99% of men are invisible to women

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When women complain about men in general, to avoid saying wtf out loud or confusion just understand that she is talking about the top 1% of men that she finds attractive. Usually all men means her ex tbh. I saw a tik tok video of a woman saying that men had it easier in dating because they had so many more options and the ability to pursue them while a girl has to wait to be pursued . This doesn't make any sense if you envision all guys, but if you look at it through the NFL football player that broker her heart by playing her then it all makes sense lol.

Another example: All guys want to do is just have sex and play video games....This translates to all my ex wanted to do was have sex and play video games lol
 

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Most men are invisible to women because

a) they don't know how to dress
2) they don't workout
3) they end up asking a woman 'interview' questions when they meet her
Exactly, most men who fix these 3 things go right up to the top 20%. The bar really isn't as high as some guys think
 
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I get the point, and I agree...but all men need to take showers, hit the gym, and learn to dress well.

A man who knows how to dress well and smell nice is ALLLLLLLready way ahead of 80% of the male population.
but women only care about the 1% lol
 

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the number one way to improve attractability to women is to say high and talk to them.
 

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I don’t know what category I fit in to. Some days I’m invisible to women, some days I have married chicks striking up conversations with me and asking me very personal questions (maybe they’re bored but why ask me what I do, how much I make, if I have kids, etc?), some times I’ll meet several women in a row and can’t do anything wrong. Then it’s back to being invisible for awhile again. Lol
 

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That’s only if you’re Chad. Joe Normal will be called a creep for trying this. I’ve seen it.
thing is, Chad = guy she's attracted to.
to these girls u were their Chad
some times I’ll meet several women in a row and can’t do anything wrong.
Joe Normal in this instance = guy she's not attracted to.

so of course, 'guy she's not attracted to' will creep her out.

If she's not attracted to (or sexually available to) the guy you normally think of as Chad (6'3 traditionally good looking white guy) then HE is Joe Normal to her (which might be completely outside of your reality if you've never been in the same venue as someone that fits that description, get shut down and instead rely on incel youtube videos as your reference material).
 

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thing is, Chad = guy she's attracted to.
to these girls u were their Chad

Joe Normal in this instance = guy she's not attracted to.

so of course, 'guy she's not attracted to' will creep her out.

If she's not attracted to (or sexually available to) the guy you normally think of as Chad (6'3 traditionally good looking white guy) then HE is Joe Normal to her (which might be completely outside of your reality if you've never been in the same venue as someone that fits that description, get shut down and instead rely on incel youtube videos as your reference material).
I honestly don’t even bother 90% of the time. Can’t get rejected if you keep to yourself. Can’t be called a creep either, don’t have to worry about if she finds me Chadly or not, I’m just there minding my own business getting my coffee and going on my way. The girl that always serves me is always super chatty with me though, I just chalk it up to that’s her job. She’s covered in tattoos and has that feminist look, I’m definitely not her type and I’m smart enough to know that. She still talks my ear off though so I just roll with it.
 
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Guys have a universal attraction and a much broader preference. For example, I'm the most attracted to Indian/Middle Eastern girls but the girl I'm talking to is blonde lol. Women don't care on the other hand. You can be 6ft 4 chizzled good looking black nfl player, but if the girl only likes guys that look like Prince Harry that loves the Buffalo Bills then you are just a Joe to her. This is why you see women with guys below her in looks because that guy passed her type criteria.
 
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...called a creep for saying Hi to a girl? Not hardly,
I’ve seen it happen. The guy walked up to the girl and said “hey how are you” and she literally said “eww honey, no”. They say worse behind your back to their friends, trust me.
 

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I don’t know what category I fit in to. Some days I’m invisible to women, some days I have married chicks striking up conversations with me and asking me very personal questions (maybe they’re bored but why ask me what I do, how much I make, if I have kids, etc?), some times I’ll meet several women in a row and can’t do anything wrong. Then it’s back to being invisible for awhile again. Lol
They get you swagged up.
 

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That’s only if you’re Chad. Joe Normal will be called a creep for trying this. I’ve seen it.
depends on what the conversation is. and yes, sometimes it does go the creeping way. I still think it is the best path. it can be interesting to learn about the high value another has of us, way above what we think of ourselves sometimes. I have been given the kreep look a few times. but I have given it also in the past when some women would approach me, that was silly of me.

also, all the women that we sort of know, but not really that much.
 

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...and #4 - take a shower.

You're right. It's really not difficult at all to become a top 10% male.
My troll sense is tingling about your posts in general and in this thread in particular, it seems you're doing the equivalent of trolling a black pill comment section. Do you really think taking showers, wearing clothes and deodorant, and not being out of shape makes you a 10% male? Or that somehow she will want to fvck you because you are not wearing flip flops?
 
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