Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

[sangheilios]

Did you use one because you were worried about COVID and panic-bought at the last minute before the virus hit?

No, me seeing one had absolutely nothing to do with COVID.

 

[john1234]

Prostitutes or what ever are a mugs game.

Men who use them often spend in excess of £7000 plus a year. After 10 years that's big money spent.

 

[OldComeBacker]

What's the honor or pride for ****ing a escort?

There's no honor or pride in getting most women. You can tell yourself you accomplished something by "conquering" some chick who's probably banged all kinds of random losers. Or you can be honest about it.

 

[isasda66]

Prostitutes or what ever are a mugs game.

Men who use them often spend in excess of £7000 plus a year. After 10 years that's big money spent.

http://libertychat.com/2014/11/economist-prostitutes-cheaper-wives-20-years/

Matthew Barnes of the University of Chicago says it's pricier by a factor of 10 for men to get sex regularly through marriage than to hire a prostitute

 

[christie]

http://libertychat.com/2014/11/economist-prostitutes-cheaper-wives-20-years/

I wish more studies like this can be done.

I wonder why men don't fulfill their dualistic mating strategy of
main home lay with limitless side lays
by making a 'ho a housewife" so that although she used to be a hooker, she is his wife now that has total acceptance of his mating strategy.

Less divorce! as long as he is fulfilling her dualistic mating strategy of being her alpha lover and beta bucks provider.

Maybe that is what we're seeing in 2021.
Men choosing from 'hookers' that don't actually have physical sex(the webcam and porn sites, the softcore insta pics and other social media pics)
But these women are still divorcing, aren't they?

Men could be getting actual sex from hookers and the conquest urge that will come from turning a hooker into a loyal housewife. Men have to train women anyways....

 

[bat soup]

Dude that's the truth. Let me tell you a beta ignorant story about me back in the day. I was on a business trip for my work helping out with a trade show in Vegas. I was 25 and it was my first escort I had experience with. I booked it online.

When she came to my door, she looked 10+ years older than her pics, she looked worse in person, had leathery tan skin. Looked busted in the face from partying, drinking, doing drugs for years.

She wanted money up front. She knew how to squeeze her pvssy muscles tight so the guy would cvm fast. I came in like 5 min and she didn't offer repeats. So I think I blew $350 for 5 min of terrible sex.

Of course she rushed the session and after I nutted, she was out of there. LOL

Friggin loser of the year award goes to me right there. I did everything wrong. haha.
Thought some would get a laugh out of it.

That's exactly what I mean. I've had better experiences than that for 20$. Actually I think that those that ask for lots of money are just more greedy. The woman that charges £400 is just as much a prostitute as the one that charges £20. A high price guarantees her greed, nothing else.

 

[corrector]

That's exactly what I mean. I've had better experiences than that for 20$.

You didn't feel guilty about using a girl for just $ 20? If someone is charging that low then something has to be up with the set-up. Like they are being kept as a sex slave or something.

 

[bat soup]

You didn't feel guilty about using a girl for just $ 20? If someone is charging that low then something has to be up with the set-up. Like they are being kept as a sex slave or something.

That's the going rate in Athens. They do volume, so presumably earn over 200$ per day.

 

[corrector]

That's the going rate in Athens. They do volume, so presumably earn over 200$ per day.

This is first time Greece hit the map as a sex tour destination. But every country has a sex trafficking problem. Did the girls look local or did they look Eastern European or Asian?

 

[Xenom0rph]

Buddy boyos, while y'all sit around wondering "Should I text her back?", "How should I approach this girl?", "Should I wait 2 days or 3 days before calling her?", "Where should I take her if she says yes?" I'll be heading out to a nice little spot tonight to visit a very nice gal who lists her profession as "companionship counselor"............ if you smell what the Rock is cooking....

We're living in the year 2021, you boyos who waste your time practicing "game" are behaving like the court jesters of Medieval Europe - all you're doing is making a fool of yourself for the entertainment of others. And maybe, MAYBE if she's feeling generous and if you've made a big enough fool of yourself she MIGHT give you a handj0b.....

What the h3ll kind of man begs for scraps like that?

 

[Aeterna]

Buddy boyos, while y'all sit around wondering "Should I text her back?", "How should I approach this girl?", "Should I wait 2 days or 3 days before calling her?", "Where should I take her if she says yes?" I'll be heading out to a nice little spot tonight to visit a very nice gal who lists her profession as "companionship counselor"............ if you smell what the Rock is cooking....

We're living in the year 2021, you boyos who waste your time practicing "game" are behaving like the court jesters of Medieval Europe - all you're doing is making a fool of yourself for the entertainment of others. And maybe, MAYBE if she's feeling generous and if you've made a big enough fool of yourself she MIGHT give you a handj0b.....

What the h3ll kind of man begs for scraps like that?

I still can’t for the life of me understand how guys still believe in “text game” and go on dates in the year 2021, especially women from Tinder.

I find nothing more emasculating than going on a date with woman whether it be in a park, coffee shop, or bar knowing that I just want to have sex with her.

On OLD, I try to get the number within 2 messages and then invite them over for wine and a movie through a voice note.

 

[Xenom0rph]

So I just finished my therapy session with my Companionship Counselor.... total cost for the session was $140....

She shared with me her wisdom about how a man and a woman should interact with each other for a healthy relationship.....

Was there emotion involved?......nope...
Is she attracted to me?.... who cares....
Was there chemistry?..... "chemistry" is nothing more than a dopamine rush, no different than eating a cartoon of ice cream....

My thirst has been quenched..... which means I won't feel the need to degrade myself begging for attention from THOTs on Instagram or at the gym.....

 

[darksprezzatura]

I dont judge a dude paying to get laid.

Probably more time and cost efficient + stress free.

I'm just wary about STDs.

 

[Xenom0rph]

Buddy boyos, it's 3:13AM right now in SoCal.... I just got back from the drive thru at local joint I like to get late night snacks from...

Every time I go there's a late 30s woman working the drive thru. We never say anything to each other except for taking the order and making the payment.

But tonight she decided to get fresh with me and said "You're looking happy tonight." I'm wearing a mask, so I don't know how she could tell whether I'm happy or mellow or sad or whatever....

I'm cordial and polite with her as I usually always am in my day-to-day interactions. We exchanged pleasantries and chit chatted a little bit about the weather.

She finished the conversation with "Here you go (handing me my order), honey. Would you like anything else? Can I get you anything else?" while nonchalantly sticking her chest in my face and locking her eyes on me (I'm in a truck, so I'm basically right next to the window).

I declined and she finished with "Okay, maybe I'll see you again tomorrow night."

So why am I telling you this? What's the point of this story?

The point is that women can detect when a man has just had female contact. And if they detect that a guy is getting po0n on the regular, if they detect that he lacks thirst, they go out of their way to be extra flirtatious with him.

How can they tell? I have no idea, but trust me, they just know......they're intuitive creatures.

It's like the old saying "money attracts money."...... sex attracts sex...

 

[bat soup]

Buddy boyos, it's 3:13AM right now in SoCal.... I just got back from the drive thru at local joint I like to get late night snacks from...

Every time I go there's a late 30s woman working the drive thru. We never say anything to each other except for taking the order and making the payment.

But tonight she decided to get fresh with me and said "You're looking happy tonight." I'm wearing a mask, so I don't know how she could tell whether I'm happy or mellow or sad or whatever....

I'm cordial and polite with her as I usually always am in my day-to-day interactions. We exchanged pleasantries and chit chatted a little bit about the weather.

She finished the conversation with "Here you go (handing me my order), honey. Would you like anything else? Can I get you anything else?" while nonchalantly sticking her chest in my face and locking her eyes on me (I'm in a truck, so I'm basically right next to the window).

I declined and she finished with "Okay, maybe I'll see you again tomorrow night."

So why am I telling you this? What's the point of this story?

The point is that women can detect when a man has just had female contact. And if they detect that a guy is getting po0n on the regular, if they detect that he lacks thirst, they go out of their way to be extra flirtatious with him.

How can they tell? I have no idea, but trust me, they just know......they're intuitive creatures.

It's like the old saying "money attracts money."...... sex attracts sex...

Reminds me of a dentist that shoved her breast in my face whilst working on me.

 

[john1234]

http://libertychat.com/2014/11/economist-prostitutes-cheaper-wives-20-years/

You are seriously mistaken.

My ex girlfriends all spend thier money on me, they have bought me stuff and made me save so much over the years, thousands I've saved with my ex. one bought me a nice watch and paid for holidays. Don't know what mug wrote that.

This recent girl I'm dating spend £100 on Christmas presents no prossie is doing that.

 

[Lookatu]

You are seriously mistaken.

My ex girlfriends all spend thier money on me, they have bought me stuff and made me save so much over the years, thousands I've saved with my ex. one bought me a nice watch and paid for holidays. Don't know what mug wrote that.

This recent girl I'm dating spend £100 on Christmas presents no prossie is doing that.

The article title is about wives, NOT girlfriends. BIG difference there.

From your track record, don't ever get married or else you'll get taken to the cleaners.

 

[john1234]

The article is weak.
Most men nowadays spend on average £3,000 a month on prossies, taking loans and so on to pay them. Some spend less.


It is not unusual for a man who uses prossies to spend 30k a year cash! On prossies. They are addicted to it and consequently, cannot have a relationship with one woman because they are used to smashing many women without any effort. Some do not even pay thier essentials. After 20 years that's a whopping £600k spent on *****s.

On average a man will want to smash at least 2 times within the week, now @ £200 a pop for 1hour each time is a mugs game!

A proper wife, can give you family and so much more.

 

[Mike32ct]

Buddy boyos, it's 3:13AM right now in SoCal.... I just got back from the drive thru at local joint I like to get late night snacks from...

Every time I go there's a late 30s woman working the drive thru. We never say anything to each other except for taking the order and making the payment.

But tonight she decided to get fresh with me and said "You're looking happy tonight." I'm wearing a mask, so I don't know how she could tell whether I'm happy or mellow or sad or whatever....

I'm cordial and polite with her as I usually always am in my day-to-day interactions. We exchanged pleasantries and chit chatted a little bit about the weather.

She finished the conversation with "Here you go (handing me my order), honey. Would you like anything else? Can I get you anything else?" while nonchalantly sticking her chest in my face and locking her eyes on me (I'm in a truck, so I'm basically right next to the window).

I declined and she finished with "Okay, maybe I'll see you again tomorrow night."

So why am I telling you this? What's the point of this story?

The point is that women can detect when a man has just had female contact. And if they detect that a guy is getting po0n on the regular, if they detect that he lacks thirst, they go out of their way to be extra flirtatious with him.

How can they tell? I have no idea, but trust me, they just know......they're intuitive creatures.

It's like the old saying "money attracts money."...... sex attracts sex...

Actually people can still notice smiles when you are wearing a mask. They can see the subtle “crinkle” around your eyes caused by the smile.

 

[john1234]

The article title is about wives, NOT girlfriends. BIG difference there.

From your track record, don't ever get married or else you'll get taken to the cleaners.

Yes, I'm not due to get married for a while, my family that are married, all the women do crazy **** for the men, send them big money as support sometimes.

Smashing prossies is a mugs game, particularly if you use them often. One offs to be could be ok.