In some situations you can't leave immediately. What if you're with good friends and some guy your group just met tries to roast you in front of your boys?
If it was your entire family in on it and nothing you can do. You can say "i don't have to put up with this shyt" get your girl and leave.
The best would be to anticipate that kind of self-destruction and prevent that from happening altogether.
They don't change.
That's why I'm saying. If you're unlucky enough to have had experienced that kind of toxicity, then why even try it again?
The only legitimate answer is because of the incredibly poor judgment of Pandora. He has no one to blame but himself. He's trying to pin this on his cousins, on his now ex, anyone but himself.
Yeh dude exactly. Im not buying that she didnt feel the tension between me ans my cousin. I even told her many times before that i dont like the guy. She is well aware of this fact. They have met before, but then he was more chill.
I agree with everything you said. Just to clarify the reason i told her " i wont bring you around my friends" is because she often puts words in my mouth when recalling stories. I didnt want her to say some crazy ish that I told her in confidentiality about one my friends. She is one of those girls that mis interprets the facts.The dynamics are discussed in detail in another thread.
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Basically, women are "heat seeking missiles" instinctively seeking out the most alpha male in any room. Your status has clearly been diminished and she no longer respects you.
A simple way to handle this in the future is to tease the guys back, unloading just as much ammo as they throw at you, but with a smile on your face the entire time. It's a defensive measure only, don't go on the offense, or get angry. Just stand your ground and give as much as you get.
But yeah, this one was over before it even began. Telling her you wouldn't bring her around your (male) friends telegraphs a lack of confidence. It's one thing not to, which is perfectly normal and understandable, but it's another thing to tell her you won't. It makes it all too obvious you lack the confidence to keep a girl's interest in light of potential competition.
For those guys trying to draw lessons, there aren't any really. This is some small town hillbilly bullsh-t. Such scenarios are filled with insecure, hyper-aggressive losers who only derive a sense of importance by trying to humiliate others. Their job washing dishes at Arby's certainly ain't cuttin' it.
Allow me to be a d1ck and kick you while you're down.
People always perceive your behavior more intensively if it's not perfectly balanced. If you're too confident, "you're arrogant". If you say nothing, "you're weak". If you don't take their sh*t, "you're too aggressive".
Well, I disagree with this. The man has to protect his girl and prevent her from flying away to other punk. Who the heck is he gonna fvck when She is gone? I know he is free to look into other prospects but with time and though, he may or not find another girl and lay this one off.
I saw some similar comment from you last week I believe. Why are you against dropping a woman whose behaviour is inappropriate? He'll find a better woman within days or weeks, tops. Being nice to his family and laughing at jokes that are directed at him in a malicious way, are two different worlds.
But when 2 guys are making you the butt of the almost every joke its kinda difficult to stay chill. Even the Dalai Lama would be pissed right? What would you have done?
I can see that argument. Thats the argument she was kinda trying to make. This argument is 50% right. The other 50% is her encourging that nonsense. She could have just clung on to me and stopped walking next to him. She also could have stop responding to him. She knew i didnt like him from before we got out the car.
She could have actually been using your cousins to test you. Dont dumpt the girl.
Why not dump the girl? And explain the using cousins to test me? Kinda like a sh*t test? Yeh.....ima fail this one every time. I cant keep calm when other men keep berating me and my girl is trying to make me jealous. But i do think thats a real possibility brotha. Prob was a test
You are right. I am against dropping girls unless you can no longer fvck or use them.
Test or not. I dont like the type of cousin you are describing.
You mean poor judgement meaning bringing her around my cousins in first place?
