It’s worse when women cheat

[metalwater]

when the penalty is very high, the effort to keep it secret is also very high, or the activity might even be avoided.

as a culture, even on a worldwide scale but certainly, in the west, and for sure in the US, humans are dropping moral codes in favor of status and pleasure(sex). it is a slippery slope that is well on its way to being a landslide. do not kill unless we disagree with them, do not adultery unless we think it's for the best, do not steal unless no one knows, respect your husband as long as he is winning, cherish your wife unless there is an easy sid bet, the list goes on and on. attitude is that we are a chump if we live by codes.

I believe what we have for the ratio is not accurate because ppl lie, and sometimes they really don't remember how often.

Some men cheat often and with many, but many of them never once.
Many women cheat at least once, not many cheat often and with many.

 

[justhe_justin]

when the penalty is very high, the effort to keep it secret is also very high, or the activity might even be avoided.

as a culture, even on a worldwide scale but certainly, in the west, and for sure in the US, humans are dropping moral codes in favor of status and pleasure(sex). it is a slippery slope that is well on its way to being a landslide. do not kill unless we disagree with them, do not adultery unless we think it's for the best, do not steal unless no one knows, respect your husband as long as he is winning, cherish your wife unless there is an easy sid bet, the list goes on and on. attitude is that we are a chump if we live by codes.

I believe what we have for the ratio is not accurate because ppl lie, and sometimes they really don't remember how often.

Some men cheat often and with many, but many of them never once.
Many women cheat at least once, not many cheat often and with many.

Well said. I read a statistic that 95% of female cheaters NEVER get caught.

 

[SW15]

Data shows that the a trend of women cheating more than men is beginning to take form. Historically, it was men who cheated more. Women in my age group (18-29) are found to cheat more than men of my age group (by 1%). While it's neck-and-neck, I feel like the way things are going points to that gap widening in favor of women.

It used to be that men were the more rampant cheaters. A fictional example based on reality would have been Don Draper in "Mad Men". His behavior would have been common among white collar executives in the 1960s.

In the 1980s and 1990s, as women started to get more esconsced in the workforce and began to mimic men as careerists, they started to mimic men by closing the gap on cheating. By the time the Millennials (the children of the Baby Boomers) entered their 20s in full in the 2000s/early 2010s, they were full established as being more masculine, while a lot of Millennial men have become less masculine.

It's not surprising that younger women (born in 1980 or later) cheat more than younger men if all types of relationships are considered, not just marriages. Plenty of women are cheating on non-marital boyfriends.

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Well said. I read a statistic that 95% of female cheaters NEVER get caught.

Women are better at not getting caught.

Men have the urge to 'spread their seed' with testosterone as the main fuel, while women have way more sexual opportunities that they may, or may not act on. I'd argue that more and more women cheat nowadays compared to the past, reasons being less and less ability to pair bond to their partners due to c0ck carousel damage, less to no consequences for cheating and a shifted focus on the happiness of the female in the matriarchal society we live in today. She's not put into shame and ostracized for it like many moons ago. Now you rather hear "you go girl - it's your happiness YOLO"

Women's hypergamy doesn't really come into play for a ONS with the neighbour pool boy. Women marry up, they don't cheat up.

When women cheat, there are definitely surface level feelings in place. She'll definitely look to bang some guy with a hot bod. Sometimes they can cheat up, but it isn't an automatic.

Men want to spread their seed. If you've ever had a sexual drought and weren't actively masturbating and watching porn, you're extremely horny and wanting to bang.

Its super easy for women to have sex. I'm astounded with the options most women have.

 

[TonyTenner]

In the world of singles it could be even. In the world of committed relationships, you would be dead wrong. But you would need to see for yourself. You don’t understand the deep reason for orbiters and male friends. I remember when I thought exactly like you do. Go forth and prove or disprove your own theories.

This was disclosed in the early 1950’s with the Kinsey report. That man was destroyed for publishing it. Understanding the sexual habits and drives of a woman is important.

You are right. Women DO NOT cheat up. They seek more resources and protection up. Which is why I do not use the word “hypergamy” when talking about her dualistic sexual strategy. You are combining both and it isn’t registering for you. You combine two separate motives together thinking it’s the same motive.

What are the deep reasons for orbiters and male friends?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well said. I read a statistic that 95% of female cheaters NEVER get caught.

They are easily caught if YOU REALLY want to know.

 

[TonyTenner]

In the world of singles it could be even. In the world of committed relationships, you would be dead wrong. But you would need to see for yourself. You don’t understand the deep reason for orbiters and male friends. I remember when I thought exactly like you do. Go forth and prove or disprove your own theories.

This was disclosed in the early 1950’s with the Kinsey report. That man was destroyed for publishing it. Understanding the sexual habits and drives of a woman is important.

You are right. Women DO NOT cheat up. They seek more resources and protection up. Which is why I do not use the word “hypergamy” when talking about her dualistic sexual strategy. You are combining both and it isn’t registering for you. You combine two separate motives together thinking it’s the same motive.

I find that hard to square when you consider the male mind. We're 17 times more testosterone than women. We're walking erections. How is it that, in committed relationships, women will on average cheat more? Are you saying that man can suppress their horniness enough so that it's lower - a long way down - than womens' natural horniness? Or is it a combination of that, and men's tendency to be more idealistic which suppresses our urges to below that of womens?

 

[NSX-R]

Women cheat only if their man is too weak and gave up his masculine responsibilities in the relationship. I’ve seen this hundreds of times and every time is because the man has been too weak in front of the woman or usually when the woman is taking the role of the man .

For men they will cheat because their sex drive is making them do it . They get attracted with their eyes and their Ds and not with their mind.Also if their women started to decline with time , they stop giving them the attention they want and don’t fulfill them sexually most likely they will cheat but never leave them . Women are more highly likely to leave their man completely.

Except if they both slutty , then that’s obvious .

 

[7onriverI f]

Women cheat only if their man is too weak and gave up his masculine responsibilities in the relationship. I’ve seen this hundreds of times and every time is because the man has been too weak in front of the woman or usually when the woman is taking the role of the man .

For men they will cheat because their sex drive is making them do it . They get attracted with their eyes and their Ds and not with their mind.Also if their women started to decline with time , they stop giving them the attention they want and don’t fulfill them sexually most likely they will cheat but never leave them . Women are more highly likely to leave their man completely.

Except if they both slutty , then that’s obvious .

me and my wife are very slutty. we get caught at least once a week. once i caught her with a huge guy and i slapped his ass and he turned gay. i ended up having to fend of his advances while banging my wife. im lucky i got strong arms. we always have the best make up sex on the weekly. i blow a load on her face for 5 mins straight. man the mess afterwards is huge.

 

[justhe_justin]

I find that hard to square when you consider the male mind. We're 17 times more testosterone than women. We're walking erections. How is it that, in committed relationships, women will on average cheat more? Are you saying that man can suppress their horniness enough so that it's lower - a long way down - than womens' natural horniness? Or is it a combination of that, and men's tendency to be more idealistic which suppresses our urges to below that of womens?

I would venture to say men are better at controlling our impulses and suppressing urges than women. We basically have to be in order to function in civil society lol. Btw, I believe this discipline transfers to other things such as exercising the patience to improve a skill. It's less often that women need to "work" for what they want, and even when they do it's to a lower bar than what men need to measure up to.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I would venture to say men are better at controlling our impulses and suppressing urges than women. We basically have to be in order to function in civil society lol. Btw, I believe this discipline transfers to other things such as exercising the patience to improve a skill. It's less often that women need to "work" for what they want, and even when they do it's to a lower bar than what men need to measure up to.

I would say that too. Having things handed to you and being entitled to things you didn't earn is the opposite of discipline. Your just not going to be as sharp.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This the political Division we have. Mindless minions wanting to be taken care of. How degrading.

This the political Division we have. Mindless minions wanting to be taken care of. How degrading.

And they'd screw you or I over in the blink of an eye for clout or to please their masters.