The absolute state of the US online dating market

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Thank you, I think it best for expressives to spin even more plates than your average DJ then. In order to get all requirements of love met.
I wonder how you came to this conclusion just through posts on an internet forum?

What if posts elsewhere pointed to an additional personality type; what would that indicate? Can a body be more than one type?
Because I have more life experience then most people on here.

Therefore I can easily profile people here from how they think.

And because that's what I do daily when interacting with people, from customers to my staff, each requires different handling based on their personality to get the best outcome.

As for ur other question, a man can only hv 1 personality type, if he has 2 then the other is fake.

Its like you asked a nerd to be more dominant, he will come off as being too try hard or extreme.

These are inherent traits man are born into, no one can chg it.
 

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Don't speak so soon. That "no" woman is able to meet? If they love themselves, their craft and their lives some lady will be smitten by them and fall 4 them.
Women can only "express love" that meets ur needs at the beginning of courtship, it is afterwards that you feel they fall out.

And I mean it, that NO women exists to meet an expressives need for love.

Your only option is to redirect that excess love into other things like dancing, art, music - pour it into these things.

Otherwise u will overwhelm any women with love.

For women in ur life, their problems with you will always be having "too much love", because for a woman, it is very tiring to receive it.
 
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Regulated and regularly tested German Sex workers aren't bad too depending on where you look. The King George Brothel in Berlin for example has an all you can sex and drink package during the week for 99 Euros. They have around 27 sex workers in that place.
What city? I might have to try that out if I'm ever there. Of course, the smart customer would only drink non-alcoholic so that he can max out on the other "all you can". :p
 

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Because I have more life experience then most people on here.

Therefore I can easily profile people here from how they think.

And because that's what I do daily when interacting with people, from customers to my staff, each requires different handling based on their personality to get the best outcome.

As for ur other question, a man can only hv 1 personality type, if he has 2 then the other is fake.

Its like you asked a nerd to be more dominant, he will come off as being too try hard or extreme.

These are inherent traits man are born into, no one can chg it.
hey thanks

In my limited experience I have consistently seen 2 personalities in men...so I can conclude the second personality in the man is the real one.

I'm going to take responsibility and accountability and keep working determinedly to alter how I myself is perceived.

Something about me appears inauthentic or I would never be drawn to '2 personality' men.

I have been working like a mule on my character defect of dishonesty since early 2016 when I realised that was my biggest flaw.
Obviously a lot more work has to be done because I am still viewed as dishonest. Or else I would have found more authentic people by now.
I guess 4 years really isn't long enough yet to correct this in me. I take full responsibility.
 
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This sums it up very well. Men have let women become dominant here by kissing ass on social media...orbiting...white knighting...abd just acting like cucks in general.

I can remember going on Plenty of Whales back in the '90s o_O o_O and sending out a few Likes (or whatever they were called) to women that weren't fat, and one replied back. We did a little message-convo, but then I looked at her picture again, and my tranny-radar actuated the alarm. :eek::eek::eek: The thing about trannies is that anyone who is as messed up in the head to detach his member is going to have the wherewithal to strenuously diet and be very thin (which of course for birth-man is easier than for a birth-woman), and of course be primed to prove hymself as a woman that can attract men - and with the strong sex-drive of a birth-man.

So be VERY careful! :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: I guess the one good thing about being a manlet is that I naturally go for at least moderately petite women, and only a man tiny enough to be a jockey could possibly pass in that regard.
 

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I haven't read all of the posts on this thread, but I wouldn't be surprised if a substantial number of those men that did in fact swipe right and match with that trans woman didn't even read the bio or realize that was not a woman. However, I'd also wager that a substantial portion of them were in fact aware and out of extreme thirstiness simply didn't care, as it at least resembles a woman.

It's pretty common knowledge that a significant percentage of men have little to no sex for relatively prolonged periods of time. I recently read one article that showed many men in their prime years, 20s through mid 30s had 0 sex or any form of intimacy (kissing, cuddling, etc.) in over a year. I've said this before, this is an issue that I don't think we realize is as prevalent as it is simply because no one is open about it, and why would they be. Many of these guys are otherwise normal, though I'm sure with some there is a reason for their celibacy, that are lonely and not having their physical and emotional needs being met by having the company and enjoying the intimacy of a woman that THEY desire. This is NOT healthy and thus you can see the result, which is men clawing at any scrap to fill this void.

I don't think there is really anything wrong with the men themselves but more so to do with the current culture and dating market/climate. Many men are simply not in a set of circumstances where they can readily meet attractive women that are dating material in a natural manner. Some guys are super lucky where they are in the right place at the right time with the right people but this isn't a luxury for many.

The link below is an OLD experiment years ago but a poster linked it on this forum a while back. This is even worse because it's from a few years ago, when this whole tinder thing was still relatively under control, and it's with a hideous beast lol.


 
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That makes sense. Be successful. And have correct priorities.
Women can only "express love" that meets ur needs at the beginning of courtship, it is afterwards that you feel they fall out.

And I mean it, that NO women exists to meet an expressives need for love.

Your only option is to redirect that excess love into other things like dancing, art, music - pour it into these things.

Otherwise u will overwhelm any women with love.

For women in ur life, their problems with you will always be having "too much love", because for a woman, it is very tiring to receive it.
That makes sense. Equally yoked in love. Use the rest of your love for YOU.
 

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I haven't read all of the posts on this thread, but I wouldn't be surprised if a substantial number of those men that did in fact swipe right and match with that trans woman didn't even read the bio or realize that was not a woman. However, I'd also wager that a substantial portion of them were in fact aware and out of extreme thirstiness simply didn't care, as it at least resembles a woman.

It's pretty common knowledge that a significant percentage of men have little to no sex for relatively prolonged periods of time. I recently read one article that showed many men in their prime years, 20s through mid 30s had 0 sex or any form of intimacy (kissing, cuddling, etc.) in over a year. I've said this before, this is an issue that I don't think we realize is as prevalent as it is simply because no one is open about it, and why would they be. Many of these guys are otherwise normal, though I'm sure with some there is a reason for their celibacy, that are lonely and not having their physical and emotional needs being met by having the company and enjoying the intimacy of a woman that THEY desire. This is NOT healthy and thus you can see the result, which is men clawing at any scrap to fill this void.

I don't think there is really anything wrong with the men themselves but more so to do with the current culture and dating market/climate. Many men are simply not in a set of circumstances where they can readily meet attractive women that are dating material in a natural manner. Some guys are super lucky where they are in the right place at the right time with the right people but this isn't a luxury for many.

The link below is an OLD experiment years ago but a poster linked it on this forum a while back. This is even worse because it's from a few years ago, when this whole tinder thing was still relatively under control, and it's with a hideous beast lol.


True Forced Loneliness (I'll use this non-threatening term) is only social problem that the Social Justice Warriors don't think is a problem. I really think that with the internet's widespread reach, there are a lot of lurkers that are steadily learning, and that after a self-assessment of whether they can ascend or not, these men will start their plan like Andy Dufresne in "Shawshank Redemption" of saving like crazy until they have enough to location max, or alternatively to do like Aaron Clarey and "enjoy the decline". Maybe I'm looking at this as a very "rational economic actor", but I have to think that a lot of men would take the deal of Andrew Yang's $1K/month Guaranteed Income so as to support their locationmaxxing.
 

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What city? I might have to try that out if I'm ever there. Of course, the smart customer would only drink non-alcoholic so that he can max out on the other "all you can". :p
The former flat rate is no longer available with us. It was banned by a law passed in the Bundestag.

Boo... I knew it couldn't last.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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hey thanks

In my limited experience I have consistently seen 2 personalities in men...so I can conclude the second personality in the man is the real one.

I'm going to take responsibility and accountability and keep working determinedly to alter how I myself is perceived.

Something about me appears inauthentic or I would never be drawn to '2 personality' men.

I have been working like a mule on my character defect of dishonesty since early 2016 when I realised that was my biggest flaw.
Obviously a lot more work has to be done because I am still viewed as dishonest. Or else I would have found more authentic people by now.
I guess 4 years really isn't long enough yet to correct this in me. I take full responsibility.
For women, they hv to be dishonest whilst maintaining an innocent facade.

Every successful women does it extremely well and that's why they're successful.

Manipulation is women's greatest gift, if you do not know how to manipulate then you fail as a woman.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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