EyeOnThePrize
Master Don Juan
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I've done this before with good success. The idea is simple. I don't masturbate and direct the energy to other facets of my life. Any urges to go out and randomly smash girls simply to satisfy myself are seen as one step above masturbating and are treated the same. The energy is consciously focused and redirected to things like working out, fixing things around the house, travelling, creating passive income, and building personal/social projects to hone skills and enrich my social circle.
This is how I literally rewire my brain to pursue self improvement over women while creating immense value. With no dopamine and sexual relief from fapping I'm left to look at my life through more objective eyes. I begin to relish the feelings of being horny and live in them constantly. I start to see that I've used sex and fapping as an escape in my past. The act of working on myself like this creates a strong feeling of control and dominance. But rather than use it on women I use it to conquer my life.
The last time I did this I went for about 210 days and completely changed my life. I became the most fit I've ever been, earned the most money, travelled the most, and talked to more people/did more things than any other 210 day period of my life. These were also some of the hardest days of my life that tested me completely. The awesome part is I learned to love the challenge and grind. I say the streak ended then because I became so happy with my life that I went out and a solid 9 was practically staring at my mouth waiting for my next words like they were the word of god. She did anything I wanted and the sex was so satisfying and kinky that I ended up relaxing and one by one easing up on my pursuits.
Fast forward 2 years of daily sex(basically on demand) and i relaxed too long, became weak again, and broke it off for my own sanity. And it hurt like a beach because I became so weak.
This time around I'm going to be pickier with the girl I let in and I'm going to focus on never stopping my pursuits. I'm also going to ration the sex to her or whoever I pick, more for myself than her. I'm going to maintain that dominance indefinitely until I own her soul like before, but this time I won't relax until I'm dead.
So far I'm 9 days in. Strength is increasing and I'm retraining the ability to direct mindless arousal once again. I can feel it stabilizing like never before but I think it'll be 3 months before I see serious results. I'll update this thread once a month. Feel free to ask any questions.
This is how I literally rewire my brain to pursue self improvement over women while creating immense value. With no dopamine and sexual relief from fapping I'm left to look at my life through more objective eyes. I begin to relish the feelings of being horny and live in them constantly. I start to see that I've used sex and fapping as an escape in my past. The act of working on myself like this creates a strong feeling of control and dominance. But rather than use it on women I use it to conquer my life.
The last time I did this I went for about 210 days and completely changed my life. I became the most fit I've ever been, earned the most money, travelled the most, and talked to more people/did more things than any other 210 day period of my life. These were also some of the hardest days of my life that tested me completely. The awesome part is I learned to love the challenge and grind. I say the streak ended then because I became so happy with my life that I went out and a solid 9 was practically staring at my mouth waiting for my next words like they were the word of god. She did anything I wanted and the sex was so satisfying and kinky that I ended up relaxing and one by one easing up on my pursuits.
Fast forward 2 years of daily sex(basically on demand) and i relaxed too long, became weak again, and broke it off for my own sanity. And it hurt like a beach because I became so weak.
This time around I'm going to be pickier with the girl I let in and I'm going to focus on never stopping my pursuits. I'm also going to ration the sex to her or whoever I pick, more for myself than her. I'm going to maintain that dominance indefinitely until I own her soul like before, but this time I won't relax until I'm dead.
So far I'm 9 days in. Strength is increasing and I'm retraining the ability to direct mindless arousal once again. I can feel it stabilizing like never before but I think it'll be 3 months before I see serious results. I'll update this thread once a month. Feel free to ask any questions.
