Then things are clear and you know how to respond to what she saidguess it threw me saying that 2 dates in. Wasn't prepared for that.
I do like her tho so its not an issue for me. Was never really good at keeping numerous plates spinning anyways
Then things are clear and you know how to respond to what she saidguess it threw me saying that 2 dates in. Wasn't prepared for that.
I do like her tho so its not an issue for me. Was never really good at keeping numerous plates spinning anyways
Depends. Go by their actions, not so much what they say. A lot of women say that they only date one man and they are seeing multiple guys.so what does it mean if after 2 dates (second one sexual) she tells you shes not talking to anyone else on the dating site you met on and prefers to focus on one person at a time and seeing where it goes? And "thats just how she feels. "
It kind of took me by surprise and i didnt really know what to say.
Seems like a subtle hint at locking me down without actually coming out and asking? My response should of been??
2 dates does seem like a red flag and it can be a test.guess it threw me saying that 2 dates in. Wasn't prepared for that.
I do like her tho so its not an issue for me. Was never really good at keeping numerous plates spinning anyways
I got the exact same sentence from an ex, a couple of dates later than you. She wants to tell you that she's looking for something serious and wants to feel you out if she's going to invest more emotions in you or not. Lots of women can't stand the fact that you're dating around while seeing them, that's what they say however.so what does it mean if after 2 dates (second one sexual) she tells you shes not talking to anyone else on the dating site you met on and prefers to focus on one person at a time and seeing where it goes? And "thats just how she feels. "
It kind of took me by surprise and i didnt really know what to say.
Seems like a subtle hint at locking me down without actually coming out and asking? My response should of been??
im 54 shes 47. Apparently she was with a guy for 23 yrs,( not married) before she left cause he was an alcoholic and she'd had enough, then she was with a guy for 3 yrs before he became a rabid trump supporter and she couldnt take that, then a few online dates and me.Ask yourself if spending 1-2 months with her to get to know her will make or break anything going on in your life?
Personally, I think she must be doing something right if she can hold down LTR's. Plus if what she says is true, it doesn't seem like she has ridden the CC yet and maybe less bitter or jaded because of it. I usually find gals that are willing to be with a trump supporter for any length of time when they are not, to be somewhat open minded and flexible on things. These two attributes lends itself to better LTR potential.im 54 shes 47. Apparently she was with a guy for 23 yrs,( not married) before she left cause he was an alcoholic and she'd had enough, then she was with a guy for 3 yrs before he became a rabid trump supporter and she couldnt take that, then a few online dates and me.
She seems like a great gal, sweet, pretty so i dont mind taking the time to get to know her. I just don't trust women in general so im wary her true colors will come out eventually. Only thing that bothers me is she has nothing in life beyond a decent vehicle and sex, hopefully she can cook too.
Fail. we are not worried about ''losing'' anythinghmmmmmmm
On a game level, that makes sense.
Sometimes though, she'll feel the same way but just isn't going to ask you first for whatever reason. She's not sure, she's worried YOU might be dating someone else... plenty of reasons.
If you're really into her, and you don't ask her... you may loose her. Maybe some other guy will ask her and she'll decide he likes her more!
So - if you're really into a girl and you think she likes you too.. and you WANT to be exclusive - ****ing tell her. Don't worry about what she wants. Worry about what YOU want.
You're awesome right? You're gonna make her happy right? Of course you are. So go for it. If you loose her for lack of taking charge, you're going to feel like a ****.
well all her kids are older, her 20 yr old son does still live with her but works and helps pay bills so i think its more a convenience thing that anything else. Just figured at that age she'd have her own house or at least nice furniture. She lives in a very small 2 bedroom house she rents, a tad dumpy. Hell im poor but i have vacation property, motorcycle, boat, nice house, hot tub out back, wood stove inside and tons of "stuff? Just thought she'd have more in life by now but who knows maybe she has a big bank account i don't know about.I mean at that age, what kinds of things are you looking for a woman to have going on in her life? If she has kids, her kids are her life priority(or should be) and have her job on cruise control to get a paycheck and provide stability for her family.
I know plenty of women that doesn't have those but it doesn't make them a bad person. People are where they're at for various reasons. I wouldn't ding her for not having certain materialistic possessions by her age.well all her kids are older, her 20 yr old son does still live with her but works and helps pay bills so i think its more a convenience thing that anything else. Just figured at that age she'd have her own house or at least nice furniture. She lives in a very small 2 bedroom house she rents, a tad dumpy. Hell im poor but i have vacation property, motorcycle, boat, nice house, hot tub out back, wood stove inside and tons of "stuff? Just thought she'd have more in life by now but who knows maybe she has a big bank account i don't know about.
Not that i really care about what she has but i think you know what i mean.