Why do men on sosuave want to get married?

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My point being, no mother can train a boy into a man - NONE.
I agree. I have 3 boys and see how their mom handles certain situations.
Example 1: One of my boys takes a fall and scrapes his knee and over reacts and starts crying. She rushes over and makes it even a bigger deal of it. I come over and examine it and see it's a very minor scrape. I tell him to quit crying and that crying will not make the pain go away and to stand up and continue what he was doing. I remind him that he needs to be stronger as there will be worser things that come his way later in life. Then I show him my hand which I almost cut in half with a chop saw accident awhile ago. The scars are still visible across the backside of my hand. I tell him that is a real accident and that daddy didn't cry over that one either.

My point: Mother's will always have that over-nurturing and protective mentality. ALWAYS. This hinders growth in certain ways and does not help in strengthening our boys to become men.
 

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Well, Napoleon Hill does state in Think and Grow Rich that wealth is useless to most men if you take women out of the picture. But maybe he wasn't considering gay guys, and maybe you don't find him a credible source.

The only reason I want money is to invest in self-improvement to make me more attractive to women and create a lifestyle that is welcoming to them.
Make urself more attractive? Haha

One might think you're a female in a males body with that kind of mindset.

Give me $ 1 Billion, I'd conquer most if not all of the businesses in my sphere, give me $ 10 billion and I'd conquer the whole country, give me $ 1 trillion dollars and I'll buy over a country - be its King.

Where's ur ambition boy?

That ambition that drove ur ancestors to be so successful.

You might want to check ur pocket 1st before responding to my post.
 

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Marriage gives a sense of security. I think created by the environment we live in... and in the past, I believe that was true. But I don't see it nowadays.

About living longer, I think this is controversial... Imagine a guy who is married, drink a lot of alcohol and other stuffs/drugs to run away from the fact his marriage is not okay. Would he live longer? I don't believe so.

A single guy, who takes care of your health, doesn't use drugs or other stuff that can harm you... have a fulfilling life with purpose. No stress of a bad marriage. Who is happier and healthy in this scenario?

But a married guy can also live longer, happy with his marriage too. As a single guy can literally fck his life with all bullsh1ts and die young.

Also, I guy can have a terrible job and die young for stress issues, as others can have a fulfilling job and live longer and happier for example.

I also don't think all the men here want to get married... We would have to hear the answer from everyone that uses this forum. But I can tell for me, and for now, I don't have any desire to get married someday. Maybe this can change or not.

Also that comparison that @Logos quoted about Napoleon Hill is interesting, cause it seems that people always want to compare each other to see who is better, happier, living longer, richest, etc. While you are comparing yourself to this, you are losing your time you should be using building the life you want.

Marrying or not, does it really care if this is not what you want?

It seems the problem is that people do what is told them to do based on the environment they live, so they can be part of that group... but they don't actually question it to understand and see if that really makes sense to their lives. Basically, they can't assume responsibility to their lives and then have to follow the external ideas, because if they failed... it's easier to blame someone else than hold accountable for what he/she did.
 

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I don't want to conquer anything but myself.

The man who wishes to conquer others is only over-compensating for his inferiority complex.
In the animal kingdom, there's tigers and rabbits.

One walks, roars, hunts, kills and eats it's prey - that's his nature.

The other basically just plays house and fvcks around in its small tiny grove - that's his nature.

I am within my element, within my talents, within my very nature, how is that over-compensating?
 

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Marriage gives a sense of security. I think created by the environment we live in... and in the past, I believe that was true. But I don't see it nowadays.

About living longer, I think this is controversial... Imagine a guy who is married, drink a lot of alcohol and other stuffs/drugs to run away from the fact his marriage is not okay. Would he live longer? I don't believe so.

A single guy, who takes care of your health, doesn't use drugs or other stuff that can harm you... have a fulfilling life with purpose. No stress of a bad marriage. Who is happier and healthy in this scenario?

But a married guy can also live longer, happy with his marriage too. As a single guy can literally fck his life with all bullsh1ts and die young.

Also, I guy can have a terrible job and die young for stress issues, as others can have a fulfilling job and live longer and happier for example.

I also don't think all the men here want to get married... We would have to hear the answer from everyone that uses this forum. But I can tell for me, and for now, I don't have any desire to get married someday. Maybe this can change or not.

Also that comparison that @Logos quoted about Napoleon Hill is interesting, cause it seems that people always want to compare each other to see who is better, happier, living longer, richest, etc. While you are comparing yourself to this, you are losing your time you should be using building the life you want.

Marrying or not, does it really care if this is not what you want?

It seems the problem is that people do what is told them to do based on the environment they live, so they can be part of that group... but they don't actually question it to understand and see if that really makes sense to their lives. Basically, they can't assume responsibility to their lives and then have to follow the external ideas, because if they failed... it's easier to blame someone else than hold accountable for what he/she did.
A man compares because that is the bar he sets for himself to achieve.

He sets it so that he can surpass his current level.

That is the very essence of being a man.

Even a fool of caveman knows this.
 

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Is the modern legal system in the West tilted heavily against men, in general, and White men, in particular? Sure.

Should men marry? Only if they're PLANNING on reproducing.

Any man who deliberately impregnates a woman, and then deliberately leaves her to raise his offspring, either alone or with another man, should be castrated.

"Why are you whiteknighting, ShePays?!" (The Incel-MGTOW-PUA nexus choir asks)

Grow some balls. Marry or don't; not everyone of every generation does...nor should everyone. Have children or don't; not everyone of every generation does...nor should everyone. But, IF you're going to have children, raise them under YOUR roof, or don't have them!

You want to have a harem of 10 wives and raise 100 kids, under one big roof, or on a compound? That's fine with me. But, if you want to "father" one child, and leave him(or her) to be raised by his single mother, you're a piece of shiit, and should just spend the money for the vasectomy, because YOU are the problem with modern Western Civilization. YOU are responsible for the decline.

I don't care if you wanna have all your kids with one mother, and die with her, of old age, holding hands. I don't care if you want to raise your kids with a house full of sister wives. I don't care if you want to raise your kids as a bachelor father, and pay their mother/s to go away, or just pay a good lawyer to TAKE your kids from them...or "kidnap" your kids, and move to a Pacific Island; I don't care. All of those guys have my full respect.

Who doesn't have my respect? Any piece of shiit who knocks a girl up, because he thinks it makes him a man, or that it will force her to marry him, or any other weak pathetic motive, only proving he has inferior genes, and shouldn't be reproducing, in the first place.
See. you guys seem to think this stuff is all about nature and at face value, it is, but at the same time, relationships CANNOT last without finance intact. Kids are expensive. Jobs are lost. People come and go... Throughout all of that, having a rock, somebody to see you through those tough times, sure, but "Growing A Pair Of Balls" is not going to prepare an individual for those hard times.

I think you carry this forward tone in your posts because you have weak arguments and instead of providing intelligent banter, resort to insult and otherwise. This is unfortunate, as you seem to have some knowledge to share, but without knowing how to properly express yourself, all that knowledge is just wasted. Something to think about.
 

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See. you guys seem to think this stuff is all about nature and at face value, it is, but at the same time, relationships CANNOT last without finance intact. Kids are expensive. Jobs are lost. People come and go... Throughout all of that, having a rock, somebody to see you through those tough times, sure, but "Growing A Pair Of Balls" is not going to prepare an individual for those hard times.

I think you carry this forward tone in your posts because you have weak arguments and instead of providing intelligent banter, resort to insult and otherwise. This is unfortunate, as you seem to have some knowledge to share, but without knowing how to properly express yourself, all that knowledge is just wasted. Something to think about.
Growing a pair of balls is exactly what ALL men need to do.

No matter how smart u r or how successful u r, you WILL make mistakes, you WILL fall on ur knees.

Having a set of solid hard balls is what will make you rise up AGAIN.

Do you by any chance feel insulted with what I wrote? after all I did say BALLS twice.
 

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A man compares because that is the bar he sets for himself to achieve.

He sets it so that he can surpass his current level.

That is the very essence of being a man.

Even a fool of caveman knows this.
If he acts to achieve something.

Also, with proper comparison... without fantasizing too much.

Cause some people compare the fantasy of getting married instead of reality, what it really is and the effort he have to put to achieve this goal.

And I disagree that even a fool caveman know this. IMO, it takes some time and maturity to understand what is a good/healthy comparison vs a bad one.

So yes, we are always comparing stuffs... I would add the fact that we should learn how to do that properly, so we don't end frustrated at the end.
 

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If he acts to achieve something.

Also, with proper comparison... without fantasizing too much.

Cause some people compare the fantasy of getting married instead of reality, what it really is and the effort he have to put to achieve this goal.

And I disagree that even a fool caveman know this. IMO, it takes some time and maturity to understand what is a good/healthy comparison vs a bad one.

So yes, we are always comparing stuffs... I would add the fact that we should learn how to do that properly, so we don't end frustrated at the end.
Well I do hope y'all at least set a minimum level standard that we can all agree on, Sosuave'ers are notorious for setting the bar high up when it's actually below par.

Some would post on here females that looks more like Bulldogs then women and proudly calls themselves dominant.

Then others would post pictures of their wives on here, proudly thinking she's so hot when the reality is that she's below average in her own country.

And u r absolutely right, I am frustrated with the obvious lack of standards within our Sosuave community.

How is it possible that it could be so low?

Where did we fail?
 

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Growing a pair of balls is exactly what ALL men need to do.

No matter how smart u r or how successful u r, you WILL make mistakes, you WILL fall on ur knees.

Having a set of solid hard balls is what will make you rise up AGAIN.

Do you by any chance feel insulted with what I wrote? after all I did say BALLS twice.
Men are simply responding to the situations they find themselves in... See, the reason I don't like the phrase "Growing A Pair of Balls" is because to each individual, that means something different... Its not advice, its just a weak generalization, due to you failing to target actual things that an individual can do, just summarize, generalize, its just very weak. Furthermore, it leaves room for it to be misinterpreted, maybe this means go break the law to somebody.

If anything is insulting, it is the idea that a generalization is decent advice. Please go read a book or something.

Is the modern legal system in the West tilted heavily against men, in general, and White men, in particular? Sure.
Well, lets start with this: Should men marry? Only if they're PLANNING on reproducing. This is terrible advice, because its simply solved with a prenup; yeah, she can glean child support from you, but if you are not having kids, why not get married? There is literally no downside, you get divorced, how big is this hit that you would take from that possibly going to be without kids in the mix? Alimony maybe. I would actually promote the opposite, do not get married to somebody you have a child with, because then you are literally left with no protection, your pre-nup can be worked around through kids and child support, who knows what other things would happen. Furthermore, if your partner dies, without a will no less, their estate goes to probate, where as if you are married, this isn't the case, unless otherwise outlined.

Any man who deliberately impregnates a woman, and then deliberately leaves her to raise his offspring, either alone or with another man, should be castrated. Men do not have birth rights. Period. Your statement is of your own volition, without any ground in reality. Jail exists, so that you don't have to say sorry... I would argue, Child Support serves the same function. Yes, of course these kids are going to be impacted by not having a father around, but you know what happens then? Those children become instilled with the qualities of women, begin to believe that they can come and go as they please... Sound familiar? Yes, these same dudes that are being raised by single mothers, are then going out and creating even more single mothers... So... We should castrate these men, because they share the tendencies of a woman, do womanly things, understand woman better? What you don't understand is all the things that you guys preach on here, its all conducive of being raised by a single mother... All this game nonsense, all this player ****, all so you can go on and make some more single mothers, right? Quit playing both sides of the field, choose a side and stick to it and that choice should be made off of logical facts, not feelings or anecdotes... Those men are just as, if not greater victims than the mothers and it is not of their own fault to be in that situation, so to go ahead and castrate somebody on that basis, its just dumb, its a dumb thing to say, again, just generalizing without any real advice.

"Why are you whiteknighting, ShePays?!" (The Incel-MGTOW-PUA nexus choir asks) I dont understand.


You want to have a harem of 10 wives and raise 100 kids, under one big roof, or on a compound? That's fine with me. But, if you want to "father" one child, and leave him(or her) to be raised by his single mother, you're a piece of shiit, and should just spend the money for the vasectomy, because YOU are the problem with modern Western Civilization. YOU are responsible for the decline. Again, this is wrong, men are just responding to their environment, their response does not make them a piece of ****, some people will enter the parenting role and will eventually have to leave it, doesnt mean they are a piece of ****, means life changed. As @Spaz said above, we will fail, we will fall to our knees, that doesnt make you or anybody else a piece of ****, it means everyone's life in that situation is going to be harder, yes, but some people would say that is a gift, not a curse... If the Children are being negatively impacted and you don't want to leave because then you'll be a piece of ****, what then? Some guys just are not cut out for fatherhood, it is what it is, doesnt mean we should castrate them.


Who doesn't have my respect? Any piece of shiit who knocks a girl up, because he thinks it makes him a man, or that it will force her to marry him, or any other weak pathetic motive, only proving he has inferior genes, and shouldn't be reproducing, in the first place. Why do I care about your respect when all it amounts to are weak generalizations?

I have saw some good posts from you ShePays, haven't been here long, already saw a couple good ones, but this is definitely not one of them and in fact, is an egregious misunderstanding on your part, to tar and feather those who have not committed an act, but participated in a cycle.... This misunderstanding, this... Emotion, is something I would come to expect from a woman. This emotion, this "Castrate!" this is things that are becoming of a woman to say, not a man and so I would implore you, just as you implored me, to "Grow A Pair of Balls" and by growing a pair of balls, what I mean is recognizing that maybe there are more complexities about in a situation of single parenthood, yes single parents are ****ty parents, that has been factually proven, but all I see is you adding to the problem with all that player ****, then you come in here and get on your high horse? Really guy?
 

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Well I do hope y'all at least set a minimum level standard that we can all agree on, Sosuave'ers are notorious for setting the bar high up when it's actually below par.

Some would post on here females that looks more like Bulldogs then women and proudly calls themselves dominant.

Then others would post pictures of their wives on here, proudly thinking she's so hot when the reality is that she's below average in her own country.

And u r absolutely right, I am frustrated with the obvious lack of standards within our Sosuave community.

How is it possible that it could be so low?

Where did we fail?
For what I've learned so far... I think that we are always failing into something so we can grow up and become better with that. And those topics we discuss here have a great impact on that. Joining different ideas, even if it's something we don't agree, can rise our awareness and teach us so much.

If a guy post some picture of his wife somewhere, saying that she is really hot... I would ask if it's not only a desire to get some sort of validation. Or maybe show up how lucky or Alpha he is. Like if you buy a expensive car and show up to friends. Not saying this is wrong... As we live in a group, this seems kind of natural to exhibit power.

Also in some cases, some person can pretend to have this "Power" so he try to exhibit something he/she doesnt have. Like you said about a woman who is not that hot. Or each one can have different patterns to validate that.

I never read those kind of posts in here. If there is one that you can send me, I'm curious to read about that.
 

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Back in the day, Kings had several mistresses and produced many children with different women. Men were secure ones and women were insecure. Now, because of Disney and the powers that be, it’s the men who are insecure and the women who are secure. It’s the men who want wives and families and it’s the women who want education and freedom.

So I am wondering why some of the men on this site are so eager to get a LTR or a wife? Other than image and “fitting in”, what is the reason to legally commit to one woman for the rest of your life?

Remember, if you legally commit to ONE woman, you cannot leave without heavy emotional, financial, and legal costs. You cannot have sex with any other woman without heavy emotional, financial, and legal costs.

I’m curious of the responses.
Let the old days be and not all men were king and married many women and had many children. A king is a man, but not all men were king.
I am not sure how and why you relate the old days and Kings with men on sosuave.

As far as being secure and unsecured based on wanting to marry or not, do not based your opinion on what you have learned from movies. No one has ever made a movie about the life of poor men during feudalism. Probably the only poor man was Jesus Christ and he died too young and did not married. Long time ago, many men were soldiers, servants, or peasants some marry, some not.

Also, I don't know about Disney and the power that be, you dont mentioned any power, so your statement is vague, I assume it is based on your life experience.

Now, Your believe that women dont want to get marry and have family comes from you and you and only you, and your experience. We are different from each other in many ways while being similar. You look at life from a different spectrum than me. Your statement that men want to marry and have family while women want education and freedom is unfounded.
So after reading your statement I come to the last paragraph of your post where you asked why some man on sosuave wants to get marry and commit to a LTR. This question makes me believe you are tying to find out who is married and who is not on sosuave, you also want to know why to commit to a LTR. I am wondering if you are a female, because whether you want to marry or not is a question you can only answer.

Wihout telling whether I am married or not, and regardless I will want to marry, and or I understand your question and share your point of view and the point of view of other members, I will tell you my opinion. The fact that you believe some members on so suave want to get married is not related to a change in times and society, but fate. Do you believe in fate, made by you or destiny? I never set out to be like this. I am not saying how or implaing in anyway enough for you to draw a conclusion. My life took turns every so once in times, I managed to date and have girlfriends, but I was not always successful and dated the person I liked, but the women who chose me and was available.
Sometimes, I did not want to marry and some times I wanted to marry, but not all fit quite well. So if someone on sosuave wants to marry could be because he has spinned too many plates and now found she and she is his girl, the girl of his dreams, and he wants to have a family, he is mature and simply wants a family and wants to have kids. Now, this doesn't mean he is the only who wants to marry. Marry is complememtary action, it cannot take place wihout the other person consent and wish, in this case, the female companion. So if you notice or have noticed men on so suave wanting to marry and have a family is because you are simply looking at this forum and drawing conclusions based on some of us. This does not mean that women want freedom or education and forget about marriage and family, it only means you see it that way.
Based on my perception and life experience, I believe most women want to marry and have family, not men as you believe.
 
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You're a guy putting endless hours into an anonymous message board, parading himself as a king, making outrageous claims about himself.
Endless hours? I wish.

I come, I see and I conquer within 5 minutes and then I just leave....

And what outrageous claims do you which to accuse me off?

Like women inviting me out regularly even when I'm uglier then you?

Nothing excites a woman more then a tiger.

Rabbits r too easy and so boring.

Don't blame me for being a rabbit.
 

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You're a guy putting endless hours into an anonymous message board, parading himself as a king, making outrageous claims about himself.
He's our site moron; best just to laugh at his comments and enjoy the entertainment. No one listens to him. Besides, guys here forget, he's into trannies and lady boys, not girls. He posted about his experiences in his early days on so suave.
 

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Any man who refutes his dominance has none. And a man who tries to imply his adversary is feminine is a cheap, low-end joke.
I wasn't joking, I'm always serious.

To me, u r just a girl that has 2 pairs of balls and a hairy face.

Everything else, it's all female.

Is there actually anything different abt you vs women?


You conquer your adversaries in 5 minutes on an anonymous forum, and then leave. Wow. Impressed. And what claims? That if you had X amount of dollars, you'd conquer Y amount of terrain. Sure. Right. Okay. And who cares?
1st you accused me of something but can't give an example of it.

2nd that was an example of ambition.

3rd You obviously cared since you bring it up a 2nd time, and I've explained it.

Why do I feel like I'm having a discussion with a chick?
 

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Men are simply responding to the situations they find themselves in... See, the reason I don't like the phrase "Growing A Pair of Balls" is because to each individual, that means something different... Its not advice, its just a weak generalization, due to you failing to target actual things that an individual can do, just summarize, generalize, its just very weak. Furthermore, it leaves room for it to be misinterpreted, maybe this means go break the law to somebody.

If anything is insulting, it is the idea that a generalization is decent advice. Please go read a book or something.



Well, lets start with this: Should men marry? Only if they're PLANNING on reproducing. This is terrible advice, because its simply solved with a prenup; yeah, she can glean child support from you, but if you are not having kids, why not get married? There is literally no downside, you get divorced, how big is this hit that you would take from that possibly going to be without kids in the mix? Alimony maybe. I would actually promote the opposite, do not get married to somebody you have a child with, because then you are literally left with no protection, your pre-nup can be worked around through kids and child support, who knows what other things would happen. Furthermore, if your partner dies, without a will no less, their estate goes to probate, where as if you are married, this isn't the case, unless otherwise outlined.

Any man who deliberately impregnates a woman, and then deliberately leaves her to raise his offspring, either alone or with another man, should be castrated. Men do not have birth rights. Period. Your statement is of your own volition, without any ground in reality. Jail exists, so that you don't have to say sorry... I would argue, Child Support serves the same function. Yes, of course these kids are going to be impacted by not having a father around, but you know what happens then? Those children become instilled with the qualities of women, begin to believe that they can come and go as they please... Sound familiar? Yes, these same dudes that are being raised by single mothers, are then going out and creating even more single mothers... So... We should castrate these men, because they share the tendencies of a woman, do womanly things, understand woman better? What you don't understand is all the things that you guys preach on here, its all conducive of being raised by a single mother... All this game nonsense, all this player ****, all so you can go on and make some more single mothers, right? Quit playing both sides of the field, choose a side and stick to it and that choice should be made off of logical facts, not feelings or anecdotes... Those men are just as, if not greater victims than the mothers and it is not of their own fault to be in that situation, so to go ahead and castrate somebody on that basis, its just dumb, its a dumb thing to say, again, just generalizing without any real advice.

"Why are you whiteknighting, ShePays?!" (The Incel-MGTOW-PUA nexus choir asks) I dont understand.


You want to have a harem of 10 wives and raise 100 kids, under one big roof, or on a compound? That's fine with me. But, if you want to "father" one child, and leave him(or her) to be raised by his single mother, you're a piece of shiit, and should just spend the money for the vasectomy, because YOU are the problem with modern Western Civilization. YOU are responsible for the decline. Again, this is wrong, men are just responding to their environment, their response does not make them a piece of ****, some people will enter the parenting role and will eventually have to leave it, doesnt mean they are a piece of ****, means life changed. As @Spaz said above, we will fail, we will fall to our knees, that doesnt make you or anybody else a piece of ****, it means everyone's life in that situation is going to be harder, yes, but some people would say that is a gift, not a curse... If the Children are being negatively impacted and you don't want to leave because then you'll be a piece of ****, what then? Some guys just are not cut out for fatherhood, it is what it is, doesnt mean we should castrate them.


Who doesn't have my respect? Any piece of shiit who knocks a girl up, because he thinks it makes him a man, or that it will force her to marry him, or any other weak pathetic motive, only proving he has inferior genes, and shouldn't be reproducing, in the first place. Why do I care about your respect when all it amounts to are weak generalizations?

I have saw some good posts from you ShePays, haven't been here long, already saw a couple good ones, but this is definitely not one of them and in fact, is an egregious misunderstanding on your part, to tar and feather those who have not committed an act, but participated in a cycle.... This misunderstanding, this... Emotion, is something I would come to expect from a woman. This emotion, this "Castrate!" this is things that are becoming of a woman to say, not a man and so I would implore you, just as you implored me, to "Grow A Pair of Balls" and by growing a pair of balls, what I mean is recognizing that maybe there are more complexities about in a situation of single parenthood, yes single parents are ****ty parents, that has been factually proven, but all I see is you adding to the problem with all that player ****, then you come in here and get on your high horse? Really guy?
How did you manage to write a fvcking essay just to say that you feel insulted when someone asks you to grow a pair of balls?

Damn, I didn't even manage to read all of it.

This is like BeExcellent posts, she just puts her emotions and mixes it with her brains to finally come out an essay.
 

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Wow. I am so glad I asked you to dig deeper, because now I see your problem: too much empathy, and an unwillingness to assign blame. What does that sound like to you? It sounds just like a woman, to me. It sounds like a man raised by a woman. It sounds like a man who wants a woman to be his rock.
This is exactly what happens when a man has been raised by a single mom or has been disproportionately influenced by mommy dearest.

I sincerely hope that they're a minority in ur country.
 

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He's our site moron; best just to laugh at his comments and enjoy the entertainment. No one listens to him. Besides, guys here forget, he's into trannies and lady boys, not girls. He posted about his experiences in his early days on so suave.
Hahaha, you're still around stalking me since 2019 huh?

All that migraine attacks and BP increases you're been blaming on just the fvcking rain might just disappear if you learn some anger management skills.

BTW did you take my advice and registered with Loveshack.org?

Cry babies would fit in nicely there.
 

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I initially thought he took it personally because he erroneously assumed that, simply because I riffed off of his post, every word of my post was directed at him. Once he responded in more detail, though, I realize he took it personally because he's an advocate for single-motherhood and absentee-"fatherhood," which explains why he wants a well-off Baby-Mama...so that she can't hit him up for child support, when he drops an egg in her nest, and bolts...like his daddy, like his daddy's daddy, and like his daddy's daddy's daddy. "How can such a long honored family tradition be responsible for the decline of Western Civilization?" -- he attempts to reason, with his feminized brain.

These are alien concepts to boys raised by women. The experience tends to produce men who are peculiarly obsessed with women, to the exclusion of almost all else. They're the perfect worshippers at the temple. They epitomize the Oedipus Complex, minus the masculinizing need to compete with a father for their mother's affection, because they never had a father. It's just all mommy lust, with no sporting element. "Why can't women raise good men?" they think. "After all, I was raised by women, and am I not a good man?" It's truly sad.

People wonder why these kids "fight" 6-on-1, and use the heads of their fallen schoolyard-grudge "adversaries" as trampolines, and then cry in court, with their balling mamas swearing to the judge about what "good boys" they are, because "he loves his mama." The fact is that they fight like boys raised by women. Look at a cat fight, and it looks very similar.

Hopefully, the feminized boys will stick around long enough to work through their butt-hurt.
Truly pitiful.

And they're gonna get a world of pain just because of how they think.

Because it will influence how they end up doing things.

And how they end up doing things is what women actually finds repulsive in the long run because no regular woman truly wants to date another woman, even when they wish for a more sensitive man.

Deep down, women has this driving need to have a masculine man, not just in looks, but in mannerism - in how he walks, in how he talks and MOST IMPORTANTLY in how he thinks, the exact opposite of her.

Opposite attracts each other.

The same repulses.

Yet these men here talk abt how they want to make themselves more beautiful, more sensitive, etc.

If I were to take a $100 dollar bill, in a middle of a busy walkway, crush it in my palm, throw it on the ground, jump on it repeatedly, just making it look undesirable and then leave it there, shouting to everyone, who takes it 1st gets to keep it, you think there would not be a rush for a free $100 dollar bill?

Of course people will grab that chance.

Because that $100 dollar bill has VALUE.

All these sensitive men here should ask themselves, what is their VALUE when they don't even have the balls to rise up?

When they don't even have the balls to even take some seemingly "harsh" (BTW how the fvck is having some balls written = insulting?) words in Sosuave?

Truly pitiful.
 

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All these sensitive men here should ask themselves, what is their VALUE when they don't even have the balls to rise up?

When they don't even have the balls to even take some seemingly "harsh" (BTW how the fvck is having some balls written = insulting?) words in Sosuave?
Unfortunately, this is the times we live in where the female and SIMP narratives sensitized everyone on being hurt by just words alone from complete strangers and now everyone gets hurt easily and offended. People lose jobs, reputations, friends, etc over words alone.

I miss the days where you just tell someone to say it to my face and get in a fist fight match to settle things. Otherwise you just ignore and move on with your life.

Long gone is the phrase: "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but names can't hurt me"...
 
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