Kataix is blunt, but he does make a good point. If you think you are a victim, you surely will be. You can sit around and think you're oppressed, but successful people will rise above every situation. We all have disadvantages to overcome. Unfortunately the Smithsonian sees hard work, planning, and ambition as "white traits", and therefore a bad thing. This kind of thinking is absolute poison, and what concerns me is that this sort of thinking is rapidly becoming the mainstream view, and that I find highly disturbing.
If you intend to vouch for
@Kotaix intent then I can unignore him. But first please read what I'm about to say, and re-confirm if you feel that I've mis-interpreted @Koitaix's post. First of all, he raised the issue of incel and for an issue like that which is not part of this discussion and is not constructive and sounds more like a personal attack. Secondly, he did not phrase his position in the same way you are bringing this new point up here. I've actually being doing some research on further incel terminology and you have a sizable NEET (Not in Education, Employment or Training), and I'll provide the link to this:
https://incels.wiki/w/NEET .
As you said we all have disadvantages, however,
@Kotaix does not know my own circumstances, if I'm a true NEET/incel, and either way the way it's phrased sounds like I'm complaining about my life and blaming white society for everything. That to me sounds very offensive.
What you write is not offensive, it is valid discussion, and a point I would even hit the like button too because it could be plausible that black ghetto-culture and thug-life may have youth people thinking that way and send a message that they don't really have a chance anyway.
However, don't you think that it is the police are treating Blacks, with the prison to pipeline? Remember rap music with songs like "Fvck the Police" by NWA existed because you didn't have smartphones in the 80s recording and exposing what police are doing today? In some way art is creative social commentary on things that are happening in society. But lets be honest, there is employment discrimination? Did I experience some types of discrimination? Of course, I was jerked around by my Aunt on my dad's side of the family and she wasted both my dad's time and my time with respect to making a Real-Estate deal. They use other white Real-Estate agents and that has touched a nerve with me against her. I know of a Black girl who is a friend of the family who went to Ryerson, got a degree, and up to today, still can not get a proper job. I have a Black female cousin who took out three University degrees, went to Law School in Britain and successfully graduated. Her racist law firm lied to her about giving her the documentation she needed to stay in England, treated her badly in the job, and she is now collecting welfare at home because she's unable to find suitable employment back in Canada, despite having a British law degree and three other degrees. I have a Black male cousin who had a good job as a computer technician, but he got laid off because his company was downsizing. Up to today he was unable to find any other employment and had complained that as soon as the interviewer heard his Caribbean accent, or found out he was Black, he didn't get the employment. Out of all these stories, my cousin who went to Britain is the most heart-breaking of them all. My Uncle was treated very badly in his employment life that he ended up having a heart-attack and a stroke and is now in no medical condition to work. I have cousins in the States who put up a new water company and allegedly spread false news to spike-up the stock-price. They ended up going to jail for 5 years, where white people who wrecked the economy in 2008 didn't spend a day in jail. My challenge to you is how do you explain your position out of these cases I've mentioned from my own personal life so say there is no employment discrimination/racism? Do you think blacks are welcomed or just barely tolerated (and even at that one has to worry about Karens), even if you feel it's not a racist country? At some point you have to take the blinders off.
Studies have found that in Quebec, an uneducated white person has better employment prospects than a college educated black person.
I've also read other articles that show that a white felon has better job prospects in the States then an college educated black person with no criminal record.
So, these are very loaded issues for people like
@Kotaix to be posting like that without coming across as extremely offensive. For every personal example I've raised, that I can vouch for, there is a zillion more documented cases and statistics that more than corroborate that blacks keep getting the short end of the stick. We have to be 10 times more qualified and are treated like garbage on the job compared to their white colleagues, and are made to feel that they the employer is doing them a favour by hiring them in the first place. Other times, even here in Toronto, there are racist incidents in construction sites where nooses are left around and racist workers intimidate their black colleagues. When people complain then nothing usually happens to the perpetrators and the complainers are more at risk of losing their jobs! We can go on and on with this, but you can't fault youth or people in black-ghetto culture for feeling the way they do if law-abiding or great black citizens are made to feel they are doomed from the get-go.
Look at this promising Black student whose life was wrecked by a false rape lie by a white woman:
12 years in jail for kissing a white woman who voluntarily went to his house. Again you can't make this stuff up. What does his investment in college education mean if society keeps treating black people badly?