99% of men are invisible to women

[MoMoses]

I saw a tik tok video of a woman saying that men had it easier in dating because they had so many more options and the ability to pursue them while a girl has to wait to be pursued . This doesn't make any sense if you envision all guys, but if you look at it through the NFL football player that broker her heart by playing her then it all makes sense lol.

This is same reason why taking love advice from a woman is shiit advice.

She will think about that 1% man when giving you advice...

"Tell her how you feel", "send her a letter", "take her out to an expensive dinner", "buy her flowers", "tell her she is the most beautiful woman you have ever met", and others sorts of verbal crap.

She gives you this advice because this is how she would like that unreachable, unavailable high value man to treat her and suddenly shower her with his love. This is what she's been dreaming of..

Little does she know that this would in fact turn her off and take away the challenge. The dude she wants is so attractive because he doesn't do what she desires.

 

[MoMoses]

Men who wear flip flops or sandals out and about....

... are a tell tale sign they have given up on life

 

[bat soup]

Another example: All guys want to do is just have sex and play video games....This tranlates to all my ex wanted to do was have sex and play video games lol

What's wrong with that? Sounds like a good plan for this evening. I think it's women's fault for not liking sex enough and not appreciating the greatness of Battlefield V.

 

[bat soup]

This is same reason why taking love advice from a woman is shiit advice.

She will think about that 1% man when giving you advice...

"Tell her how you feel", "send her a letter", "take her out to an expensive dinner", "buy her flowers", "tell her she is the most beautiful woman you have ever met", and others sorts of verbal crap.

She gives you this advice because this is how she would like that unreachable, unavailable high value man to treat her and suddenly shower her with his love. This is what she's been dreaming of..

Little does she know that this would in fact turn her off and take away the challenge. The dude she wants is so attractive because he doesn't do what she desires.

All of female advice translates into "do things that benefit women, but don't you dare expect her to do anything for you in return"

 

[corrector]

That’s only if you’re Chad. Joe Normal will be called a creep for trying this. I’ve seen it.

I personally have never seen this happen with me when I tried out that exercise, but that was just under 20 years ago when I was quite younger. Back in 2003, I read this book called "How to Succeed with Women" that suggested that type of exercise. It was interesting at the time, but I don't think you get strong negative reactions from that approach. At best, the women would just ignore you or pretend she didn't hear your "coughed" hi.

 

[bat soup]

It's not so bad being invisible. If you don't believe me, just type "time stop japan invisible man" into Google.

 

[Robert28]

I personally have never seen this happen with me when I tried out that exercise, but that was just under 20 years ago when I was quite younger. Back in 2003, I read this book called "How to Succeed with Women" that suggested that type of exercise. It was interesting at the time, but I don't think you get strong negative reactions from that approach. At best, the women would just ignore you or pretend she didn't hear your "coughed" hi.

Dating has changed a ton since 20 years ago. It’s changed a ton since 5 years ago. Women are more closed off today than ever before, yet still complain guys don’t talk to them and they don’t understand why.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Dating has changed a ton since 20 years ago. It’s changed a ton since 5 years ago. Women are more closed off today than ever before, yet still complain guys don’t talk to them and they don’t understand why.

They are complaining about the 1% of dudes that they find attractive that don't talk to them. Any guy that doesn't resemble Prince Harry is completely invisible to her.

 

[Mike32ct]

Without smartphones to entertain them, women were bored and thus appreciated cold approach back in the day.

Even a chick that wasn’t necessarily attracted to you would still talk to you. So it was easy for PUAs to practice.

 

[Velasco]

Hard to believe we even complained back then

that's the thing. In 2026, we are going to complain about how entitled bitches are today and how we didn't even know how good we had it in 2021 (post-scamdemic).

the complaining is constant.

 

[Velasco]

Any guy that doesn't resemble Prince Harry is completely invisible to her.

and if she doesn't like pale gringos and prefers men with more dark Mediterranean features? y'all need to chill tbh haha

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is same reason why taking love advice from a woman is shiit advice.

She will think about that 1% man when giving you advice...

"Tell her how you feel", "send her a letter", "take her out to an expensive dinner", "buy her flowers", "tell her she is the most beautiful woman you have ever met", and others sorts of verbal crap.

She gives you this advice because this is how she would like that unreachable, unavailable high value man to treat her and suddenly shower her with his love. This is what she's been dreaming of..

Little does she know that this would in fact turn her off and take away the challenge. The dude she wants is so attractive because he doesn't do what she desires.

Don't agree 100%, but that's the beauty of the forum. It's not that kindness and good treatment isn't attractive at all to her. It's not that it doesn't feel good, because it feels great. It's that she prefers that these unavailable men who aren't as attracted to her would do some of these things for her. These men are difficult, because they are extremely selfish. The women get attracted to the challenge of making him give her love.

The other men that she dates will do these things, but it's not who she really wants to do it, and these guys lose attractiveness over time, if they came to her with any amount of attractiveness or swag, because she is not VALUING his actions towards her. These men are "easy" ( in her mind ), because they are available and they treat her great without her valuing them first.

Had the guy who doesn't think about her made these actions she would value them. She would be smitten.

I'm not sure any woman except dysfunctional ones really LIKE being treated like sh1t and like they don't matter.

 

[Rainman4707]

When women complain about men in general, to avoid saying wtf out loud or confusion just understand that she is talking about the top 1% of men that she finds attractive. Usually all men means her ex tbh. I saw a tik tok video of a woman saying that men had it easier in dating because they had so many more options and the ability to pursue them while a girl has to wait to be pursued . This doesn't make any sense if you envision all guys, but if you look at it through the NFL football player that broker her heart by playing her then it all makes sense lol.

Another example: All guys want to do is just have sex and play video games....This translates to all my ex wanted to do was have sex and play video games lol

Yeah, i agree. Tomi lahren done a video on this.
You are right on saying imagine being a guy with a billion dollars and game. Imagine your mentality. You would probably have loads of girls wanting you. Abundance mentality.

I've been sleeping with a woman the last couple weeks. My confidence has skyrocketed. After sleeping with a hot woman..your body language is different and women notice this.
You are'nt as desperate.

My attraction score went up due to being around a sexy alluring WOMAN. Before, yes i had standards, but no plates and no sexy alluring woman for months.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

that's the thing. In 2026, we are going to complain about how entitled bitches are today and how we didn't even know how good we had it in 2021 (post-scamdemic).

the complaining is constant.

That's going to be TERRIBLE!!!!

and if she doesn't like pale gringos and prefers men with more dark Mediterranean features? y'all need to chill tbh haha

Yep!! They all have their preference, and you can be a fine well put together man outside of her natural inclination and it doesn't help you with that particular babe.

 

[characternote]

thing is, Chad = guy she's attracted to.
to these girls u were their Chad

Joe Normal in this instance = guy she's not attracted to.

so of course, 'guy she's not attracted to' will creep her out.

If she's not attracted to (or sexually available to) the guy you normally think of as Chad (6'3 traditionally good looking white guy) then HE is Joe Normal to her (which might be completely outside of your reality if you've never been in the same venue as someone that fits that description, get shut down and instead rely on incel youtube videos as your reference material).

Pretty sure i'm with Velasco on this (If I understood correctly)

I'm the most redpilled fukker there is when it comes to looks having digested years of PUA stuff and also gamed with some really handsome dudes. I feel like I speak from good experience and i've believed both sides of the coin at one point, but settled where I have - I'm WELL aware that it (attraction) is basically all about looks.

Having said that, i'm also aware that girls really do have differring tastes (a bit like that twitter post quoted above)

I used to work with lots of girls in an office and they spend all day browing insta and checking out various hot guys etc. Even sometimes Dming' them (something PUA's claim would never happen lol)
However, one of the girls (actually the hottest one) would always pick guys that the other girls weren't into ''You like HIM!!!??? He looks old and skinny!!'' or whatever.

It's partly why I got a bit disilusioned about game at one point and realised that the only true 'game' was in fact 'numbers game!'. E.g - you have zero influence or control when you are gaming. And almost anything will work if she's physically attracted and nothing will work if she's not. And it also explained why someone like Tyler could occassionally pull a hot girl. He got rejected a tonne (and admitted it!) but when he pulled a hot girl, youtube was like 'See what game can Do!!!? Looks don't matter!! etc. But due to what I said above, I know that it was likely a case of that girl just thinking he was kinda cute. Believe it or not, some girls think skinny ginger guys with blue eyes and beards are hot (I know he's a fatass now but whatever)

I'm not good looking, but i've had a few fukking lottery wins at this point and pulled girls that my friends kinda teased me about i.e - 'How the hell did YOU pull her!!!??? She's half your age you ugly old b@astard!'' (us brits are kinda mean to our mates lol)

But I wasn't pattig myself on the back or credtied my NLP verbals and embedded comands. It was because I stumbled upon a cute girl, way too young and hot for me, who happened to like how I look! She was attracted (and I bet NONE of her friends were lol). And I had enough 'game' to not completely **** it up (because that's honestly what i've come to realise 'game' is lol)

 

[MoMoses]

that's the thing. In 2026, we are going to complain about how entitled bitches are today and how we didn't even know how good we had it in 2021 (post-scamdemic).

I think we all are going to have a really, really good time once social life returns to normal. These last few weeks I took several girls on a date in the park (lame, but that's all I can do now that everything is closed and you're even obliged to wear a face mask in public) and those girls all turned out to be more horny than usual. Slept with every single one of them on the first date and no.. I'm not that kind of amazing DJ.

Can't wait for the clubs, bars, restaurants, fitness centra, festivals, museums, theaters, movies, etc to re-open... all those fine places to meet women who have been starved of human touch for months now, some even an entire year. The last two girls I had even claimed they hadn't kissed a man in over a year, let alone sleep with one. I believe them.

Some of you don't know how good you're having it right now. People like myself are living in a closed society because of this virus. Everything is closed except for supermarkets and pharmacies. It's been like this for 9 out of the last 12 months. If Satan exists that coronavirus is his favorite pet animal.

 

[characternote]

...called a creep for saying Hi to a girl? Not hardly,

I’ve seen it happen. The guy walked up to the girl and said “hey how are you” and she literally said “eww honey, no”. They say worse behind your back to their friends, trust me.

Yep, happens
I've even seen an infeild with 'Vadeem' from honest signals where he opens and she's like 'Go away. YOu're ugly!' lol. (And he has good game so it wasn't like he was creepy at a guess)

 

[MoMoses]

Don't agree 100%, but that's the beauty of the forum. It's not that kindness and good treatment isn't attractive at all to her. It's not that it doesn't feel good, because it feels great. It's that she prefers that these unavailable men who aren't as attracted to her would do some of these things for her. These men are difficult, because they are extremely selfish. The women get attracted to the challenge of making him give her love.

I stand corrected! You explained it better like this. I completely agree with you

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Some of you don't know how good you're having it right now. People like myself are living in a closed society because of this virus. Everything is closed except for supermarkets and pharmacies. It's been like this for 9 out of the last 12 months. If Satan exists that coronavirus is his favorite pet animal.
[/QUOTE]

Ouch. I’m bitching about here in Cali with clubs and bars being closed. Most everything else here is open. I think I’d have gone nuts if only supermarkets & pharmacies were open.

 

[MoMoses]

Yep, happens
I've even seen an infeild with 'Vadeem' from honest signals where he opens and she's like 'Go away. YOu're ugly!' lol. (And he has good game so it wasn't like he was creepy at a guess)

Worst appoaches I ever had..

I walked up to a girl and said "Hi, what's your name?"

- A girl didn't say anything, gave me a middle finger and walked off. Guess she had a bad day. No big deal
- Another girl said "what makes you think I wanna talk to you?"... I thanked her for being so upfront and walked off. No big deal

But by far the worst. The mother of all failed approaches was this one:

I walked up to this cute brunette, approached her from behind (which is a big no-no btw), tapped her shoulder and said, "Hi my name is M, what's your name?"

She turned around and in the deepest voice possible.. "My name is Karl"

It was a dude...

I wanted to dig a hole in the ground and just chill in there for the next 10 years