whatsapp.

I don't think I've ever met someone that crazy and I'm really glad we didn't date that long.

Anyone else have a story to top this?

 

[deadmasterx]

Some time ago when I was single, I met a girl that started telling me she loved me from the very first day. I knew there was something wrong, and I honestly wasn't really in the community at that time, but even so I decided to give a try. Didn't catch any feelings nor anything like that, I just wanted to see how was it gonna be like if I suddenly showed the same level of (aparent) interest of hers.

One week after, she said I'm perfect but we can't be together. I said "sure", it was so ridiculous that I was laughing. Gave little to no attention to her (not replying on time, not starting the chat, minimum effort to keep it going) after that.

Interestingly, last year when I posted a picture in the gym she came and commented "Why don't you come here choke me with these big hands?". Not the first time she did something like that tho.

 

[Robert28]

When you find out the partner count is closer to 150 than 15.

Hell 15 is too many

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Considering that the girls that have rejected me either settled for less or are still on the dating apps/overrated now....all of em

 

[Robert28]

Considering that the girls that have rejected me either settled for less or are still on the dating apps/overrated now....all of em

Same here.

 

[Barrister]

I had this plate showing low interest, she would read messages and just not reply at all sometimes

Then one day when she asked me a question on social media about one of my paintings, i did the same thing to her

Shortly after she blocked me on every single social media, and on whatsapp.

I don't think I've ever met someone that crazy and I'm really glad we didn't date that long.

Anyone else have a story to top this?

Met a smoking girl off Tinder. After drinks at the bar took her back to my place. Later that night woke up to my neighbor yelling at me from outside (this is at about 2:00 am) that a guy had a ladder against my house trying to peek into my bedroom. Come to find out her ex-husband had followed her to my place because he had put a GPS tracking device on her car and was trying to watch us. Granted this actually turned me on quite considerably to keep fu*king her for a couple months after that because I’m stupid. It eventually just kind of fizzled out which is probably a good thing. There was other weird sh1t there.

Can’t make this sh1t up.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Basically any woman that is now my age...its amazing how valuable I imagined them to be back then only to find out that I wouldnt even get a bj for free from them right.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Considering that the girls that have rejected me either settled for less or are still on the dating apps/overrated now....all of em

But here is the counterpoint.

Based on what metrics? You are projecting that she should want "x" and that you offer more of that but maybe she wants "y" and they offer more of that than you.

Not saying you are wrong to think that, but women see things the way they see them not the way we think they should see them.

 

[2Rocky]

"The one that got away" in Highschool. Every single one of them.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

But here is the counterpoint.

Based on what metrics? You are projecting that she should want "x" and that you offer more of that but maybe she wants "y" and they offer more of that than you.

Not saying you are wrong to think that, but women see things the way they see them not the way we think they should see them.

Most women that have rejected me are still single because they were narcissists, over entitled, immature, and etc. They can keep searching for their Tony Stark, gluten free, Thor Hybrid Super man they are hopelessly searching for while they age and get fatter. The ones that did settle are with yes man simps that are overweight, but they make cute instagram couples pictures with. If that's what she wants then so be it lol.

This is why you can't take rejection too seriously because most of these single women running around are out of their heads in the first place.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Most women that have rejected me are still single because they were narcissists, over entitled, immature, and etc. They can keep searching for their Tony Stark, gluten free, Thor Hybrid Super man they are hopelessly searching for while they age and get fatter. The ones that did settle are with yes man simps that are overweight, but they make cute instagram couples pictures with. If that's what she wants then so be it lol.

This is why you can't take rejection too seriously because most of these single women running around are out of their heads in the first place.

I mean you are not wrong. I have had women tell me they stopped going out with me because they think I would end up cheating on them or that they felt too insecure around me, etc because I was in really good shape.

I was like WTF? It's literally like they are convinced you will dump them at some point and they are just going to prevent it by ending things before they start.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I was in a 9 yr. LTR that ended 5 years ago. About 4-5 years into the LTR, I actually considered (gulp!) getting married. Everything was pretty cool with her to that point, she checked a lot of boxes. She wanted kids, I was lukewarm but somewhat open to it. We were already living together. I started looking at and pricing rings. Then I made an appointment with an attorney in town. I asked about what would happen if we got married and then divorced. I quickly learned in the one hour meeting I would be WAY on the losing end, even with a prenup which he said the judge could use as a "guide" but is in no way bound by its contents. The attorney was very candid and said that my state is very liberal in divorces and the city I live in is the most liberal in the state (in a non-political way) so basically the courts will heavily side with the woman, no matter what.

My thoughts of marriage ended right there.

We were together for a few more years and the relationship started to get very apathetic; separate bedrooms, very little sex, separate work schedules, separate lives. We turned into roommates. Finally, we agreed to part ways. Towards the end, I think she was seeing some guy from her dance class on the side, but I honestly didn't even care, which in itself was a bad sign. Basically we both checked out. She moved out about two weeks after our break-up talk. It was honestly like an 800# lowland gorilla (not a monkey) was off my back. No more tension, passive-aggressive, roommate BS. My blood pressure dropped to 60/40, or so it seemed.

Because were weren't married, I lost nothing. As a matter of fact, I still have her expensive cookware which I use all the time and she left a few other things here that I use. I assume they’re 100% mine at this point.

After we decided to split, her personality really changed. She wasn't hostile but just very cold, terse, and stolid. Had she carried that attitude into divorce court, she would have gone for the jugular, I could just sense it.

I remember a few days after she moved out, I was hiking with my dog thinking about the events of the past month. My mind kept envisioning I’m the QB of a NFL team and the defense is blitzing 8 guys from all angles at me, but my line and RBs picked them all up and I launched a TD pass and avoided disaster. I still feel that way. Whew.

HUGE bullet dodged.

 

[Romanemp22]

Probably my long ago ex, dumped her in the right moment and banged her ex friend.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I was in a 9 yr. LTR that ended 5 years ago. About 4-5 years into the LTR, I actually considered (gulp!) getting married. Everything was pretty cool with her to that point, she checked a lot of boxes. She wanted kids, I was lukewarm but somewhat open to it. We were already living together. I started looking at and pricing rings. Then I made an appointment with an attorney in town. I asked about what would happen if we got married and then divorced. I quickly learned in the one hour meeting I would be WAY on the losing end, even with a prenup which he said the judge could use as a "guide" but is in no way bound by its contents. The attorney was very candid and said that my state is very liberal in divorces and the city I live in is the most liberal in the state (in a non-political way) so basically the courts will heavily side with the woman, no matter what.

My thoughts of marriage ended right there.

We were together for a few more years and the relationship started to get very apathetic; separate bedrooms, very little sex, separate work schedules, separate lives. We turned into roommates. Finally, we agreed to part ways. Towards the end, I think she was seeing some guy from her dance class on the side, but I honestly didn't even care, which in itself was a bad sign. Basically we both checked out. She moved out about two weeks after our break-up talk. It was honestly like an 800# lowland gorilla (not a monkey) was off my back. No more tension, passive-aggressive, roommate BS. My blood pressure dropped to 60/40, or so it seemed.

Because were weren't married, I lost nothing. As a matter of fact, I still have her expensive cookware which I use all the time and she left a few other things here that I use. I assume they’re 100% mine at this point.

After we decided to split, her personality really changed. She wasn't hostile but just very cold, terse, and stolid. Had she carried that attitude into divorce court, she would have gone for the jugular, I could just sense it.

I remember a few days after she moved out, I was hiking with my dog thinking about the events of the past month. My mind kept envisioning I’m the QB of a NFL team and the defense is blitzing 8 guys from all angles at me, but my line and RBs picked them all up and I launched a TD pass and avoided disaster. I still feel that way. Whew.

HUGE bullet dodged.

My ex is of a different religion and claimed that she didn't eat any meat but chicken(I later found out she was just using this to manipulate her victims). I was like you, I was lukewarm about marriage, but somewhat open to it and continuing the relationship. My work friend told me that if you marry this girl then you would be eating chicken and lettuce the rest of your life, say good bye to inviting your buddies over for grill outs and etc. I never saw the relationship the same after that convo lmao.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Dated a coworker and it almost developed into a serious relationship. I’m still good friends with her. But I’ve learned her notch count is astronomical.

 

[Paper Crane]

I used to date a girl who was just bat.sh.t crazy from the start. We would have an amazing time and the next day she would try to guilt me, hurt or try to underhand insult me through memes. I couldn't rationalize the behavior.. it was so odd. But that stopped after she knew she "had me" I guess. But when that stopped, more sh.t popped up. A whole lot of manipulative tactics to I guess cause me to give her more attention. At one point during the time I was dating her, she would act like she can't live anymore and act like she was very emotionally distressed, just for me to leave all my friends and what I was doing and go to visit her.

Not only that, whenever I would talk about something serious or talk about sh.t that was bothering me, she would play it off as if she gave 0 fux about my life.

Basically, her whole premise of dating was trying to manipulate and control me to make herself feel better. Besides that, it was all about sex. when she got sex, she was pretty nromal. if she didn't have sex she would be acting f-cking crazy. It's like she was only validated by sex and constant attention.. but also wanted to control me, manipulate me, and have me never leave.

I asked some good friends of mine who are chicks about this and the message was split between: yeah she's super manipulative and crazy, or "maybe she just really really liked you a lot and had a lot of insecurities". Women are weird yo.

P.S Forgot to mention how I "dodged" the bullet. I ended up catching onto all her manipulative tactics and basically stopped treating her so nicely. WHen I started treating her like she was a f-ckin witch.. she lost her cool and its almost like I broke this storyline she was creating in her head for us. I told myself I gotta stop talking to her and never talk to her again.. because she definitely had some kind of power over me for a period of time. But she shot herself in the foot.

 

[2Rocky]

Oh and there was a redhead I met online who was going to meet me in the mountains of Wyoming and inferred naughty things. I politely informed her this was a family trip. She kept hinting a meet up. When I chose someone over her she immediately began a character assault on me...

Whew, glad I dodged that bullet...

 

[Paper Crane]

Oh and there was a redhead I met online who was going to meet me in the mountains of Wyoming and inferred naughty things. I politely informed her this was a family trip. She kept hinting a meet up. When I chose someone over her she immediately began a character assault on me...

Whew, glad I dodged that bullet...

With all due respect i think this is too loose of an interpretation of what dodging a bullet is. I mean this is just a horny girl online who didn't get what she wanted and you were busy thinking about family. super weird anyways. this is a don juan forum.. i mean did the thought of boning her ever cross your mind? or were u looking for a long exchange of conversation which would end up in a serious relationship ? smh

 

[soulforge]

I nearly developed feelings oneitis for an ex stripper haha.

I met her off a dating app around 3 years ago.

First date she seemed sweet & innocent, and I immediately liked her.

This girl had the most amazing body.. Straight 9/10 model material. The sex was on another level.

As I dated her, a couple of months in, the red flags began to pop up.

Turns out she was an ex model.. Then I find out that she was a nude model.. Then it turns out that she has done stripping too & wet T-shirt contests.

Few months later she begins to tell me about her occasional cocain use.

Then turns out she has dabbled with some porn. Also she was sexualy abused as a child.

I was addicted to this girl for a while, simply because she was so damn hot.

She had more red flags than a Chinese communist parade.. I also had a strong feeling she was BDP however I enjoyed having this hot girl on my arm, so I ignored the red flags.

6 months in, it dawned on me that I was developing feels for her.. I was thinking about her alot & even discussed the possibility of a relationship.

However.. Those redd flags began to eat away at me.. After giving it some serious thought, I snapped back to reality & luckily realised that this was a toxic train wreck waiting to happen.

Even though she was fine as fuk and the sex was incredible.. I decided to dump her & run.

Man it was difficult as hell.. I thought about that girl for maybe a year after dumping her.

But it as definitely the right thing to do & now with the time & distance I realise that it was a MAJOR bullet I dodged

 

[2Rocky]

Wait....Wait....Then there was another Redhead. She was a client/customer of my company. She would come into my office anmd flirt with me. She hounded me to friend her on Social media. So I did ( come to think of it the other redhead did too). She started sending me pictures in her bikini and flirty chat ensued. Well that was until I had to call her for some past due invoices...all of a sudden she wasn't so flirty anymore....

So Redheads have pretty much eliminated themselves from ever being considered by me because of the actions of these two (and others).

And PC there is a saying about not sticking your d*CK in Crazy. The first Redhead was an online community forum. I'm pretty sure she would have cried "MeToo" if I'd met up with her.