Men are simply responding to the situations they find themselves in... See, the reason I don't like the phrase "Growing A Pair of Balls" is because to each individual, that means something different... Its not advice, its just a weak generalization, due to you failing to target actual things that an individual can do, just summarize, generalize, its just very weak. Furthermore, it leaves room for it to be misinterpreted, maybe this means go break the law to somebody.
If anything is insulting, it is the idea that a generalization is decent advice. Please go read a book or something.
Well, lets start with this:
Should men marry? Only if they're PLANNING on reproducing. This is terrible advice, because its simply solved with a prenup; yeah, she can glean child support from you, but if you are not having kids, why not get married? There is literally no downside, you get divorced, how big is this hit that you would take from that possibly going to be without kids in the mix? Alimony maybe. I would actually promote the opposite, do not get married to somebody you have a child with, because then you are literally left with no protection, your pre-nup can be worked around through kids and child support, who knows what other things would happen. Furthermore, if your partner dies, without a will no less, their estate goes to probate, where as if you are married, this isn't the case, unless otherwise outlined.
Any man who deliberately impregnates a woman, and then deliberately leaves her to raise his offspring, either alone or with another man, should be castrated. Men do not have birth rights. Period. Your statement is of your own volition, without any ground in reality. Jail exists, so that you don't have to say sorry... I would argue, Child Support serves the same function. Yes, of course these kids are going to be impacted by not having a father around, but you know what happens then? Those children become instilled with the qualities of women, begin to believe that they can come and go as they please... Sound familiar? Yes, these same dudes that are being raised by single mothers, are then going out and creating even more single mothers... So... We should castrate these men, because they share the tendencies of a woman, do womanly things, understand woman better? What you don't understand is all the things that you guys preach on here, its all conducive of being raised by a single mother... All this game nonsense, all this player ****, all so you can go on and make some more single mothers, right? Quit playing both sides of the field, choose a side and stick to it and that choice should be made off of logical facts, not feelings or anecdotes... Those men are just as, if not greater victims than the mothers and it is not of their own fault to be in that situation, so to go ahead and castrate somebody on that basis, its just dumb, its a dumb thing to say, again, just generalizing without any real advice.
"Why are you whiteknighting, ShePays?!" (The Incel-MGTOW-PUA nexus choir asks) I dont understand.
You want to have a harem of 10 wives and raise 100 kids, under one big roof, or on a compound? That's fine with me. But, if you want to "father" one child, and leave him(or her) to be raised by his single mother, you're a piece of shiit, and should just spend the money for the vasectomy, because YOU are the problem with modern Western Civilization. YOU are responsible for the decline. Again, this is wrong, men are just responding to their environment, their response does not make them a piece of ****, some people will enter the parenting role and will eventually have to leave it, doesnt mean they are a piece of ****, means life changed. As
@Spaz said above, we will fail, we will fall to our knees, that doesnt make you or anybody else a piece of ****, it means everyone's life in that situation is going to be harder, yes, but some people would say that is a gift, not a curse... If the Children are being negatively impacted and you don't want to leave because then you'll be a piece of ****, what then? Some guys just are not cut out for fatherhood, it is what it is, doesnt mean we should castrate them.
Who doesn't have my respect? Any piece of shiit who knocks a girl up, because he thinks it makes him a man, or that it will force her to marry him, or any other weak pathetic motive, only proving he has inferior genes, and shouldn't be reproducing, in the first place. Why do I care about your respect when all it amounts to are weak generalizations?
I have saw some good posts from you ShePays, haven't been here long, already saw a couple good ones, but this is definitely not one of them and in fact, is an egregious misunderstanding on your part, to tar and feather those who have not committed an act, but participated in a cycle.... This misunderstanding, this... Emotion, is something I would come to expect from a woman. This emotion, this "Castrate!" this is things that are becoming of a woman to say, not a man and so I would implore you, just as you implored me, to "Grow A Pair of Balls" and by growing a pair of balls, what I mean is recognizing that maybe there are more complexities about in a situation of single parenthood, yes single parents are ****ty parents, that has been factually proven, but all I see is you adding to the problem with all that player ****, then you come in here and get on your high horse? Really guy?
