Insecurity disguised as low interest.

[BeExcellent]

In fact the last one I was seeing I told him straight up (we got into a discussion about game) to be very careful. The players always fall for me

@BeExcellent, you announcing this to the players you date suggests an over-confident, c*cky mindset which at the end of the day amounts to nothing more than insecurity. And is actually on par with what men (players) do, employing their c*cky/overly-confident PUA strategies on you. Just my opinion and experience, but no need to announce it, let your actions be your guide. Keep them wondering what you're all about. They'll quickly surmise what they're up against, lol.

Always worked for me anyway.

Except I’m not overconfident at all. They realize very quickly that they’ve met someone *different*. I am self assured and secure. Often they are actually insecure under the bravado. I read that innately. Everything I relate here is from personal experience.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Except I’m not overconfident at all. They realize very quickly that they’ve met someone *different*. I am self assured and secure. Often they are actually insecure under the bravado. I read that innately. Everything I relate here is from personal experience.

Notice how both females on the forum say they're "different" or "unique"

 

[BeExcellent]

Notice how both females on the forum say they're "different" or "unique"

If you read my content you’ll be able to find out my story, my viewpoints, my experiences. I don’t think discussing me personally contributes to the thread.

Im quite tickled for the OP...and so is my friend

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Cat'smeow seems to have an in-depth understanding of game and an unusually direct writing style for a 30-y/o female.

 

[Barrister]

I learned a lot about it through my ex, he was a huge "player" when I met him. I do believe he employed some Pua strategies on me, which worked! After we broke up, I did a massive amount of reading about it. Anything and everything I could get my hands on.

That, plus I am a highly intuitive, perceptive and intelligent person. And and Aries (sun sign). We tend to be direct and no nonsense, which I am. Confuses many men since appearance wise, I look like a soft powder puff. lol

And I don't discount much of what you guys preach either, I am not your enemy, not even @Pan87 lol who may be the brashest person I've ever encountered on an on-line forum, but like I said I enjoy his posts, his style. Not saying that to boost ego, it's just my opinion.

I might even fall for him IRL, and him for me!! Despite my age (30). LOL

Get a room already.

 

[Barrister]

With who, @Pan87? I'm too old for him, plus he lives on the other side of the globe. I was just messin you.

That said, your (and other men's) jealousy of him is palpable! Xd

@Pan87 can have his women (including you apparently). I am doing just fine.

Edit: And to be clear I was just messing with you.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I learned a lot about it through my ex, he was a huge "player" when I met him. I do believe he employed some Pua strategies on me, which worked! After we broke up, I did a massive amount of reading about it. Anything and everything I could get my hands on.

That, plus I am a highly intuitive, perceptive and intelligent person. And and Aries (sun sign). We tend to be direct and no nonsense, which I am. Confuses many men since appearance wise, I look like a soft powder puff. lol

And I don't discount much of what you guys preach either, I am not your enemy, not even @Pan87 lol who may be the brashest person I've ever encountered on an on-line forum, but like I said I enjoy his posts, his style. Not saying that to boost ego, it's just my opinion.

I might even fall for him IRL, and him for me!! Despite my age (30). LOL

I don't think we should be taking advice from someone who believe that astrology is a real thing.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Haha, I believe in some of it, bits and pieces, here and there. However, one thing is true to my Aries sun sign, I am DIRECT and NO NONSENSE.

Regardless of how it relates to the sun sign.

Post a pic

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Lol, I have done that on other forums, lord have mercy! Never again. You will just have to wonder.

Plus, I am not here for validation, about my looks or anything else, I am here to share my thoughts and opinions. That's all.

What happened when you did it on other forums?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I got bombarded with messages from men wanting to chat with me, date me, sext with me, you name it. Stalked, harassed. Not PUA forums, just regular advice forums.

Never again, it's not my style anyway. Like I said, I am not here (or anywhere) seeking validation.

Truth.

Ok. Well the other female on this forum has a picture of herself on her profile and that doesn't happen to her. Just saying...

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

My physical appearance is irrelevant.

I wonder what the guys on here think of this statement. Do you all think her appearance is irrelevant to her advice?

 

[TheProspect]

I wonder what the guys on here think of this statement. Do you all think her appearance is irrelevant to her advice?

I think you endlessly attempting to get a pic of her is irrelevant to the thread.

I am not here to find a "boyfriend," I am here to post my thoughts. lol

Cool, keep them on topic going forward.



Thread has been derailed, and quite frankly, turned a little weird. Closed.