justhe_justin
Don Juan
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Yes, and in addition I can also remind women of the LOYALTY they preach about so much. When things get hard you dont just jump ship to the next guy.I think the focus should be how guys should be continuing to be men, not be content, or get lazy, or make mistakes that would give reasons for their women to lose attraction/desire for them. I mean they did have the attraction/desire for the men at some point to get married, right?
So something happens in the course of time whether it be a year or 10+ years for that to happen. Most of that I believe can be traced to the guys action or inaction. Just like muscles, we always need to be on top of it and work at it. Once you become lazy or complacent is where the trouble starts. As they say, always lead and be the head of your household. Once you give that up or let the dynamics change, you've already lost. My $.02
I would urge them to remember the WEDDING VOWS they took "in sickness and in health... For rich or for poor... Til death to we part". If people actually stuck to their word there would be a lot less cheating and divorce.
It should matter whether guy's performance slips over a 10-20-30 year period. Marriage is supposed to be foe the long all. Unconditional love means through the good an the bad.
Being sarcastic here because i gave up on the concept of love years ago. From what I see 'true love' is bull****. It's all circumstial. When things are good the 'love' flows and the second things get rough suddenly the love vanishes and the wedding vows are null.
Just saying when a woman decides to cheat the fault is 100% on her, and not her husband for not 'pleasing' her or making her feel 'loved'. Why do people always blame the guy?