actually velasco is a cool guyDon't mansplain for BeExcellent. She doesn't need to male translator to get her point across, especially not a giant chad like you ;-)
I can vouch for him
actually velasco is a cool guyDon't mansplain for BeExcellent. She doesn't need to male translator to get her point across, especially not a giant chad like you ;-)
well velasco is a little bit of a d1ckhead himself , and sometimes wants to disagree with you for no reasonYou're both cool guys. Stop being so sensitive men. For fvck sake. Frame!
Didn't see this post until now but dude, what you did here was powerful. You were purely honest with the fact that you're getting pvssy aside from her and she tried to verbally retaliate with telling you that she banged someone two days ago. You saw it for what it was and said it was totally fine because you two are not exclusive. She probably went to the bathroom and rethought about what you said to her and your honesty aroused her.Last night I met a woman for some drinks. We hadn’t hung out in 2.5 weeks or so. We went back to her place and she proceeded to want to know why I hadn’t texted her in that time. I said we had texted and she said “yeah because I reached out.” Then she wanted to know if I was sleeping with other women. I said I was. She then told me she had slept with someone two days prior. I said “ok - we aren’t exclusive so no big deal.” She then got really sh1tty and wanted to know “how many” I had slept with. I told her I slept with two different people in that timeframe. She then started going on and on about how she wasn’t going to sleep with a “wh0re” so if that’s what I wanted then she couldn’t see me anymore. I said “that’s fine - but I am not ready to exclusive with anyone. So if we’re done that’s OK.” She said “I don’t know I’m going to think about it.”
Then she went to the bathroom and came back and her entire demeanor was different. Suddenly she was feeling me up and was definitely DTF. However, I was completely turned off at that point. I told her it was late and I was going to be getting back. So I got up and left. She was stunned I was leaving I think. I think the plate is broken.
Maybe dumb since I could still sleep with her if I hadn’t left. It’s just exhausting having to even deal with that sh1t. Are you other DJs just not honest about seeing others and give the impression you’re only seeing them when this happens? I don’t have the energy for it.
I am the same , just that as I got older , instead of arguing with people I will start ignoring them , or just make sarcastic commentsBeing a bit of a disagreeable d1ckhead is actually very masculine in the eyes of women. So, I can believe it helps Velasco get laid. Being agreeable is a feminine and submissive trait.
If you think I'm bad, you should see my younger brother. He is the most disagreeable a$$hole I've ever met. It's extremely annoying. He also gets more female attention than anyone I know. I actually think he's way over-calibrated and it comes across very badly, but women seem to love it so I just can't deny this reality.
He's like the classic AMOG who will just walk around arguing with and shaming guys for no reason other than to assert his dominance, and then try to fvck their girlfriends. He's a monster. He even tried to fvck my ex-girlfriend (I don't know if he succeeded, and I don't want to know - she told me he attempted it and failed, but we all know women edit reality). Basically, he's a giant prick. Haha. But, you know, family. Can't choose em. I still love him.
usually women say this kind of things out of spite and ego . More or less they do it to get a reactionDidn't see this post until now but dude, what you did here was powerful. You were purely honest with the fact that you're getting pvssy aside from her and she tried to verbally retaliate with telling you that she banged someone two days ago. You saw it for what it was and said it was totally fine because you two are not exclusive. She probably went to the bathroom and rethought about what you said to her and your honesty aroused her.
I actually have not heard from her for the last couple of days -- but I don't care. I have dates lined up for Thursday and Friday already with two women who are hotter than (and not as manipulative as) she is. Her behavior was a huge turnoff to me and I don't plan to reach out to her again. If she reached out to me I would want an apology before we hung out again. I completely understand that she isn't going to apologize and that is perfectly fine. On to the next.Didn't see this post until now but dude, what you did here was powerful. You were purely honest with the fact that you're getting pvssy aside from her and she tried to verbally retaliate with telling you that she banged someone two days ago. You saw it for what it was and said it was totally fine because you two are not exclusive. She probably went to the bathroom and rethought about what you said to her and your honesty aroused her.
Women want a Man that have OTHER Women. So what your attitude was essentially telling her is that "Yes, I am fcvking other Women and if you don't like it... no worries.. you can just leave" however she DIDNT leave and desired you to fvck her more. I know how powerful this is because ive experience it many times myself. Women sexually desire a Man when his attitude says "Sure I enjoy your pvssy but I absolutely dont need your pvssy" <--- Very powerful attitude to have.
what should she apologize for? for being born a girl? as you say these new girls you have lined up are not as manipulative as this girl (how do you know this for certain if you have not hung out with them as long as this girl?). "not as" -> still indicates the behavior is still there (manipulative). so you say as soon as these new girls do something manipulative, you will drop them too?I actually have not heard from her for the last couple of days -- but I don't care. I have dates lined up for Thursday and Friday already with two women who are hotter than (and not as manipulative as) she is. Her behavior was a huge turnoff to me and I don't plan to reach out to her again. If she reached out to me I would want an apology before we hung out again. I completely understand that she isn't going to apologize and that is perfectly fine. On to the next.
it's just their nature.I also don't just throw in the towel after one or two minor issues. I mean what should I have done,go....."You want your son to come? Forget it...I'm not interested. Good luck,hope everything works out for you"....?
If people just gave up on others the first time an issue arised,no one would be dating.
I know you keep trying to challenge how I handled this - I simply don't agree with your mindset. If you want to put up with that type of behavior for some pVssy then knock yourself out. It isn't for me. And to answer your question, if these other girls do something I am not OK with, yes I will drop them. It is just as I told @Pan87 - I understand that this overall lessens the amount of vagina I am going to get - but I just don't have the time or energy to put up with this from a plate.what should she apologize for? for being born a girl? as you say these new girls you have lined up are not as manipulative as this girl (how do you know this for certain if you have not hung out with them as long as this girl?). "not as" -> still indicates the behavior is still there (manipulative). so you say as soon as these new girls do something manipulative, you will drop them too?
as igetit said in a recent thread,
it's just their nature.
if you are genuinely tired of bullsh1t from women then kudos to youI know you keep trying to challenge how I handled this - I simply don't agree with your mindset. If you want to put up with that type of behavior for some pVssy then knock yourself out. It isn't for me. And to answer your question, if these other girls do something I am not OK with, yes I will drop them. It is just as I told @Pan87 - I understand that this overall lessens the amount of vagina I am going to get - but I just don't have the time or energy to put up with this from a plate.
You can keep trying to poke holes in what I did but I really don't care. We will just agree to disagree.
Unfortunately, I feel like a lot of threads end up just being who can beat their chest the hardest behind their keyboards.Dang. Guys are still challenging you on this.
A lot of insecurity hanging around this thread.
@Bigpapa - come on brother. Nothing in any of my posts should make you think that this chick wounded my ego and I am trying to cover for that. If that was the case why would I even post it on here? It's just sh1t I am not going to put up with from a plate. It's tiresome (and I have rarely had this kind of situation with the negative reaction) so I was curious what others' opinions were.if you are genuinely tired of bullsh1t from women then kudos to you
but if you are actually feel disrespected or felt that she wounded your ego , and trying to reframe it as this , then it is not cool . You are only lying to yourself
I was just saying that 1 thing is cool , the other not , not implying anything@Bigpapa - come on brother. Nothing in any of my posts should make you think that this chick wounded my ego and I am trying to cover for that. If that was the case why would I even post it on here? It's just sh1t I am not going to put up with from a plate. It's tiresome (and I have rarely had this kind of situation with the negative reaction) so I was curious what others' opinions were.
This mindset is the difference between Happiness and Suffering for a guy. Congrats bro!I actually have not heard from her for the last couple of days -- but I don't care. I have dates lined up for Thursday and Friday already with two women who are hotter than (and not as manipulative as) she is. Her behavior was a huge turnoff to me and I don't plan to reach out to her again. If she reached out to me I would want an apology before we hung out again. I completely understand that she isn't going to apologize and that is perfectly fine. On to the next.
So just say the truth?I make a distinction.
A playboy is a man who openly spins plates and makes no bones about it.
A player on the other hand uses deception and tap dancing or other lack of disclosure to play women by letting them think things are different than they actually are. Players dupe women to one degree or another because they think deception is necessary to keep the woman engaged.
A playboy realizes deception is not necessary and in fact can be adverse.
Both types end up hurting women but the mechanics are different. Players hurt women worse in my view because the premise of the interaction is an illusion. With playboys it is the women who decieve themselves...and get hurt in the process.
I’m neutral about the getting hurt part, by the way. People get hurt all the time in dating dynamics, so my comments are not meant to cast bad juju on men regarding women who get hurt.
Playboys are unapologetic and in my experience are without exception more mature and more secure than players.
"You should confess your inner feeling to her. Girls love it when men be emotional and not afraid to show their vulnerable side."Buddy of mine: I'm not sure what to do about this girl.
Me: I would just tell her how you feel.
* competition control * -
Depends on your style and your comfort level in how you conduct your business. My post that you quoted cites the difference between a playboy and a player. Some men find transparency to be more congruent with how they handle non-exclusive dating situations, some men think a “don’t ask/don’t tell” policy is best, some outright lie or deflect or obfuscate how they operate.So just say the truth?
But the other guys thing about mystery and connecting the dots made me feel something. Im confused now?
Your mistake was having a frank conversation with her. Women are just not capable of having completely frank conversations on this particular subject matter. I mean, she called you a “wh*re” for sleeping with someone else even though she did the very same thing herself. You should have told her that because the two of you are not exclusive, it’s none of her business. This would have avoided much unnecessary awkwardness.Last night I met a woman for some drinks. We hadn’t hung out in 2.5 weeks or so. We went back to her place and she proceeded to want to know why I hadn’t texted her in that time. I said we had texted and she said “yeah because I reached out.” Then she wanted to know if I was sleeping with other women. I said I was. She then told me she had slept with someone two days prior. I said “ok - we aren’t exclusive so no big deal.” She then got really sh1tty and wanted to know “how many” I had slept with. I told her I slept with two different people in that timeframe. She then started going on and on about how she wasn’t going to sleep with a “wh0re” so if that’s what I wanted then she couldn’t see me anymore. I said “that’s fine - but I am not ready to exclusive with anyone. So if we’re done that’s OK.” She said “I don’t know I’m going to think about it.”
Then she went to the bathroom and came back and her entire demeanor was different. Suddenly she was feeling me up and was definitely DTF. However, I was completely turned off at that point. I told her it was late and I was going to be getting back. So I got up and left. She was stunned I was leaving I think. I think the plate is broken.
Maybe dumb since I could still sleep with her if I hadn’t left. It’s just exhausting having to even deal with that sh1t. Are you other DJs just not honest about seeing others and give the impression you’re only seeing them when this happens? I don’t have the energy for it.
This is the most anti-game advice I’ve ever read. Women prefer deception, even if they will never admit it. This is especially true of women you’re seeing casually. They know that you’re probably sleeping with other women but they don’t need to hear it directly.I always prefer the truth, however distasteful I might find it, because it is better than deception.